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Why does my friends with benefits thinks that it okay for him to cum inside of me, I'm not on any BC pills, and he knows this?

So, I was recently intimate with this guy that I know. And during his climax moment. He just let loose, because I was more lubricated and something just told me to ask him. ( I said, did you cum, already?) (He says, yea that he did. And I said, were. So he pretty much just got quiet. So, decided to put my hands down there and it was like slippery like, super Sonic lol. And I said, did you just cum inside of me. Then he said yea. So I looked over towards his way and I said you must be trying to have kids or something. Are you trying to get me pregnant or something. I said, you do realize that I am not want any kind of shots or pills.. Right. Then he said... Yeah. Then he told me to go pee. Like, I know that he didn't want to mess up his bed or make any stains. Like, he is so obsessed with not messing up his room or his bed what a neat freak lol. But moving forwards. For 1, this man doesn't even have a job, and if he isn't ready to be a father. Then he could have pulled out, at any giving moment but he didn't. So screwed is bad why does he feel like it's okay to do that?
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  • Simple: he's an idiot who is also used to NOT having to take any responsibility for himself (ex: he doesn't have a job), and so if he even bothered to think about it at all, he just assumes that "you'll take care of it" one way or another and that he won't have to deal with it.

    And, I hate to say it, but I must: you're an idiot as well, for sleeping with such a guy without discussing this first and without using a condom when you know you aren't on BC - and for counting on a guy - and especially THIS obviously irresponsible guy - to act responsibly. Yes, some guys DO act responsibly, but many don't, and too many girls let them get away with it. The reality is that YOU are the one MOST affected by pregnancy by far, so it is in YOUR best interest to regulate who gets access to your vagina and under what conditions and by what rules. It seems clear that you set no rules or expectations, and it's clear that he's an idiot who doesn't care, and THAT is how you end up with an unplanned pregnancy.

    PLEASE be smarter in the future, for your own sake especially. You can tell a responsible guy from an irresponsible one - there are lots of signs - but you also need to have a talk before you start having sex with someone, and set boundaries and expectations and find out what THEY believe THEIR part would be - and then decide if their answer is worthy of you giving them sex or not. You have to protect yourself, because no one else can be counted on to do it for you.

    • Facts. 100% you hit it right on the nail. Usually he does good with his pull out game. But No he didn't. I made him and I we didn't get into it earlier that day on Monday. And he mentioned to me how he was hurt because I didn't give him a hug. He says that hugs can change the mood. And I feel as if I did, he would have been more respectful. But he is an ass over all. He is a grown ass man. Like, he has hurt my feelings multiple times in the past. Well last year, but I got over it. And like I said he has this Obsession about his been not getting messed up. He really could of pulled out at any time. Like, TMI.. he was like going in and out slowly. Then when he wanted to bust, he did his business inside of me. Then he tells me to go pee. I'm glad that has cum was leaking out of me. And I want to CVS the same day when I left his house to get me the morning after pill. Because I'm telling me just to go pee wasn't enough. He says he doesn't want any kids rn, or just with me. And he knows that I'm not on any birth control pill but little respect that he showed that day. And I can't completely get mad at him because I'm the one that has let this guy go in raw more then enough times. And we did talk about this stuff like last year. I said I'm giving you the benefit of Doubt for you not to use a condom. And I said, the moment that you feel yourself about to explode. I told him to pull that SOB out. And, that applied for this year to... I should have probably told him and reminded him. But he ain't stupid, he knew what he was doing. Smfh

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  • Girl jesus you do know you can get pregnand from precum too🙄 its slim chance though but still a chance you should be using either birthcontrol or condoms and your friends with benefits is also stupid😂like seriously I hope you both got tested for std's before you started fucking because it seems line neither of you know anything or simply do not care😂

    • Well him and I don't use protection. And we never did, maybe once or twice, but that's it. And if I did the BC, I will not be responsible I'm just being honest. And, I hate taking pills. He usually do good at pulling out. But... Noooo he wanted to keep it in. So good thing I'm looking out for myself I went to CVS to go get me the morning after pill.

    • Good but seriously the pullout method is really not a secure method😂if you want to do it raw just have anal but for vaginal sex you need some kind of protection

    • Facts. Thank You for the advice

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  • He sounds like an asshole who doesn't care about you or anyone else and who will 100% get you pregnant and then leave you with the baby. Don't waste your time with this person and find someone who cares for you.

    • Girl you are 100% right. And I don't think that he will leave me with the baby, he loves kids. But he would try to be in denial that he didn't get me pregnant and saying that I was with someone else. He did ish like that before last year. And I mean I can't completely get mad at him I'm the one that's letting him hit it raw. But usually he is good at pulling out. But, your right he was acting like an ass with no care that day smh.

  • First off, a friend with benefits? You need to try and start a relationship with someone.

    Secondly, it's probably because it's more enjoyable. He's an ass who only wants sex.

    • You are right. He usually is good about pulling out, but with the disrespect that I fell from him was just so wrong. Smh. And he was acting real careless that day.

    • He's using a condom, right?

    • Nope smh

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  • Omg don’t let him do that

    • Won't girl

  • Good luck with the pregnancy

    • Well I took a morning after pill. So..

    • Then why did you say your not on any Pill If you were just gonna be anyway. Kinda a moot point then. and don't matter now. And don't matter that he did cum because you would just take the pill shrugs.

    • Like BC pills. Sorry I should have been more clear. I don't have them prescribed from a doctor. And also, the kind of birth control pill that I did take is to prevent the sperm from reaching an egg. To kill it off to prevent from getting pregnant. This is over the counter medicine. And the reason why I'm not on any birth control pills, is because I don't allow men to just hit it raw and cum inside of me. I only agreed for him to not wear a condom, because his penis is kind of small lol. And with the condom it was pretty irritating for the both of us. He would have condom sizes that was way too big for his LMAO.. 🤣😅🤪. And we both are clean. Like, the last two times he did fantastic what's pulling out go the second time we did have sex he didn't cum. But most recently he did, and inside of me. Smh

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  • You should try to avoid this situation in the future. Maybe stop having sex with him if he is going to be so carefree.

  • Well why didn't u ask if hé had a condom

    • Exactly

    • @Brownisback We don't use them... Lol. 😏🤫

  • Did he graduate highschool? He's an idiot dump him, but honestly you need to take ownership too, why in hell in this day in age would a woman not be on birth control unless:

    Married to an awesome dude

    Trying to take down a dude w a lot of money

    She has a lot of money and doesn't need the dudes help

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