What is something about sex you didn’t know about as a virgin?

I’m curious what types of things surprised you during your first time having sex/what you’d want your virgin self to know if you could tell them something. Was the length of sex different than you expected? Weird noises you didn’t know would happen? Fumbling around/not sure where to put things? If you could give advice/real info to virgins about things you didn’t know (but maybe wished you did), what would you say?

Advice for someone’s first time?
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  • I whas expected to be painful olso for boys, all idiots whas teling that your skin on the dick (uncircumcised guys) will be brake by the pussy and you will olso bleed and it will be horible. I whas expecting somting like a knif inside that pussy that will cut me. (nothing bad happen).
    Later not a guy belive me i made sex because of this story that nothing bad hapen to me. I finde out that all my classmmate whas virgins. I make sex to get relevate of my virginity because whas a lot of idiots who tell is a shame and things like that and make fun of me. Lather i finde out i whas one of the few that whasn't anymore.
    I will tell to myself to be more confidance and just go for any girl and pussy because nothing bad can hapen then to say "No". Have balls and go talk, invite, try to touch if i want to touch because she will take that hand away if she don't want, but olso they like confidance guys and whit initiatives.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's obvious you wrote the other post, please don't do this to yourself. It's obviously what your body wants, but having self control is an important aspect of living as a mature adult. If you do this to yourself you surely will regret it. It will leave you with emotional and mental scarring, that will affect future relationships. Do you really want to sacrifice your future marriage for this? No one said self control and deferred gratification were easy, but the results speak for themselves.

    • Other post? Lol not really sure what you’re talking about but having premarital sex is a personal choice... You do you, let others do what they want.

    • Literally, the same question within a half hour and the same age range, seemed more than likely, but fair enough. All I'm saying is you don't want to later regret it. There always remains a chance for pregnancy and condoms don't stop all stds. Some stds can leave you sterile if not treated in time. Also, you will damage future relationships with this, not to mention your own life quality.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I remember being confused because when I lost my virginity, I was expecting blood right as he entered, but I didn't start bleeding till we were done. And I thought something was wrong with me

    • That’s interesting- I’ve never heard that before/always assumed it would be during, but maybe we wouldn’t notice until after? If you have any others to add, feel free! Super interested in a girls perspective given that I am one haha

  • I did not realize how "positions" worked. My pot belly was in the way and it did not work out so well.

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  • for virgin guys... practice putting a condom on by yourself :)

    • It's weird that I'm 32, definitely not a virgin, never helped a guy put on a condom, and now if the situation were to come up, I'm not sure I would know how to do it

    • @ellkell I don't think is weird - likely many women wouldn't know at first. My suggestion to a virgin to practice was so he wouldn't panic right before his big moment and struggle with doing it... not that it's difficult but... with everything else going on at that moment, learning how to put on a condom would be better ahead of time ha... If you really want to try it, get a few condoms and could either do it over your finger or a dildo or even something like a cucumber... :)

  • How about ---- everything !! You don't know a THING about sex when you're a virgin, except possible about contraception.

  • Its never as good as you expect it to be/the way you see it in porn

    • Wait so you’re saying in general that sex was disappointing? You had too high of expectations?

    • Sex has never been good for me. However a lot of inexpieranced people have nothing else to go on other than porn. It will scew yoir expectations even if you dont realise it

    • Interesting. I guess I’ve heard that if you have expectations for it to be like porn, it’s disappointing. But once you know what it actually is like and don’t have the expectations for perfection it’s a lot of fun.

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  • Whoever moves more during sex may get tired out. Masturbating is a lot less work.

  • That virginity is way over hyped and doesn't really matter at all

  • Pardon me but I was surprised at how warm and wet woman can get

  • I couldn't believe how wet she was. Like I heard about it but until I experienced it I had no idea it got that wet. Pleasant surprise.

  • I didn't realize how much condoms suck. Happy to now be in a long term relationship with birth control.

  • How fast I would cum

  • During my first time I didn't even know about how to get the motions right or how to position for doggy. I was hopeless my first couple times which sucked because the girl was really hot and I think my poor performance put her off taking things further with me