Boy's weird boners?

do men just randomly get an erection without them even doing anything? or did my boyfriend suddenly remember something hot or saw something on his phone? i'm asking this to make sure he's not cheating on me.
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Superb Opinion

  • Dudes get boners all the time. Even though they sometimes mean we're horny, 95% of the time we're just chilling and one pops up. Another thing i hear a lotta girls ask is about sleep boners: we aren't horny or having dirty dreams, we're just hella relaxed and boners just sorta happen

Most Helpful Guy

  • I’ve been getting them less as I get older.


    Not sure if it’s cause of ed (I hope not)


    But I think it’s just cause I’m more tame. I don't know how to describe it,


    But when I was younger the most basic shit turned me on

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some do; but even if it is a random boner it doesn't preclude him from cheating.

  • Random or just see a girl walking and boom there it is

    • i've seen cases of both

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Could be either way. But it does off pretty much randomly sometimes, especially when you're young and, to be blunt, haven't been using it enough.

  • Men just gets random boners constantly.

  • They randomly get them. Not a big deal to me.

  • yeah we can just get them randomly, and for me it's super easy to get them.

  • It can happen but not often unless he has feelings for you.

  • Yes happens all the time. The younger the man is the more it happens. It happens till the penis stops working ( meaning no longer gets a erection)

  • it happens, mostly in school smh

  • erections really do just happen. penises really do have a mind of their own.

  • My husband gets them all the time.

  • We do randomly become aroused, usually by something we see or think about.
    I get hard every time I see Milla Jovovich.

  • We will occasionally get random bones. Especially when we're in our teens or young adult life.

  • You're too young to be having a boyfriend anyway

  • Random boners can occur

  • Even a nude picture of a woman in the phone can cause erection if he likes the picture. He doesn't need to be in online contact with some girl else to get on.

  • Yes we do

  • Depends?

  • it has a mind of its own

  • its completely random sometimes

  • İt depends. Their dick might be hard intentionally and accidently as well. İt is really easy to get hard. Like when they wake up or driving a car or when you want to see it.

    • Can I ask you a question

    • You can

    • Would you date a great guy if he didn’t have a big penis

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  • Why would it mean he's cheating on you? Like do you think he literally just had sex with some chick while you were turned away and you missed all of that but you saw that he still had a hardon? Seems unlikely!

    • he'd been hanging around a female friend of mine while im at work a lot and i'm getting suspicious that he saved her nudes on his phone

    • Your friend sends your guy nudes? Are you sure of that? How's her body?

    • She has a very nice body, hour glass shaped, and i'm susspicous but not sure.

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