Is there something wrong with preferring a vanilla sex?

[mmv99]

No there isn't, we all like what we like but it might be a little harder to find someone as most people have a one or more kinks.

The ideal solution would be to find a person has truthfully mentioned that they like vanilla sex as well. The optimal word here is truthfully.

Oh, another thing, make sure you mention this to the person when you first start dating because if a guy has fetish's and does not know that it will be forever impossible you might have a huge problem down the road. As with anything, truthfulness and communication is key for the long term.

[ThomasTKay]

I prefer it. I love making love the natural way where I'm on top, her legs spread, slipping inside/out when she's so wet, she has an unshaven bush, we kiss, look into each other's eyes, say I love you, we cum together, I stay inside after, we share tender caresses, we fall asleep together, wake up, start sliding again and repeat it a few times. It's connecting and amazing to share this closeness with a woman. It's beautiful.

[DrippingHoney]

You're preferences are your own. There's nothing wrong with preferring more traditional sex.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

No, there's nothing wrong with it at all. Most people are vanilla from what I've observed.

[AustinMan]

No. It's just unusual. We all have kinks. I'm guessing you're repressing yours.

[ghostqueen]

Nope, everyone has their own preference.

[Nalix]

There's a lot of wiggle room inside what can be considered vanilla. A lot of roleplay, power exchange, toys, experimentation, and other things can still fit in what is considered vanilla.

Nothing wrong with that though. What do you consider vanilla?

[Anonymous]

There's probably a lot of people that do. I do also. You just don't hear about it as much because we don't need to talk about it like with the other things lol. It's nice to hear this from a woman though. It seems like it's women that "get bored" quickly with sex.

[normalice]

Preferring? Not really. But usually horny people get kinkier ideas, so only wanting vanilla suggests a low sex drive.

[_SOARER]

Nothing wrong with that. Its healthy and natural.
It should still feel good to! people have too much sex nowadays thats why they do extreme stuff :p

[Tamera952]

No way, nothing wrong with a little vanilla bean... i refer it a little 'tame ' too

[TonyV]

Vanilla scent on what? We all have a favorite scent nothing wrong with yours being vanilla.

[AvaW359]

No it is not wrong. People like different things...

[blutwolfe]

I prefer vanilla honestly, just passionate vanilla lol

Some people get so bored with sex they gotta do all this shit just to get off

[Jamie05rhs]

No. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. Whatever feels most comfortable for you and makes you feel good (both physically and emotionally.)

[here2helpuALL]

That depends on if you partner has some kinks they wish to try. Nothing wrong with it tho. To each their own

[Anonymous]

not initially. But after a while in a LTR you want some change up, even if its just somewhere different or a bit of kink.

[Haelaeix123]

No not at all, if its what your into then its what your into

[Massageman]

Vanilla works. Whipped cream comes in vanilla. Pudding comes in vanilla.

[missygurl]

Well whenever I tell someone I prefer vanilla sex, they tell me I’m boring. But it’s whatever. 🤣

[tallcuck]

Not realy, it just gets boring after a while for most.

[Imuglyandiknowit]

no i think there are so many more people who are boring in the bedroom than they’re willing to admit

[Dargil]

Not at all. I call ours "French Vanilla"; ordinary F&S with a few minor kinks.

[Anonymous]

That means you are not brainwashed by things on internet. You have wonderful, peaceful mind, don't ruin it by being on here.