I'm a man, and was raped by women, I think I liked it but I didn't want it, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I was at a party when i was 17, I didn't get drunk (I had a few drinks though) and i thought it would be fun to play a game of truth or dare with my friends. Eventually, i was offered a drink by one of the girls (there were 3) and took it, i was bored. Then one asked me if i'd have sex with them all as a dare, i said no and was uncomfortable so i tried to leave, but my head went fuzzy and i fell down the stairs and couldn't move. They came down and stripped me then themselves. I couldn't speak either, so one sat on my face while the other sucked my thing until they started taking turns riding me while the others licked me or touched me in other places until it was their turn. I didn't want it, i wish it didn't happen, but i loved it too. It was the best sex i've had, it wasn't very clear but i came inside them at least 3 times and never lost my wood. Eventualy they dressed me back up and put something in my mouth and i woke up on my front lawn. I'm a guy so getting raped like this is embarrassing. What do i do? How do i report it if i enjoyed it? I still know one and she doesn't bring it up. Has this ever happened to you?

[blutwolfe]

Oh, you were in a relationship and went to a party, picture is more clear now, would you feel the same way if it didn't ruin your relationship? I feel like that does alter your viewpoint on this.

You did go to a party while in a relationship though, that's usually a no no because stuff like that happens.

[Neko911]

He's lying

[Twalli]

Tape is unwanted or unapproved sex. To be honest rape happens in most relationships, because you don't always ask and wait for a yes every time you have sex. It's generally not reported or called rape, because it was enjoyed, and if consent had a chance to be given, it would have. Rape doesn't mean you didn't enjoy yourself, it just means you didn't consent to it beforehand.

[AzureGirl]

Report it. You didn’t want it, you verbally did not consent, and they took advantage of you anyway. It needs to be reported so it doesn’t happen again.

[Neko911]

He's lying. He posted almost the same thing like a year ago here

[Neko911]

You're lying. You posted something just like this last year

[Asker]

Sorry, but i didn't use this site until this year, maybe it was someone else, ntm i posted it anonymously so there's no way for u to say i'm him, it's really rude, i'm just trying to get help. It's not impossible that something like this has happened to more than one person. Please stop trying to make it hard for me to get advice

[Neko911]

And yet it's exactly what the other person said

[Neko911]

And no it's not impossible for two people to be raped. What's impossible is them saying the exact same thing happened

[Asker]

It is possible, as this exact situation is common, also, even if i was the same person, why would asking for more help be lying? you're just going out of your way to try to make someone get less help than they deserve.. dick move buddy

[Neko911]

After a year? And I've seen this same thing posted b4 that as well.

[Asker]

All i'm saying is that without any proof that im the same person you're trying to tell people not to help me. Also, even if i was, it's not lying to ask the same question twice if you don't get enough information to help. But IM NOT

[Twalli]

Let's say this was the same person, it doesn't mean he's lying nothing in the post says that he hasn't asked this before

[Agape93]

Call the cops

[Neko911]

He's lying though

[Agape93]

I know, I remember it. This is less for him and more for anyone who was actually assaulted.

[Nonfrivolous]

Its not rape

[Cellestial]

Cool story bro, you should write more of these stories

[skittles2017]

Try talking to the girl you know first. Explain it to her how you feel about this now and how you felt it then. Discuss it and decide what you'll do. I'm not sure if it classes as rape if you enjoyed it.

[Asker]

It does, i looked it up and enjoying rape has nothing to do with it, if you say no or are first it doesn't matter how much you like it, it's rape.

[Asker]

Forced*

[skittles2017]

Ok. Why do you wanna report them?

[Asker]

Because i feel violated, honestly i was in a relationship when it happened and i can't look at my girlfriend the same way. It ruined my relationship. But men reporting their rape by women never goes over easily...

[Neko911]

He's lying dude

[skittles2017]

Look this is a hard one. But personally i don't really believe you with how it ruined your relationship and how you can't look at your girlfriend the same way.

[Anonymous]

No wonder you liked it, most guys love being "raped by a woman", especially if you consider her attractive, but I know that lots of guys are ashamed of admitting they love this kind of fantasy.