Do guys care about how a girls labia looks like?

Im 14, a virgin and let me tell you i really do not look like a virgin down there lol. Do guys care if the labia is long, or short? Or if its not as pink and small as it is in most of the pornos? Im just really self concious down there it doesn't look normal 😅
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by the way im not looking to have sex i just want to make sure i look okay down there, dont misunderstand anything i know im too young!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You are fine. If your vagina looks healthy, has larger than normal lips that are darker, or small hidden lips, or whatever they look like, you are fine. Few men would get upset with a vagina that is not up to what they think it should look like.
    Myself, I like larger lips, and I don't care about the colors. I do care about cleanliness and pubic hairs - keep it trimmed.
    You are fine and the first guy who gets in there will be happy too. Unless he is a jerk.

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

  • Do yourself a favour and stop worrying before you become mentally ill over it.

    Just work with what you've got, whatever that may be.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love when girls ask this question. It’s so funny that they think guys care. When a guy is horny and there’s a girl willing to have sex with him, she could have 3 or 4 labias down there and he’d still have sex with you.
    I do suggest that you learn about sex before having it. Or learn from someone who care about you and your first experience. If you have any questions about how to lose your virginity without it being painful feel free to PM me. 😊

  • Don’t compare yourself to the girl girls you see in porn, ever. It’s never going to benefit anyone. I will admit that some vulvas are prettier than others, but the only ugly ones are the ones that aren’t taken care of. besides, any guy who gets close enough to get a good look is going to be way to preoccupied to be thinking that it doesn’t look like [insert porn start name here]

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  • Don’t be self-conscious, we are all different and real life is not a porn movie. Enjoy being you, enjoy your body. I am certain that when you have a boyfriend he will not be making any sort of judgement like that.

  • As long as it doesn't have wings! Big flappy beef curtains framing the va-jay-jay as some kind of wiggly rooster giblet all like a mustached clam or venus fly trap

  • Well if you ever get to the point and y'alls pants are already off, I highly doubt he's gonna give a fuck lmao, I can say most guys probably don't care considering the fact they're getting laid

  • What do you mean "do not look like a virgin" lol
    Tbh the few vaginas I've seen irl look similar to the ones I see in porn so I'm not an expert on this, but I believe if it gets to the point where he sees your vagina, it's already too late for him to run away (joking 😂). I don't think most guys care if they are attracted to your overall looks, they would try to put their dicks in there, not criticize its aesthetics.

  • I can tell you good opinion if I see it..

    Normally, I love it as clean shaved and puffy.. should be small and good looking.

  • No I don't care

  • I'm sure it's fine. Don't worry about it.

  • As a 14 year old you shouldn't care how guys judge your vagina. It m. j ay lok different when you're older, and it's not like you are sexually active yet.

  • honestly I've very rarely seen a bad looking pussy 😂

  • Not really

  • Some do, some don't. I care about the smell more...

  • No they don't.
    Just inside vagina matters for the guys not outside. If inside is warm and soft , penis will fill comfortable there and guys will enjoy

  • We don't really spend a lot of time looking at your labia - it's very hard to do that when our eyes (and tongue) are at the level of your clit, where they should be.

  • Just saying...

    Do guys care about how a girls labia looks like?
  • We dont usually care. If a guy does care about that he's shallow

  • Every vagina looks different

  • Men usually don't care.

  • If a male cared about how you looked down there, you're with the wrong guy, I personally don't care about how it looks it's all about how I can please a woman

  • All of them look different. There is no right way for them to look. They all look nice

  • Everyone looks different down there, both guys and girls.
    I wouldn't worry about it

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