Can this married older guy be interested or just being friendly?

[Anonymous]

So he keeps saying hi and my name
he likes to tell me to have a nice day
asked if he can add me on social media
he told me I am awesome
He had to do a job where it was close to me today, he started talking to me and than he was like finally I’m close to you.
Umm he helped me out when I had a problem,
I was standing near him today bc we had to work near by and he purposely put tape on my arm I don't know why he would do that, than he made up a nick name for me my name starts with a d so he calls me dirty D I don't know again why. He kinda got mad at me that one day but he was back friendly again and he was like no worried we still friends. Etc please anyone help me understand what’s going on bc im lost
Also I was kinda ignoring him than his like am I ugly or fat or what? Why are you so mean to me , I was like nahh you’re neither I’m the one who’s fat jokingly than his like you’re beautiful and perfect

[AustinMan]

He's definitely interested. What do you think about that?

[Asker]

Interested or friendly?

[AustinMan]

I feel like he's interested.

[Asker]

What makes it sound like his interested, it’s just that I am new to the department and maybe his trying to be friendly to me. Bc I am a bit shy

[Asker]

And when man are friendly they tend to me bit friendly

[Asker]

Be **

[Asker]

Be bit flirty

[AustinMan]

I'm betting he wants to fuck you, his way, hard. You up for that?

[Asker]

What makes you say that?

[Asker]

I am asking bc I never really have male friends I usually hang with females

[AustinMan]

The way he's leading you on and making you work for it.

[AustinMan]

So start being a woman that men love to be around and that loves to be around them. Sort of the belle of the ball.

[Asker]

Hmmm but how is he leading me on? I’m so confused

[AustinMan]

He looks at you in a way that really gets to you but then doesn't follow up. He likes you being a bit confused. Maybe he wants to spank you for it.

[Asker]

What the heck?

[AustinMan]

He's playing a game. I go back to my idea about taking him by the arm and making him talk to you, preferably privately.

[Asker]

Playing a game to get into my pants?

[Asker]

Talk to him to stop all this?

[AustinMan]

Talk to him to find out where he's really coming from and get him squared away if necessary that you're tired of the game.

[ElDiablo666]

He probably DOES like you. But because you are younger, thinks you wouldn't be interest.
So he is just really nice to you.

[wankiam]

i think its quite clear what he wants... sex

[Asker]

How?

[Asker]

What makes it clear

[wankiam]

if it was just workplace flirting he wouldn't be asking for your socials plus he wouldn't be risking a trip to the office for a lesson about innappropriate action towards women at work

[Asker]

What makes it inappropriate? I’m just honestly confused

[wankiam]

post #metoo calling you dirty d is highly innappropriate. he must have not got the memo

[Asker]

Than he was like maybe call you princess D

[wankiam]

well its not quite as questionable... anyway whats your take on it? i mean you know he is married and you now must know he is interested in seeing you away from work

[Asker]

I think he might be just friendly?

[wankiam]

if he was just being friendly i dont think he would ask you to ''add'' him or call you dirty d.

[Asker]

Right

[In_Trance]

men and women can't be friends

[Asker]

Says who?

[Asker]

In America at work married people have friends as females and males

[In_Trance]

In America, cheating is rampant and divorce rates are higher than ever. Both increased since women joined the workforce.