If Your Partner Asked To Handcuff You To The Bed... How Would You Respond?

[MrOracle]

I'm the dominant one - I do the handcuffing.

Smith & Wesson M300 hinged handcuffs

And, yes, I have a couple of different pairs of metal handcuffs, but honestly, handcuffs are, by design, pretty brutal, and if you are "playing" with them, you have to be really careful that they don't hurt themselves - you could cause permanent nerve damage or even break a wrist if you are rough or if they're fighting the cuffs.

Leather wrist cuffs

It's much safer to use leather cuffs - they're wider and soft and very unlikely to cause any permanent damage, yet they restrain just fine, and she can fight them or you can be rough with her if she likes and it might be uncomfortable but she won't be hurt by the cuffs.

Padded wrist & ankle cuffs

My personal favorite is to put her in wrist and ankle cuffs, and then connect her wrist to her ankle on each side. This forces her to spread her legs and keep her knees back, and what could be more fun than that?

[DogEatsCat1973]

There would have been a time I would have been okay with it but not anymore because now it seems women only want to do that to have other men rape the guy or to mutilate and murder the guy. I could never trust that it could not go sinister. As far as cuff her hell no because that would only give her validation if she was to claim something against me later. In fact I am not sure if I would even be involved with anything that is not artificial just to be safe from any hatred against me because I was born male.

[miniminimoon]

I wouldn't want to because
1: I'm the type who really likes to be in control. I don't like feeling helpless.
2: I'd want to touch him. I couldn't stand not being able to touch him.

That being said, I would totally be down to handcuffing HIM.

[Soon2bmi]

If i trust my partner i would probably blush a bit and agree to it (I'm not sure if I'd tell him immediately that it's a fantasy that I've had for a while alrwady though...)

[AustinMan]

Nope. Not gonna happen. I know. Big surprise.

[Jjpayne]

I like the playfulness but I can't tell you how many movies where the girl handcuffs the guy to the bed, seemlessly takes off his pants and shirt, flings them over her back then grabs his wallet and takes off. I've seen it so many times that I'm going to make sure we are very close before that happens 😂

[Jaximus-Lion]

YAAAAAAAS!!! torture me baby, i have been a bad boy
We do this a lot, i did share few photos on one of your older questions , we have playful BDSM kits , whips, eyebinders. She will be teasing me to the max and i love it. That means she will be in control all i got to do is being hard (not a problem) and enjoy the sensational show. I LOVE IT.

[0112358]

I’d have to trust them a fair bit. It’s not a turn on in particular but I’d be willing to try if it was a turn on of theirs and I trusted them enough.

the reverse is closer to a turn on, though I also sort of feel like I’m a man and shouldn’t need handcuffs to hold a woman in place of that’s how we are playing...

[Amraam]

I wouldn't like it. And quite possible object to it. I dont like being restrained. I want to feel control and share that control with my partner. Its not like i have to be dominant all the time and my partner has to be sub all the time. no matter how dominant we both are restraining physical movement is something i think has no place in sex

[BeyondCuriosity]

"That shit better be for you!" lol I'm not about being handcuffed. I don't prefer to handcuff her, but as long as it's someone I know and am comfortable with, I'd do it if they wanted. Wouldn't handcuff a girl I didn't know very well, even if she wanted it. That just seems like a lawsuit waiting to happen. lol

[Hermes-Paris]

Hell no! I am not that stupid. I know her. She will handcuff me to the bed and then go downstairs and steal my piece of cheesecake from the fridge and come back up and eat it in front of me. After she already ate hers. How much BDSM can you get.

[Behappy85]

Think l would blush quite a bit. Other than that I'm not sure how l would react, will have to wait and see if it ever happens

[Freddy78361]

In a relationship there must be trust so OK.
If a 1 night stand no way.

I trust they won't kill me so they will have to deal with the fallout after the fact.

[mmv99]

I am male and dominant, if a girl would want to handcuf me it would not turn me on.

If it turns her on then perhaps but otherwise no.

On the other hand, I like to tie up my wife who is submissive. She enjoys it a lot too.

[newfreshstart]

i would be like sure Sounds very fun I'm willing to try it but first i would put the cuffs on her and be like your under arrest only way to avoid going to jail right now is if you give me oral right now😉 i put on her knees being to push her head slowly if she's ok and then push harder if she's really into it

[cynthiiuh]

I’m gonna tell them that this isn’t police roleplay.

[jsincal]

Yea I’d be down but not handcuffed to anything. And if probably keep a key somewhere she didn’t know. But I’m totally down to hand cuff her.

[pajamasam]

No. Not for me. Being tied down would only make me super nervous and indont think I would be able to relax.

[Barry88]

I would immediately say yes! I did this in the past, although it was more often that I was handcuffed than my girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend), and I always enjoyed it. Not being able to go anywhere with my hands and arms while someone is teasing and pleasuring you is exciting.

[severance]

No. People are getting murdered left, right and center. Taking no chances. Trust nobody.

[SexyAsian]

I would be up for it. We have done it to each other on occasion. 😉

[alice55]

I would just say : "If you want".
That's basically my response for everything I don't care about and don't affect me negatively XD

[Destiel_24]

He has already asked, I'm waiting for him to get the handcuffs

[humanearth]

She don't have to ask. She would just do.

And I would and have done the same. Asking takes the fun and fear of whats going to happen