If Your Partner Asked To Handcuff You To The Bed... How Would You Respond?

[MrOracle]

I'm the dominant one - I do the handcuffing.

Smith & Wesson M300 hinged handcuffs

And, yes, I have a couple of different pairs of metal handcuffs, but honestly, handcuffs are, by design, pretty brutal, and if you are "playing" with them, you have to be really careful that they don't hurt themselves - you could cause permanent nerve damage or even break a wrist if you are rough or if they're fighting the cuffs.

Leather wrist cuffs

It's much safer to use leather cuffs - they're wider and soft and very unlikely to cause any permanent damage, yet they restrain just fine, and she can fight them or you can be rough with her if she likes and it might be uncomfortable but she won't be hurt by the cuffs.

Padded wrist & ankle cuffs

My personal favorite is to put her in wrist and ankle cuffs, and then connect her wrist to her ankle on each side. This forces her to spread her legs and keep her knees back, and what could be more fun than that?

[DogEatsCat1973]

There would have been a time I would have been okay with it but not anymore because now it seems women only want to do that to have other men rape the guy or to mutilate and murder the guy. I could never trust that it could not go sinister. As far as cuff her hell no because that would only give her validation if she was to claim something against me later. In fact I am not sure if I would even be involved with anything that is not artificial just to be safe from any hatred against me because I was born male.

[miniminimoon]

I wouldn't want to because
1: I'm the type who really likes to be in control. I don't like feeling helpless.
2: I'd want to touch him. I couldn't stand not being able to touch him.

That being said, I would totally be down to handcuffing HIM.

[Soon2bmi]

If i trust my partner i would probably blush a bit and agree to it (I'm not sure if I'd tell him immediately that it's a fantasy that I've had for a while alrwady though...)

[AustinMan]

Nope. Not gonna happen. I know. Big surprise.

[Jjpayne]

I like the playfulness but I can't tell you how many movies where the girl handcuffs the guy to the bed, seemlessly takes off his pants and shirt, flings them over her back then grabs his wallet and takes off. I've seen it so many times that I'm going to make sure we are very close before that happens 😂

[Jaximus-Lion]

YAAAAAAAS!!! torture me baby, i have been a bad boy
We do this a lot, i did share few photos on one of your older questions , we have playful BDSM kits , whips, eyebinders. She will be teasing me to the max and i love it. That means she will be in control all i got to do is being hard (not a problem) and enjoy the sensational show. I LOVE IT.

[0112358]

I’d have to trust them a fair bit. It’s not a turn on in particular but I’d be willing to try if it was a turn on of theirs and I trusted them enough.

the reverse is closer to a turn on, though I also sort of feel like I’m a man and shouldn’t need handcuffs to hold a woman in place of that’s how we are playing...

[Amraam]

I wouldn't like it. And quite possible object to it. I dont like being restrained. I want to feel control and share that control with my partner. Its not like i have to be dominant all the time and my partner has to be sub all the time. no matter how dominant we both are restraining physical movement is something i think has no place in sex

[BeyondCuriosity]

"That shit better be for you!" lol I'm not about being handcuffed. I don't prefer to handcuff her, but as long as it's someone I know and am comfortable with, I'd do it if they wanted. Wouldn't handcuff a girl I didn't know very well, even if she wanted it. That just seems like a lawsuit waiting to happen. lol

[Hermes-Paris]

Hell no! I am not that stupid. I know her. She will handcuff me to the bed and then go downstairs and steal my piece of cheesecake from the fridge and come back up and eat it in front of me. After she already ate hers. How much BDSM can you get.

[Behappy85]

Think l would blush quite a bit. Other than that I'm not sure how l would react, will have to wait and see if it ever happens

[Freddy78361]

In a relationship there must be trust so OK.
If a 1 night stand no way.

I trust they won't kill me so they will have to deal with the fallout after the fact.

[mmv99]

I am male and dominant, if a girl would want to handcuf me it would not turn me on.

If it turns her on then perhaps but otherwise no.

On the other hand, I like to tie up my wife who is submissive. She enjoys it a lot too.

[cynthiiuh]

I’m gonna tell them that this isn’t police roleplay.

[Barry88]

I would immediately say yes! I did this in the past, although it was more often that I was handcuffed than my girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend), and I always enjoyed it. Not being able to go anywhere with my hands and arms while someone is teasing and pleasuring you is exciting.

[jsincal]

Yea I’d be down but not handcuffed to anything. And if probably keep a key somewhere she didn’t know. But I’m totally down to hand cuff her.

[pajamasam]

No. Not for me. Being tied down would only make me super nervous and indont think I would be able to relax.

[newfreshstart]

i would be like sure Sounds very fun I'm willing to try it but first i would put the cuffs on her and be like your under arrest only way to avoid going to jail right now is if you give me oral right now😉 i put on her knees being to push her head slowly if she's ok and then push harder if she's really into it

[severance]

No. People are getting murdered left, right and center. Taking no chances. Trust nobody.

[nodnol32]

I won't be surprised. My girlfriend has tied me up once and she loves being the dominant one. I'll happily entertain her wish.

[letssee89]

No, I'm not into restraints. If, however, I could break the restraints in an emergency, I'd consider it, but it's not something I'm looking to do.

[SexyAsian]

I would be up for it. We have done it to each other on occasion. 😉

[alice55]

I would just say : "If you want".
That's basically my response for everything I don't care about and don't affect me negatively XD

[Destiel_24]

He has already asked, I'm waiting for him to get the handcuffs

[humanearth]

She don't have to ask. She would just do.

And I would and have done the same. Asking takes the fun and fear of whats going to happen

[AndyOh]

Yes, let me get into a comfortable position, unless she had an idea. I would be all for it.

[hellish-kitty]

Nah. I might handcuff *him* to the bed, but not with me as the submissive.

[Nalix]

For her, absolutely, but I'd be more interested in what happens afterwards. Is she using one of my scripts?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Handcuff me baby and take daddy as your prisoner. LMFAO

[Rizwan_khan]

I think it's kind a sexy to be in handcuff you can tease your partner in sexual way in order to enjoy sex 🙂

[dragoblack]

Ok, to start and disclaimer. Bondage requires absolute trust. Never do bondage with someone you just met. And for the answer to the question, yes, please

[Anonymous]

Um no, you aren't restraining me for anything. That is way too rapey for me.

[TaureanBull81]

You kinky girl! May as well bring out the blindfold as well 😍🤩

[Massageman]

"Face up or face down, babe?"

and "You're next!"

[John83]

Am I under arrest, officer? Don't you want to search first and then cuff me?

From there, she decides what happens.

[worldscolide]

uh i would let her.. thats literally a fantasy of mine.. i even have a 4 poster canopy bed..

[Espresso-Grande]

yeah, I'm very open-minded in the "bedroom" with my boyfriend. But I prefer to be pinned and restrained by his hands, rather than handcuffs. It turns me on more

[YHL6965]

"Oooh, have I been a bad boy officer? What if I'm resisting arrest? What if you have to wrestle me for a bit? Dirty tactics allowed of course."

[TheAfrikan]

Then i would would like what if they raid us or what if the house burns n we have to run. Yet am chained to the pole.

[jasco]

i mean hey i say sure if she's into it but then i ask what she want me to do lol cause I don't know

[wouterv]

I mean fuck it aslong as were haveing fun i dont care at least i have to work less

[apollo3000]

If she was to be wet and wild and free about it, most definitely!

[dudeinohio]

Sure. We have a pair. I've never been on them though. Would be willing to try.

[michaelbernad001]

Nope. I have seen lots of movies where handcuffed sex either partner gets torchered and killed 😉😘😍

[venomhbk1313]

Sure I wouldn't mind but I'd have my spare key to my cuffs just in case

[simplelikeme]

Only if I can get to tie you up and handcuff you too baby :-) LOL

[Pete671]

Being asked misses the point entirely imho, but I would co-operate,,,

[Natashakir72]

He sometimes does it and I like it. I like the feeling of him being in control

[JosyJosy]

I want to do the handcuffing :(

[boyfriend1915]

Haha it sounds fun let's decide the safe words and the limits and yeaah but no partner LoL 😂

[Xoxocutekitty]

"Whatever you want babe, take me" *wink*

[your_One]

I'm down with anything tbh, she can do whatever she wants.

[sc-papaj6500]

I happen to have misplaced the key hopefully you can survive off semen for a week

[CharlieDMX]

Fair game. As long as she accepts I'll use the handcuffs on her on another occasion

[Benjamin_HM]

Uffffff... I love to get fucked handcuffed by a girl

[Purplemonkey24]

Hell yes! Sign me up :)

[cardellaaa92]

Lmaooo I’d be surprised at first... but why not 😋

[BlondeGoneWild]

Don’t ask me just do it

[fit_confident_blonde]

Me and my boyfriend did bondage last night

[lanadelrey25]

YEE HAWWW WE GON' FOR A RIDE

[MrHopper]

Say yes then steal all there stuff

[magiusX26]

her handcuffing me no. me handcuffing her, sure.

[Anonymous]

I would love to try it