If Your Partner Asked To Handcuff You To The Bed... How Would You Respond?

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  • I'm the dominant one - I do the handcuffing.

    Smith & Wesson M300 hinged handcuffs
    Smith & Wesson M300 hinged handcuffs

    And, yes, I have a couple of different pairs of metal handcuffs, but honestly, handcuffs are, by design, pretty brutal, and if you are "playing" with them, you have to be really careful that they don't hurt themselves - you could cause permanent nerve damage or even break a wrist if you are rough or if they're fighting the cuffs.

    Leather wrist cuffs
    Leather wrist cuffs

    It's much safer to use leather cuffs - they're wider and soft and very unlikely to cause any permanent damage, yet they restrain just fine, and she can fight them or you can be rough with her if she likes and it might be uncomfortable but she won't be hurt by the cuffs.

    Padded wrist & ankle cuffs
    Padded wrist & ankle cuffs

    My personal favorite is to put her in wrist and ankle cuffs, and then connect her wrist to her ankle on each side. This forces her to spread her legs and keep her knees back, and what could be more fun than that?

    • You have lovely taste in restraints 🎀

    • You might like the pink set, actually...

      If Your Partner Asked To Handcuff You To The Bed... How Would You Respond?

    • Very much so... 🌸

Most Helpful Guy

  • There would have been a time I would have been okay with it but not anymore because now it seems women only want to do that to have other men rape the guy or to mutilate and murder the guy. I could never trust that it could not go sinister. As far as cuff her hell no because that would only give her validation if she was to claim something against me later. In fact I am not sure if I would even be involved with anything that is not artificial just to be safe from any hatred against me because I was born male.

    • Thanks for the detailed feedback 🎀

Most Helpful Girls

  • I wouldn't want to because
    1: I'm the type who really likes to be in control. I don't like feeling helpless.
    2: I'd want to touch him. I couldn't stand not being able to touch him.

    That being said, I would totally be down to handcuffing HIM.

    • Sameeeeee ahahahaha 😆

    • Update: I've already said it but that's a hearty HELL YES. I would love to handcuff him. That would be hot

    • Loveeeeeeee this post 🙊🎀🌸

  • If i trust my partner i would probably blush a bit and agree to it (I'm not sure if I'd tell him immediately that it's a fantasy that I've had for a while alrwady though...)

    • That's sweet 🦋

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • "Whatever you want babe, take me" *wink*

    • Perfect answer 💖

  • Nope. Not gonna happen. I know. Big surprise.

    • Mmhmm... It's gonna happen 🤷 jkjk 😆

  • yeah, I'm very open-minded in the "bedroom" with my boyfriend. But I prefer to be pinned and restrained by his hands, rather than handcuffs. It turns me on more

  • Think l would blush quite a bit. Other than that I'm not sure how l would react, will have to wait and see if it ever happens

    • 🌸BLUSHES ✨

    • 😊🤭

  • He has already asked, I'm waiting for him to get the handcuffs

    • OMG 🙈🦋

    • Your reaction is cute tho

    • BLUSHES ✨

  • Say yes then steal all there stuff

    • Danggggg 🔥

    • Treat them mean...

  • No. Not for me. Being tied down would only make me super nervous and indont think I would be able to relax.

    • Totally understandable 🎀

  • I’m gonna tell them that this isn’t police roleplay.

    • Gotcha

  • He sometimes does it and I like it. I like the feeling of him being in control

  • Yes, let me get into a comfortable position, unless she had an idea. I would be all for it.

    • Ahahahaha

  • Yea I’d be down but not handcuffed to anything. And if probably keep a key somewhere she didn’t know. But I’m totally down to hand cuff her.

    • Lovely 🦋

  • No. People are getting murdered left, right and center. Taking no chances. Trust nobody.

    • Good point 😱

  • I like the playfulness but I can't tell you how many movies where the girl handcuffs the guy to the bed, seemlessly takes off his pants and shirt, flings them over her back then grabs his wallet and takes off. I've seen it so many times that I'm going to make sure we are very close before that happens 😂

    • You know what handcuffed at the same time I could do that... But then how would we get out 😂 I could handcuff her but of course it's up to her and her comfort but I did not say no per say, for me being handcuffed I'd just really need to trust her first 😊

    • Loveeeeeeee this post!!! I enjoyed reading 😆🎀😆

    • Thank you 😊

  • YAAAAAAAS!!! torture me baby, i have been a bad boy
    We do this a lot, i did share few photos on one of your older questions , we have playful BDSM kits , whips, eyebinders. She will be teasing me to the max and i love it. That means she will be in control all i got to do is being hard (not a problem) and enjoy the sensational show. I LOVE IT.

    • Ahahahaha 😆👏👏👏👏

  • In a relationship there must be trust so OK.
    If a 1 night stand no way.

    I trust they won't kill me so they will have to deal with the fallout after the fact.

    • Thanks for the detailed feedback 🌸

  • Don’t ask me just do it

    • Danggggg 🔥 Fantastic feedback 🙈😆👀

  • Hell no! I am not that stupid. I know her. She will handcuff me to the bed and then go downstairs and steal my piece of cheesecake from the fridge and come back up and eat it in front of me. After she already ate hers. How much BDSM can you get.

    • This... Is... Sooooooo FUNNY!!! 😆🙈🎀🌸

    • I'm thinking I might have given you some ideas! 🤦‍♂️

    • Ahahahaha 🙈

  • I would immediately say yes! I did this in the past, although it was more often that I was handcuffed than my girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend), and I always enjoyed it. Not being able to go anywhere with my hands and arms while someone is teasing and pleasuring you is exciting.

  • I wouldn't like it. And quite possible object to it. I dont like being restrained. I want to feel control and share that control with my partner. Its not like i have to be dominant all the time and my partner has to be sub all the time. no matter how dominant we both are restraining physical movement is something i think has no place in sex

    • Totally understandable!!! Thanks for the honest feedback!!! I appreciate it

    • What about you? do you like it?

    • That's my little secret!!! Thanks for participating 🌸

  • lay down and let him

    • Lovely 🌸

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