Boyfriend getting really depressed because we’re not having sex?

Is it possible to get depressed because of that?
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I now understand what he means. He’s saying that he’s horny for ME. Masturbating will make him ejaculate, but he still wants me an hour later. It only distracts him, but doesn’t fix the want.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Give him a titjob and lubricate his *tool* if he's depressed he might not ejaculate. Also you can try the oops I accidentally trip over then i accidentally put my titties in his face accident. Do that while he's sitting down on the couch watching TV or Netflix. If he gets a positive reaction like I'm turned on response then feel sexy with him. Depending on the response then go with the flow with me. If he can't still ejaculate but he's in the mood maybe he can eat you with some whipped cream and maybe with some cherries.

    • He can still ejaculate

    • Ugh.. sorry my auto speller on my phone sucks.

    • That's good.

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  • ya but it's more so what's going on in the brain, he's depressed cause his feel good hormones aka what makes you happy is going down because obviously sex releases those hormones. Also cutting sex off will lower the attachment hormone too in his head, so he'll start thinking you don't like him or something or start losing feelings or sad.

    I think the bigger question is why you're not having sex with him, from other comments sounds like you cut him off for shits and giggles

    • Cutting the sex off will cause withdrawal symptoms

    • And that is why he’s feeling depressed atm

    • Exactly lol withdrawal

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think men can get depressed for not having sex. He can still masturbate tho.

    • He says that he wants me

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  • Maybe is kind of a abstinence syndrome

  • Depressed is a big word thrown around easily these days by anyone who doesn't get what they want and are sad about it.

    I mean sure he wishes you do have sex and who can blame him sex is great and it's part of the whole point of dating but he's not getting any and now he's left with his hand to keep him company as he wonders why you two aren't fucking anymore

  • Why did you stop the sex? that's abusive if you're doing that selfishly

  • Depends on the reason.
    Did you cut him off?
    Medical reason (him)?
    Medical reason (you)?
    Geographic proximity?
    Too much work (lack of opportunity)(him)?
    Too much work (lack of opportunity)(you)?

    If it is a 'him' item other than medical then no.
    If it is a 'you' item other than medical then yes.

    • I said for us to stop the sex

    • Then yes. Expect a breakup speech soon.

    • No he’s not willing to end things.

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  • I think its possible if sex is very important to him. why are you not having sex? you should talk with him about this

  • Yes.

    clearly he can give himself orgasms. It’s not about that. Sex is the most significant way guys feel wanted -as a man- by their partner.

  • Yes, but that doesn't mean you should have sex with him out of sympathy. Just understand that a lot of us value sex in a relationship, because it's not like we can do it with anyone else if the relationship is exclusive and masturbation gets old😂.

  • For men sex = intimacy so no sex means disconnection from the partner. Imagine if you lived with a stranger and had no loving connection could you get depressed? For men having sexual relations means a emotional connection and helps to increase happiness while a lack means isolation and depression.

  • Of course it is. Especially if you were having sex on a regular basis and cut him off for some reason.

  • break up. he deserves better.

  • Yeah, especially if you used to.

  • Yeah!

  • yes it is possable... i my self get depressed due to lack of sex its been 5 years for me

  • Yes I can see that

  • yes, you better help him

  • Tell him you're not interested in having sex, like it or lump it

  • Yeah and frustrated

    • Bigger question is why aren’t you having sex?

  • Give him handjobs
    with lube, squeeze it firmly & rub it slowly

    make him squeal 🤣

    • He wants my pussy

  • Yes! Especially if he is like me & has a very high sex drive. I mean we can take care of ourselves at times but nothing can replace the feelings of actual sex!

    • Is it sex or about the person?

    • Do you need the sex or sex with your partner?

    • Well that could depend if you’ve done something that he didn’t appreciate or like.

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