Submissive men turned me off so much, why are men these days so submissive?

[Anonymous]

I hate the type of men who say yes to everything in bed they have zero boundaries I hate that so much. A woman tells a man to put a dress on he says yes... she tells a man to bend over to fuck him in the ass he says yes. Every time a guy tells me he has done these things I lose attractions and respect for him. Why can't you just say no? I say no and set boundaries why you have to kiss womans a soo much.

[ohshee]

Wait wait wait,, not all guys are like that if you were to ask me to put a dress on i would say NO but if we were talking about kinks and you said you wanted to see what it was like to be with a girl i would blindfold you put something on that would hold water ballons and a wig and make it as real as i could for you second stay the fuck away from my ass nothing touches at all its bad enought i just found a crack in it and need a new one your the girl I love that part I'm the guy with a guy thing that knows how to use it as a guy my job is to make you smile and your gurl thing pulsars hard I will give you a bubble bath maybe paint your toe nails I would love to give you a slow deep massage but my hands are so rough and calloused I would be afraid I would hurt ur soft skin when we make love you can have it your way hard deep fast and rough. But not until I melt you in so slow motion your going to bitch for about 3 min but once u feel the softness and slow rhythm for the next 10 to 20 min your going to melt because you forgot what it's like for so done to make it all about you and after cum once or twice from slow deep motion and the way I would be holding you with softness but with force and pressure that's when I will stretch you out in any form or shape you want to be in and give it to you the way YOU want it stuffing ramming pounding it like there's no tomorrow and either in the middle of you cumming or in the middle of you cumming again i going to dig my toes in to the bed go deep and the min i feel you comming my arms an hand up under yiur arm pit to shoulder hold on to you so tight my toes still dug deep in to the bed pushing so much pressure in to you holding so tight as your cumming body pulsating the moment I let u go you might just want to do it again or after our 20 min out of body experience I might get up and make you breakfast

[Reaperbot666]

1. partly due to the rise of modern feminism. in western culture it has been drilled into both boys and girls heads. from a young age that women are the far better sex. when in reality there about even.

2. partly due to many kids being raised in a single parent household. most often by a mother figure who tries to play the role of both mother and father. when in fact studies show kids raised by but a good father figure and mother figure. typically are better off and stable minded later in life. however the people who raise the kids don't always have to be their birth parents. just decent people who try their best to raise a well minded kid.

3. partly due to the legal system in western culture. say many laws regarding relationships often favor the woman by a wide margin. typically speaking the women can claim all kinds of evil and bad things the guy did. without having any real prove for her claims. and over half of the time the courts believe her. also most often the woman the majority or half of the marital asset if they divorce. with typically primary custody of the kids. and continued kid support from the man. even if he gets visitation or not with his own kids.

4. partly due to the porn industry focusing on. many forms of kinky and weird fetishes. where the woman is either the more dominant one. or she is cheating on her partner with a more dominant person. often times making the man watch her and the other person. engage in all forms of wild and kinky sexual actions.

5. party due to man being portrayed as the idiots in the relationship. when it comes to much of modern TV shows and Movies in modern western culture. with the woman being the strong independent one. who keeps the relationship and family together most often.

[MrOracle]

Honestly, it sounds like you are CHOOSING these men, because what you describe is the exception, rather than the rule. Even in 2020, after 50+ years of radical feminism, the majority of men are dominants, not submissives - submissives are only about 25% of men (at least in western culture). So if you're coming across that many of them, then it is YOU who is picking them for whatever reason.

[Asker]

Not choosing them at all they talk to me and I reject them one by one... don't put blame on feminist. Feminist are the reason lots of women are becoming more dominant but for men who are truly dominant that would not make them want to become submissive that's why I still find dominant men in this modern day were feminist are taken over.

[Asker]

Nahh majority of men are submissive at least white men are... I can talk to 10 white guys and only 4 are dominant... fully

[MrOracle]

It's not that feminism made dominant men submissive - feminism changed how women raised their sons (and how schools/teachers dealt with them, etc.), and made them submissive from the start.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Male submission in BDSM can take many different forms and include a variety of activities, including cock and ball torture, forced feminization, Chastity, cuckoldry, erotic humiliation, facesitting, golden showers, pegging, foot fetishism, and clothed female, naked male. It's part of fetishism of BDSM. Personally I can't be complete sub. I am kinda switcheroo. Both parties should enjoy. 😊

[Asker]

No I don't like switches I only like men who are fully dominant

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I don't care and can't change myself because of Random Pink Anonymous users of G@G.

[Asker]

Hahah not asking you to change... dominate men are born that way

[ThomasTKay]

There are way too many beta males out there now days. It's due to society demonizing male traits with educational institutions and such. I'm very much the dominant one. I can still be dominant over the woman during sex and be respectful of her which I am. If she says stop, I stop. If it hurts, I stop. I don't ram my penis down her throat or cum on her face or in her mouth. But I direct where it's going and I poke her vagina from on top or behind. I hold her hands as I do it. I tell her to change positions as I overshadow her. It's a thing of it's my responsibility to inseminate her and protect her so I take control of her during those most vulnerable moments where she is open to me and needing me to make love to her.

[Asker]

All I see is beta men... papi😭😭 my vagina is getting dry and disappointed.

[ThomasTKay]

I'm so sorry. It's sad to think you are in that situation. You deserve to feel amazing an pleasured by a long hard penis and a guy who will take the time to master your body and take control in a way that makes you super wet and explosive orgasmically, all while still feeling safe and respected.

[Asker]

You are sexy... whats your zodiac?

[ThomasTKay]

Ah thank you haha. So are you :) I'm a sagittarius I believe. A fire guy lol

[Asker]

Ohhh you a Sagittarius 😏 is your birthday in December?

[ThomasTKay]

I just think it's sad to see a girl who is more natural and wanting to interact sexually the way a girl and guy were designed to interact sexually, not getting that. It's becoming more and more rare now days to find both men or women who interact naturally in terms of gender roles and sexually.

[Asker]

Very true I love being a woman and getting treated like a woman but now days men want to be treated like a woman too😢

[ThomasTKay]

Yes, in fact :) Dec 2

[Asker]

Ohh you are December nicee😍😏

[ThomasTKay]

The fact that you love being a woman and treated like a woman (respectfully none the less) is a great sign. Women need to feel like queens. They need to feel like the keeper of the bed or nest. They need to feel swept off their feet when their man comes around. They need to feel like their body is being temporary taken over and even invaded by the man who loves them. When all is said and done, they need to feel loved, taken, inseminated, and satisfied of all appetite until it builds again.

[ThomasTKay]

Inseminated as in her cup runs over from everything her lover deposited deep inside. So much so that she contracts over and over from it all. All as she trips over herself from being swept off her feet. Where she leaks and remains wet for half the day after :)

[ThomasTKay]

If you ever want to chat further, send me a PM sometime

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

WOW really that's what happens now... I had no idea that's... that's not right... I was going to say... before I read everything ... that guys will do most anything a girl wants especially at that point where she's finally naked... so what now.. I don't want to know I KNOW I WOULDN'T DO ANYTHING THAT I DON'T WANT TO DO and I don't let no one talk me into doing something I know I just don't want to do now its possible that some guys have been taken advantage of and they tell you this and what they are really saying is PLEASE HELP I don't no what to do now and you pass it off as being spineless maybe you should re_evaluate yourself

[Astarlessnightsky]

If you hate this, why are you asking the men to do this 🤣

[Asker]

I don't... they tell me or I ask if they have any boundaries in bed and lots say no and then I ask if they would allow a gurl to fuck them in the ass most say they will give it a go

[SHREYASH007]

how can a girl fuck a boy... using strap on dildo/dick then maybe it is just once for the experience how girls feel about anal fuck... lol

[Asker]

See what I am talking about its like men want to be women these days... I am a girl and I would never allow someone up my ass

[SHREYASH007]

yeah i can see this because of strict laws favouring women which is bringing a change in them, more feminists out there, corporate regulations about favour to women and be submissive to boss.

[Asker]

Yes and most men are becoming submissive whiles most woman are becoming dominant... I think I will become a lesbian lol

[SHREYASH007]

no you will surely find someone like me who is dominant at all costs... lol

[jkm1864]

Because they were raised by a single mother and they haven't learned to be a man. Yes feminism has destroyed two generations of men and I am one of those men.

[Asker]

I know men who have single mothers who raised them but they are dominant asf so that ain't the reason

[jkm1864]

Maybe because they had a strong male role model in their life such as an uncle whom taught them how to compete through sports.

[Bandit74]

I wasn't aware this was a trend.

[Asker]

In my life its becoming a trend

[Don-_-Don]

If you don't like submissive men then why is it so hard for you to find a dominant one? Are submissive men the only type you can pull?

[Asker]

I never "pulled" a submissive guy... I only date dominant men but submissive guys be talking to me

[Phoenix98]

Sounds like to me your just attracted to dominant masculine guys.

[VikingWarLord]

Tell'em to listen to TOM LEYKIS.

He'll straighten their little beta Azzes out!

GUARAN-FUCCCKIN-TEED!

[Asker]

Its too late for most of them lol