Is it normal to have no interest in sex? I just want to meditate and study and pray?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

I THINK it's normal or normal for the person who is just happy and complete with just that I think it's cool for me at this point in life I couldn't be complete with out sex or pleasing someone I have never read the bible and maybe I should maybe what I'm looking for is in there,, I believe we were meant to be greater than we are I'm an Empath and the things that happen to me with other people the only why it can happen is through energy from within us it's a long story but I believe through sex there is a bond and then the most beautiful feeling with the person ur making love with the moment both feel this feeling as 1 to me is when both energy's touch become one and you cum it's so intense some people call it our spirit our soul but for now today for me it's energy unit can leave your body it teaches and guides us when we die it lives on but my point is through sex and and learning more about this energy and touching people with this I have learned a lot and it is becoming more and more 1 with everything it's hard to explain I know it sound crazy and I'm ok with that just because what I have experienced and still experiencing now I just want to learn more

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong with that. I honestly wish I was more like you. Then my life would be a lot easier, since I'm single.

MrOracle · Answer

if you define "normal" using societal or biological norms, then, no, it isn't normal. It's not unheard of, but it's not the norm. It means you're asexual, which is a relatively rare thing that applies to about 1-2% of the population.

NamerOfStars · Answer

It is unusual, but it does happen. Fortunately, it's really easy to not have sex.

MrNameless · Answer

Yes and no. If you were brought up in a very religious household and were not able to sexually express yourself, it's somewhat normal to not think about sex often and not explore.

I'd say its more uncommon to have no sexual arousal or very little sex drive at all. That could be asexual or a really low drive due to hormones. Really matters if you mind it yourself and it doesn't make you happy. But doesn't seem to be an issue for you, but could be for future partners

Derekk · Answer

I wouldn't say it's typical no. But if you're happy, that's what counts.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

I think you’d have interest in sex when you find the one. Being a believer and God fearing myself, I think the Holy Spirit has took over my mind in a way that my thoughts and intentions are more pure than they used to be. My desire to have sex and watch porn are almost non existent now.

jkm1864 · Answer

low testosterone level more than likely so get it checked out because it will cause future relationship issues for sure. The main way a man feels love and appreciation and if You don't take care of Him He will stick around but realize the penis always takes the path of least resistance meaning if Your giving resistance and a cute secretary is offering it up eventually that secretary will be His new lover.

Dargil · Answer

A perfectly valid position to take. It may leave an open space in your heart, but prayer, study and meditation can fill that.

Don-_-Don · Answer

I can see that being normal, I know that there are other people out in the world that are like you in this regard, like monks I would say.

Kreneman · Answer

It's normal, praying and meditating especially studying is awesome. 🙏

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Yep. Rn I have no interest in hooking up nor a relationship

hellish-kitty · Answer

Do you think you might be asexual?

hellacray · Answer

So you're a monk?

LburgGuyUsasg · Answer

No it's not normal. That doesn't mean it's not ok. You are most likely depressed.

AmeerX · Answer

I don't see a problem as long as you are attracted to men and would be okay with marrying a man

Wise4myage · Answer

Id say its normal if you're asexual. Or if you've had really bad experiences with sex.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Completely understandable. If I had enough money to support myself without working and having to meet people, I would probably do the same as a shut in.