How long to wait before having sex with a new boyfriend?
I’ve matched with a guy online about 2 months ago. We write a lot and it’s really nice. Because we are kind of far away from each other we only managed to meet up twice. Those meetings were very pg 13 and not a lot happened sexually.
As we get more familiar we both said that we would like to take it further. Usually I have no problem sleeping with guys, especially if I know them for such a long time.
But I really like this guy and we didn’t have the talk if we are really together or not and I’m afraid of overthinking all of this, but I’m afraid if we have sex he may loose interest.
So my question to the guys: what makes you loose interest after having sex with a girl and are you willing to wait longer if you like a girl or do you think it’s a tease.
And girls: how long do you wait before having sex with a new maybe-boyfriend. Do you voice your concerns if you have any or are you more chill about it all?
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