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Why would a guy find it appealing and sexy for a girl not to wear underwear, or for her to be naked in his bed?

So I have this one friends with benefits. We haven't talked in like a week or so. But my last encounter was this past week. But I notice, the three times that he allow me to stay over. He likes to see me fully undressed, or to have nothing on at all. I mean, I get the whole me being naked because more than likely we're going to have sex. But he also wants to be a Free Spirit with mine nakedness. But how, when his mom is in the next room. Then he also gets turned on by me and when I tell him, how I am not wearing any lingerie TMI. But he's like, really like for real. So I guess is this like normal?
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  • That's an easy one. When a woman comes to bed naked or with lingerie it signals to a man that He's getting laid so there is no guess work. I think what's really sexy is a woman wearing one of My shirts and walking around in Her panties all day or completely nude under My shirt.

    • Yeah no doubt about it that he and I didn't F. But he also lives with his mother. Okay naked in the bedroom is one thing, but feeling completely comfortable walking around doing that at someone else's house. No sir.

    • Well of coarse Your not going to do it in someone's house for sure. I own My own house and when My little girl is in school some days I'll walk around nude because well it's My damn house so I'll do what ever the hell I feel like. It's also something I so look forward to when the daughter flies the coop because if I want to wear underwear all day I'll do it.

    • Yes he's the same. When he lays in his bed, he likes to sleep naked. And if your right, about having your own place. If he did: then maybe.. Cool. I'm just over all self-conscious about my body. I'm not fat of skinny, I'm thick with curls and a little chunky. But he likes that. Lol.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes. But if he wants you to prance around naked here might be attracted by the artful curves and there way you move your hips when you walk or the way the light hits your body, or maybe he wants his mom to know he's sexually active but is afraid to come or and say it

    • Oh his mom ain't stupid. Him and I would have a lot of sex last year, and she would know that I was there. He sleeps naked in his bed, so he prefers No clothes on from me. Then the last time that we had sex. I had to go use his bathroom. And he told me to go. And I was pretty much naked. And I said, you want me to walk out of your room with No clothes on. And he was like.. Uh yeah. He was like, my mom is sleep she isn't coming out of her room no time soon. So his said, this is the moment to go now. And I started to, then I noticed when I got up and started walking to his door. I swear, lol the way he was watching me. Smh lol. So I went over to his side of the bed and grab my dress and wrapped it around my body. And he was like.. Are you frfr.. And he seemed so damn irritated with me wanting to put clothes around me. Then there was another time, we was actually in his bed, just laying down. And he pull the covers off of me, and just started looking at me. Then, I said, awkwardly don't look at me. And laugh. And grab the covers back and put them over me. Lol.

    • He does watch a lot of porn if he can't get to me. Lol. But I'm happy that he likes my body or whatever. But he lives with his mom why would I do that. And plus I'm self-conscious about my body and it being shown.

    • You shouldn't be self conscience. Not about your own body. You have to look at your body as if it is the most beautifully sculpted work of art. Love yourself be comfortable in your own skin so other people can truly love you for you and all your beauty.

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  • Yea ofcourse its normal honey
    I would have worried if he wasn't turned on by seeing u naked or bottom less lol

    • Could a friends with benefits truly miss you or... just miss the convenience of you? ↗ could you answer this too. And yeah, not with his mom in the house. He wants me to feel free and walk around naked or be comfortable.

    • Yea thats fine too tbh For me i wouldn't mind even with his mum or dad in the house lol

    • OMG!! Your bold girl. She could pop out of her room at any moment.

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  • Why would a guy find it appealing and sexy for a girl not to wear underwear, or for her to be naked in his bed?

    "Are you really this stupid?" -@Quackthulu

    • No. Lol. I guess I'm just self-conscious about my body and aware about his mom. Like if that was just his house.. Cool. But he's like oh my mom is sleep you can go to the bathroom. And he gets irritated when I usually get one of those long shirts for put on one of mine clothing. And with the underwear situation, I would think that he would actually be turned off and disgusted by me not wearing underwear sometimes.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I ask why not he would find appealing to have his partner sleeping naked to him.
    Many a times, I have slept naked with my husband and it's gives a good feel

  • read your bible and ask God

    • Amen!!

  • Yes it's super sexy to them and I'd love to do that

  • i yhink its very sexy for a girl to be free spirited and embrace being naked!!!

    • Not with his mom in the house. And can you answer this too. Could a friends with benefits truly miss you or... just miss the convenience of you? ↗

    • look that all really depends if he has feelings for u. if he doesn't have feelings then nah he probably doesn't miss u just misses the easy sex but if he really has feekings then he could actually miss spending time with u

    • Thank You

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  • For real? Why wouldn't he find it sexy? There is something about a woman's form that is enticing (no matter her body type) and the less standing between a man and the object of his desire the better, the sexier.

    • I just would think he would find it weird with me not wearing underwear lol. And also, walking around his moms house naked. Yeah Not cool.

    • Yeah, well not his mom's house, but if he had his own place then yeah for sure!

    • If you're 25 - 29, how old is this friends with benefits? Still living in his mom's house and shit.

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  • "I mean, I get the whole me being naked because more than likely we're going to have sex"

    ... So... what are you confused about.

    • About him wanting me to be so free and walk around in his house when he knows his mom is her room. He sleeps with no clothes on in his bed. But I'm very self-conscious about my body, but it seems like he enjoys the View lol.

    • He wants to have sex. It's not more complicated than that.

    • Yes I get that, and we have had sex each time I do come over or enter into his room. Lol. But he also, wants me to feel comfortable and relax in his bed. But there has been like two different times last year, we didn't have sex. But he asked me to at least take of my clothes. And even if the sex is over, and I'm ready to grab my clothes or shirt at the most and put it back on. He tells me No. And he seems to get irritated.

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  • Yes of course.

  • Mu girlfriend and I sleep naked together unless she's on her period and then she keeps her panties on. If we're staying inside all day we'll usually be naked

  • friends with benefits, is for losers

    • Lol okay 👌

  • Yes of course

  • I like undies at first

    • He likes them off and everything else with it.

    • Weird

    • Me or him or both. If that was his house. Yeah maybe

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  • you do understand that men are visually stimulated right? and the naked female body is the one thing we like the most on the planet?

    • the naked body of an *attractive female Fixed that for you.

    • @Thatsamazing yeah... thanks bud. 🙏

  • Very normal. I love to see my girl fully naked not only at bedtime rather all day long. Sometimes my sister visits us, she know our liking, so she has generously allowed us to stay naked.

    • Frfr. And you're sister isn't bothered by that. I mean, let's face it his mom isn't stupid she knows that him and I probably messed around again this year lol. But I do find it weird and disrespectful that he acts like he is the only person in there at times. I mean he knows when his mom is asleep when she's waking up or when she's about to come out. But she ain't sleep, from my experience she can walk out of her room anytime. I respect that she gives her son his freedom and the benefit of Doubt even to invite females over and have them all in his room. Well, I'm sure he isn't bringing girls over to there house like that. But, he's bold. Most mom's would have an issue with the girl or tell him to have that girl out in the living room. But she tells that I am more then welcome to come over, any time I want. Laughs. Awe, how Sweet. Then he talks about how I have a spot on the couch on his other couch. I said, this is your house, not mines. I said, you and your moms house. Tf

  • Lol are you seriously asking us this?

    • Yes lol. Well. First and foremost I'm very self-conscious about my body but he obviously likes what he sees. And 2nd of all. He lives with his mother, and he wants me to get and feel comfortable with him and in his bed okay got that. But also he wants me to walk around freely with no clothes on. And as far as the undergarments I would think that he will find that quite disturbing and unladylike. But he seems to like it too.

    • Well you said it yourself “friends with benefit” there’s no need for him to expect you to act ladylike every time y’all meet in his bedroom.

    • Facts. But I have had a friends with benefits years back that didn't approve of me not wearing any undergarments. Don't get me wrong, I do wear them... @ times. And not when I am just getting dick down. Lol lmao. I've gotten used to it it became a habit and I really don't like wearing underwears @ all. But.. I can't be out here in public like that lol.

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  • that’s a thing. It turns them on. Because they know that you are available.

    • I get self-conscious about my body but obviously he likes it. Then his mom is in her room. He expects me to walk around a freely with no clothes. Like I'm not fat but I'm not skinny chunky little. Lol.

    • Well, obviously he likes your body type. You don’t have to worry about it. However, I also wouldn’t walk around naked while his mother is in the next room.

    • Thank You. I agree, 100% it's just weird. Like usually when I have to use his bathroom. He says okay just goes. It's like a routine he has when she's waking up or up and when she's actually asleep. But as far as I know he thinks that she's sleep when I usually do go to the bathroom I hear her moving around. She can walk out at any giving moment. If that was his house then problem.

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