How do I find a cute girlfriend?

[VV3ZZY]

I'm 32 and only had sex a handful of times and that was many years ago. I am super afraid to talk to girls. While some guys boast how much girls they get, It makes me feel like I'm no good. I think I have traumatized myself lol
Like, do girls even want me to talk to them? For years I would avoid any cute girls because I was full of shame and I hated myself. But I want to so bad. When I see a girl at a grocery store or something I wanna be able to go get her number and then hang out with her and have sex. I don't want to even take her out to dinner. I just want to have sex with her. Like I don't want to date her unless she likes me in that way too. Thoughts? It's not that it's the only thing I want, I really want a best friend too, but I don't like pretending to want to eat food with them. Sometimes I'm not even hungry. Lol Also am I attractive?

[mklover]

If you're after a hookup, which it seems u are, that's your thing. I personally like to get to know a man before taking him to bed. Sex is usually more enjoyable, and I look forward to it when I'm in a relationship with that person. I have had more than one boyfriend, and they have always been my best friend while we're in a relationship. It's a level of love for them that you can't develop with out knowing them. I hooked up with a guy once and I never liked it nearly as much as I did when I had sex with a boyfriend. I understand that you just want sex, since you lack it, and i dont think that you shouldn't hook up with someone, but I think that you need a good relationship with a good hearted girl. If you can talk to random men, you can talk to random women. Find one you think you could see yourself with, who seems to have some interest, and become make your move. If she rejects you, MOVE ON. a lot of guys panic when they are rejected, but there are a hell of a lot of fish in the sea. Not all girls have good taste. Screw them. Move on. You will find what you need, and it will be right when you really need it. You can message me to "practice" talking to a woman. I understand this isn't the same as face to face, but it's betterthan nothing. I'd be happy to help you out and support you. Best of luck

[VV3ZZY]

Your wrong. I am not after a hookup.

[mklover]

Okay, so you want to meet a girl, talk to her, have sex with her, but not date? So what do you call that? Sure, not a hookup, but what?

[mklover]

I'm not trying to be offensive here. I'm trying to be helpful. I'm sorry I called it a hookup

[VV3ZZY]

What? Where are you getting that from? Of course I want to date them

[mklover]

"Like, I dont want to date her unless she likes me in that way too" So you want to talk to her, have sex, then, if she decides she likes u like a boyfriend, then maybe possibly date?

[VV3ZZY]

No! No. No sex! I'm okay with abstinence! I want the girl to like me and think I'm cute or whatever. That's all

[mklover]

Sorry if I just misunderstand, but that's just how it sounds to me

[VV3ZZY]

I want there to be a magical moment where we both really want to kiss each other

[mklover]

Okay, than you should have no issues with that

[VV3ZZY]

Gosh you scared me 😂

[mklover]

Lol I was just trying to help, but i misunderstood, my apologies

[VV3ZZY]

It's okay 😜

[mklover]

If you want to chat some more, that'd be fine with me. PM me though please

[mklover]

If not, that's fine too. I just want u to find what it looking for

[Anonymous]

You look like a sad Matthew santoro

[VV3ZZY]

Lol I see the resemblance. I'm not very funny though