Why is my ex on hook up and discreet dating sites?

Question

My ex and I broke up a week ago. The very next day he was on dating sites and a few days later he was on hook up and having fun apps. Him and I told each other when we were together that we wanted to wait for sex tell we got married and he said that’s the right thing to do... so why would he be on hook up sites?

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

A couple things here...
My guess is that he figured he is free to do as he wishes and he is horny, so hookup sites are the answer.
You now know that he really did not mean he was going to wait.
And how did you find out that he was on hookup sites? Were you making a profile as well?

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me like he changed his mind. Maybe something like this?

DannyFanny · Accepted Answer

Maybe you somehow changed his mind on that when you were going out. It's your ex girl, forget about him or you will hurt a lot looking for him

normalice · Answer

He doesn't mind waiting for sex with you, but he does mind waiting for sex. Also, what's a "discrete dating" site? Is that even possible?

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

To be with women that like sex and are actually sexually attracted to him

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

He's given up on the idea of saving himself for someone special because that relationship just failed.

Don-_-Don · Answer

The answer is obvious, he just wants to fuck. He's not interested in the whole wait until marrige thing. He wants pussy and he wants it now😂.

Browneye57 · Answer

Cuz he's obviously not waiting. LOL  Why the hell do you care anyway? He's an EX for a reason - let it/him go. Time to move on with your life.

Archerer · Answer

I think you know the answer...

Tunasub · Answer

You did say your ex ☝🏾yup there it is up above... Now that we have that in place. Why do you care it's your ex. He does not need to answer to you... he's on dating sites slamming chicks like a screen door in a hurricane... what are you doing? Asking why he is doing this or that here... How is this working out for you? Do you really want to know why he is doing what he is doing? ... this may seem like it's way off base but... ASK HIM.