Yeah I need time. Wow 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 yesss this is the answer is exactly what I needed. Thank you soooo much. Fav reply yet!
@VIVANT anything you’d add?
Haha na.. you aced it. I’d just be redundant 👌
I’ll add you’re an internet treasure for intelligent virgins seeking advice 😎
Yeah. Like a part of me feels like he’s only dating me because of my body & the way that I look. I just don’t want to be the kind of girl to deprive him of something he used to get with his ex
Every person is different and if he compares you with his ex he's a jerk. Maybe you should try to know each other better and that way you'll feel more comfortable to have sex or you will realise that your relationship doesn't work
Yeah. I was also thinking of getting to know him first. I’m genuinely not in a rush for sexual intercourse but I feel like next year I’ll be at the age where the consequences aren’t a disadvantage or whatever 😂
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We started dating like days ago. I don't know I’m just thinking, for future reference. I feel like I’m not completely ready for the consequences that come with having sex. We haven’t known each other that long.
There can be no intimacy with fidelity. Once he commits to an exclusive relationship he needs to honor it.
Wow, wise words. I appreciate this, best reply yet!
In the meantime, get to know him while also thinking about what you need to put sex on the table. Sex is the engine that drives intimate relationships.
Well we recently started seeing each. I want to get to know him before I give him my the go ahead to “pop my cherry”. I feel like I’m not ready for the consequences that come with having sex.
Well that's alright, you are ready when you are ready but this doesn't mean he needs to sleep with others. We can be fine without it and we can masturbate if needed. I don't think you should give up exclusivity for this reason.It's up to you really but like I said it might be impossible to become exclusive after.
I appreciate your help sm!
No worries, good luck with everything
Yeah. I just don’t want to be the kinda girl to deprive him. I’ll let him know where my minds at & ask him if he can’t wait until I’m ready.
I appreciate the honesty. 😂
All part of the service maam /doff cap
Yeah you’re right about me not being sure. I don’t even think I’m ready for a relationship. I just didn’t want to turn him down.
I know how selfish that sounds but I’ll let him know what’s on my mind because he wants to meet up.
Good for your! Be honest and especially honest with yourself about your feelings. You are a good person!
Thanks for the honesty!
Yeah, thank you. I appreciate your response!
No problem. I have studied this topic all my life and my knowledge is best served to help others.
Wow yeah. I just realized that it’s not the best idea. I just don’t want to feel like I’m depriving him of sex.
I don’t want to deprive him of sex tho. 😂
He doesn't need it though. Sex just feels good, so people like it.
😂 lmao I love this reply
Thing is we started dating days ago, I’m asking for future reference
Oh, that's really early to be wanting sex. Yes, if you like him enough then yes let sleep with other women, but I think if your ready to have sex then he needs to stop sleeping with other women and be committed to you. This definitely out of the ordinary, but I think it's ok as long as your ok with it.
We only started dating days ago & I feel like I’m not ready to break my virginity
Ok. I wouldn't let him go with other girls... cuz eventually you'll do it with him.
😂 lmao I appreciate it
(of you being exclusive)
Lmao I’m still trying to get to know him so I mean I don't know. I just feel like it’d be better for myself, knowing that I’m not holding anyone back.