Is it fine if I let my boyfriend sleep with other women since I’m a virgin?

[0112358]

if you’re planning to wait for marriage then either he has to accept it or you break up.

But if it’s just a matter of you needing time to get comfortable:
- assume he will be willing to wait for that reason
- do NOT cover up your lack of experience. He’s much more likely to be patient given your inexperience. If he doesn’t know, he will interpret your slow speed as lack of interest.
- don’t slow down the relationship to avoid this - you won’t feel comfortable unless you let the emotional side grow.
- especially with your experience you’re not going (or shouldn’t) just randomly have sex. Expect a long lead up of getting comfortable enjoying other types of sex first.

[ohshee]

Thats up to you'll have you asked him if you gave him the ok to do w0ould he do it ,,, and if he says yes ,,, then say ok so your saying if it was turned around your saying its ok for me to have sex with other guy
Now let's say you give him the. Ok to have sex with other girls and 2 weeks later you want to have sex. Do you want him to keep having it with other girls and do you think he would stop
I dont know what is considered sex any more everyone is different you don't have to have sex to pleasevhim or even him please you and I think it's cool if a guy can be loyal to a girl that wants to remain a virgin it shows how much he loves you and what he is will to do to have you if you take that away from him by telling him to go have sex with other girls I think down deep it would hurt you and he will lose respect for you

[yucychan]

If he's gonna sleep with other women, then what's the point of being with you?
What do you at his age, sex is important? That means he doesn't not have to be exclusive while being in a relationship? Nonsense.
If he can go see other women while being with you, then you should also go see other guys.

[Destiel_24]

If you don't want to be with him break up but if he really likes you he would wait for you to be ready. Also you can do other things to satisfy him other than penetrative sex: sext, phone sex, pics... but just if you feel comfortable doing that if not just tell him to watch porn

[AustinMan]

Why aren't you having sex with him?

[simonqq]

How come you two don't have sex? If the relationship is not going well then yeah you should break up but if it's going well and you don't mind him sleeping with others then why not. What I will say though is that if you accept this now it will probably be difficult to become exclusive in the future.

[summiter]

That is your decision. Why can't he stay loyal to you. Maybe (if you are ok with it) give him handjobs or something so that he has some sex with you. Good for you to wait for the right guy at the right time in your life. Have you fooled around with him at all?

[sawno]

Wait what? What the hell has age to do with it?
If you want him to be with other women you can let him, but you don't at all have to put up with that if you do not want to. Its a commitment for a reason. So tell him what you really want, and if he refuses he is probably not the right guy.

[MissDawn7961]

no woman in her right mind would let her boyfriend sleep with other women but then you are not in your right mind anyway ! will you let your - sister , mom , grandma , cousins - sleep with him too? seek mental help before you do it with who knows what

[Reaperbot666]

so an open relationship?

With the amount of people who cheat or get divorced on the rise, would you consider just having an open relationship or marriage instead? ↗

[jkm1864]

I can't believe I just read what I thought I read. I'll give You a hint if the man truly loved You He wouldn't want any other woman. So if Your the one the pushing for this then Your not ready for a relationship and if He is the one pushing for this then Your just setting Yourself up for future heart break.

[Bubblefox]

If you are comfortable with a polysexual relationship. But you should both talk about it and you should think about it on your own as well.
If you aren't comfortable or interested in that kind of relationship and he insists then you're not going to work out, as you just want different things.

[CoolGuyJoe]

No. You should both love and respect eachother if you both agree you are in a relationship together. He should be willing to wait until you are ready. Crucify me if you want but that's how things should be.

[MrKinktastic]

You might be overthinking it and he will be ok to wait for a while. Talk to him and see where he is at.


If him sleeping with other women doesn’t bother you it could be a viable option.

[Guffrus]

Well you can agree to whatever you want but it sounds like a shit deal to me.

[Bang5luts]

If you are serious about being with him (which it sounds like you're not too sure) you don't have to share him. You can be ok with it, but you shouldn't feel pressured to

[Sarahr123]

No you shouldn’t and if he even brought it up you should leave him. Whether you have sex with him or not he should be loyal to you. There are no excuses for cheating. You need to have more self respect.

[Anonymous]

Seems like a weird choice to propose at this early stage of your relationship. Certainly there are better ways to deal with the awkwardness you guys are experiencing—like talking it over w him and working through this.

[someginger]

Eh that's really up to you really, but i would say if your not ready to have sex and the guy can't wait then i don't think your right foe each other

[Walrus_au]

The question is, are you really ok with that? And which is more important to him, the sex or you?

If you are on board with an open relationship, good for you guys. If you are not, then I would recommend not trying to force it.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Sounds dumb, especially the part where you say y'all have only been seeing each other a few days

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Are you exclusive because without having that talk he can and may be having sex with other women.

[Thatsamazing]

How about you have sex with him. If you don't want to, that's fine you don't have to, but he's not really your boyfriend. He's a friend.

[NoOneEver]

Only if you want the relationship to fall apart in time.. or become incredibly unique or weird.. he won't want to give it up once he starts.. his brain will be trained to expect to get away with it..

[Anonymous]

no it's not fine if he can't be patient enough to keep his cock inside his pants

[OfDeath]

No 🤪. Either you be his girlfriend or you don't. What is the point of not having sex with your boyfriend?

[Dchrls78104]

It's fine if you're an enabler (the male version is "cuck"). The trouble with that is that you may soon be in the market again for a boyfriend.

[Jamie05rhs]

Girl... Have some self-respect. He wants to date you and yet fuck other women at the same time? No. Don't let him do that. Dump his ass.

[DogEatsCat1973]

If you are okay with it then it is fine. Just make sure he knows it is only booty calls and his heart he gives to only you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Relationships are built on a foundation of love, lust, trust, and respect. Will your plan help to build this potential relationship?

[Wise4myage]

No its not fine, and don't expect him to stop screwing other girls if he ever takes your virginity.

[daren0326]

I just deleted a previous account because of questions like these because they make no sense, but now I'm considering deleting this one too...

[Massageman]

Him being with another gal is NOT going to make things any LESS awkward, and will likely confuse the issue even more.

[coffeewithcream]

Ooooooo yeah.
Good idea.
Very generous, too. !
:)

[Twalli]

Do you care if he has sex with others. Also he doesn't need sex.

[lanadelrey25]

Ummm if he can't wait for you, then he's an asshole bitch

[BCA6010]

No. If this subject is really coming up, he's not right for you, and you probably aren't for him either.

[Steve37]

You are, by far, the most understanding girlfriend ever!

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Yes, it's just sex and not that big a deal. He will respect and cherish you all the more for granting him the freedom and happiness.

[Zannika02]

Do u want an open relationship? If not then he either is down to wait or prob not gonna workout.

[MoussaMalki]

I don't think so , it's not fine he has to be loyal and he has to control himself

[cloud9vortex1234]

I think you should break up with him. I don't think you like him enough if you're pondering this question?

[MichaelaMas]

Totally weird I think, I would never ever allow it.

[goaded]

No. Break up with him, have some self-respect.

[Gwenhwyfar]

No! Have oral. Or play with each other.

[Anonymous]

Are you exclusive or poly amorous?

[dudeinohio]

Why dont *you* have sex with him?

[In_Trance]

If you're ok with it, then it's ok

[Juxtapose]

Just give it a few months, see how you like him.

[zaxx4fun]

Hell no it's not that's cheating

[bassinguy76]

If you do that... he will be gone.

[Jmmmfi4]

I think it's great you're ok with it

[Anonymous]

No, he is cheating on you.

[COMMODOREII]

Hell no!! What are you crazy?

[Ripper_E]

That's up to you.

[reptocarl2]

No it isn’t.

[hornboy14]

No its not