Do some men prefer getting oral over sex?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed when me and my boyfriend have sex, he's very different compared to when i give him a blow job.

When we have sex, he's very quiet and i think he's more focused on making me feel good over himself but when i give him oral he seems to really enjoy it and if im honest im really bad at it, my eyes start to water and i have to stop myself from making ganging noises and i don't let him finish in my mouth ever.

But when i am doing good, he will start to heavy breath, moan, even twitches abit. He will even tell me im doing good but i really struggle to get him to actually cum and if he does cum that means no sex later and i can't even give him a blow job a lot pf the time because he cums to quick during sex if i actually do a good job.

I guess im also asking advice on how to be better at sex for my boyfriend especially giving him a good blow job and making him react a little more in bed.

I also really want him to start taking charge a little more, whenever we have sex he's two polite and we have to ask to change positions and it gets into this awkward slow process of trying to get im the position when i would much rather him just roll me around on the bed and man handel me abit more. Its not really sexy asking him to roll me over whilst im on top but i don't know how else to tell him id really enjoy it if he threw me around a little and wrestled me.

[Zannika02]

Sounds like u both are a bit shy. Why not watch a steamy movie or porn together and u can verbally respond like damn that's fukin hot let's try it. I am very open w my partner and ask how do u want to cum or tell him babe I need it harder... ain't no shame in telling him how u want it. If anything I have found guys want that. As far as being better sex/oral... I have taken on oral instead of a chore but as a mission to fukin drive him crazy. My guy loves to cum in my mouth but I dont love it, I do it for him cuz I know he loves it. Trust me it is took me 18 years to even attempt to swallow cuz most dudes cum is 🤮 but his is actually very mild. U should ask him what he wants to try and practice makes perfect girl!! And u should tell him what u want 👍🏼

[Zally]

Sex - takes effort
Reviving a bj - effortless pleasure

I can see why he would respond more to that. And some guys really care about you full time. Even during sex when you don't want to them too so much. Normally if you're one of his first gfs, instead of giving. Make him chase and work for it a bit. Introduce some toys if you haven't, for you and him. Will get him more comfortable like that around you. Guys fuck that bit harder if you're loving it. Even when if you're not loving it 100%.

Also after round one. Just hangout or whatever for about an hour and a half, two hours. Get him in a shower so he's warm or something. Play with him. He'll get hard again, even when he thinks he can't. You're in for a longer round two (if he smart, he'll use the shower to clean himself up too haha)

Hope you get the euphoria you're looking for haha

[COMMODOREII]

When i go for pizza i eat the whole thing i just don't pick at the toppings and leave the rest. 😎

[Arichip]

Some do I think and some hate oral and want sex only

[bubbakong2006]

Some do but I would prefer to feel her pussy and play with her titties I like a blow job to but would rather have sex and us both cum together

[gibgabbs]

I only care for giving women oral. I don't ask for anything in return

[abc--123]

Yes some do. Like me

[PaulyChicago]

Only sometimes