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Should I leave my husband because of this problem?

Since I got pregnant my husband started eating me out like a crazy. At first I thought that it’s a matter of him but it’s getting out of control now. He do it twice or more daily and I can’t take it anymore honestly. It hurts so fucking bad when I pee and it looks very sore because of sucking. It burns when I go to the bathroom and the pain is unbearable at this point. I told him that I will leave to my parents house until I give birth and he got angry and called me a baby for saying this.
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Superb Opinion

  • I think You need to spend more time communication with Your husband instead of coming here and asking us this question. The only reason Your clit is hurting is because You haven't said no and its explained to Him the reason why. I'll also point out that men find women sexy as fuck when they are carrying their child so He is probably just acting out how turned on with You.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Lay down the law. Licking and whatever else is to be gentle and pain-free. If he can't abide by that then sorry you got dealt a bad hand, but surely his abusive tendencies were obvious before you got pregnant, so you also need to own your own responsibility in it. Leave if you must, it is your life, but the life you carry is his too, you will need to reconcile that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him to control himself or you will go to your parents. The fact that he is hurting you and doesn’t care is a form of abuse. Lay down the law with him, you’re having a baby, you shouldn’t have to parent your husband too.

  • Wtf is sex painful? Do u not want sex? Maybe it drives him wild but still if u say it hurts that's a dick response. why can't he be more gentle?

    • That’s his way always rough and wild with me

    • Ohh no especially preggers I know body changes, that's a tuff discussion since its his "style" unfortunately u gotta tell him, babe I'm sore it fukin hurts were I actually dont want it if ur gonna be that rough, can we try softer

    • If he is still a dick might be at a crossroads physically. What if u sit on his face and dictate the speed or pressure?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Is this for real? That is really, really weird. You're sore and raw, so he needs to stop. End of story. This is not difficult.

  • I'd suggest you go see your OB and get him to tell you to stop. Then tell him and it's not your doing.

  • Wtf. Say no. If you get a UTI now, that can cause premature labor.

    • Omg! I really don’t want that to happen

  • What about saying "no" ?

  • That's insane and abusive. Yes, tell him to quit or leave there no other choice

  • You probably have a urinary tract infection. Go to the doctor.
    Set some boundaries with your husband.

  • If this is for real and not spam, you need to see a doctor immediately, and set boundaries with your husband.

  • Did you know a Virginia republican, once tried to get oral, illegal

  • If it hurts and he won't be more gentle then yes; go to your parents house.

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