Should I leave my husband because of this problem?

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Since I got pregnant my husband started eating me out like a crazy. At first I thought that it’s a matter of him but it’s getting out of control now. He do it twice or more daily and I can’t take it anymore honestly. It hurts so fucking bad when I pee and it looks very sore because of sucking. It burns when I go to the bathroom and the pain is unbearable at this point. I told him that I will leave to my parents house until I give birth and he got angry and called me a baby for saying this.

Answer 1

jkm1864 | 356 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I think You need to spend more time communication with Your husband instead of coming here and asking us this question. The only reason Your clit is hurting is because You haven't said no and its explained to Him the reason why. I'll also point out that men find women sexy as fuck when they are carrying their child so He is probably just acting out how turned on with You.

Answer 2

BeenThereLovedIt | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Lay down the law. Licking and whatever else is to be gentle and pain-free. If he can't abide by that then sorry you got dealt a bad hand, but surely his abusive tendencies were obvious before you got pregnant, so you also need to own your own responsibility in it. Leave if you must, it is your life, but the life you carry is his too, you will need to reconcile that.

Answer 3

G3tAClue

Xper 7

Tell him to control himself or you will go to your parents. The fact that he is hurting you and doesn’t care is a form of abuse. Lay down the law with him, you’re having a baby, you shouldn’t have to parent your husband too.

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Zannika02 | 955 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

Wtf is sex painful? Do u not want sex? Maybe it drives him wild but still if u say it hurts that's a dick response. why can't he be more gentle?

Asker

8 mo
That’s his way always rough and wild with me
Zannika02

8 mo
Ohh no especially preggers I know body changes, that's a tuff discussion since its his "style" unfortunately u gotta tell him, babe I'm sore it fukin hurts were I actually dont want it if ur gonna be that rough, can we try softer
Zannika02

8 mo
If he is still a dick might be at a crossroads physically. What if u sit on his face and dictate the speed or pressure?

Answer 5

Asker

That’s his way always rough and wild with me

Answer 6

Zannika02

Ohh no especially preggers I know body changes, that's a tuff discussion since its his "style" unfortunately u gotta tell him, babe I'm sore it fukin hurts were I actually dont want it if ur gonna be that rough, can we try softer

Answer 7

Zannika02

If he is still a dick might be at a crossroads physically. What if u sit on his face and dictate the speed or pressure?

Answer 8

AustinMan | 40.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Influencer

I'd suggest you go see your OB and get him to tell you to stop. Then tell him and it's not your doing.

Answer 9

severance

Xper 5

Wtf. Say no. If you get a UTI now, that can cause premature labor.

Asker

8 mo
Omg! I really don’t want that to happen

Answer 10

Asker

Omg! I really don’t want that to happen

Answer 11

AmandaYVR | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Is this for real? That is really, really weird. You're sore and raw, so he needs to stop. End of story. This is not difficult.

Answer 12

KingdomForAKiss | 319 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

You probably have a urinary tract infection. Go to the doctor.
Set some boundaries with your husband.

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NYCQuestions1976 | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If this is for real and not spam, you need to see a doctor immediately, and set boundaries with your husband.

Answer 14

Anonymous

If it hurts and he won't be more gentle then yes; go to your parents house.

Answer 15

asshole_

Yoda

Did you know a Virginia republican, once tried to get oral, illegal

Answer 16

DannyFanny | 244 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

That's insane and abusive. Yes, tell him to quit or leave there no other choice

Answer 17

slatyb | 6.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

What about saying "no" ?

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