The prostate is the male g-spot and provides amazing pleasure. You can use your finger to do it or a toy. Happy to explain how to use your finger... summary: lube well (finger and butt hole) - find index finger is best - with palm up facing your balls, slowly slide your finger in. If all of this is first time, take it slow and don't just jam it in there lol...
The prostate is not that far in. It's basically lined up with the base of your penis - use a "come to me" curling motion with your finger - you'll feel your prostate firm - it's about the size of a walnut... keep massaging it for as long as you'd like - you'll feel it get firmer and firmer. And if you are massaging it while you are cumming... just wow wow wow.
I often use toys - did so yesterday even ha. There are lots of good ones to choose from. I like to sit and edge for a long time when I masturbate and the purple toy in the pic is great for that. Not too big - great for sitting - has a bullet vibe that works the prostate nicely.
The curved one in the pic is nice too as it has a vibe inside and underneath on the perineum- that's a great area to massage too. Curved ones like that are made for the prostate as it is that shape of a curled finger.
For how long to orgasm... really up to you. I like to edge and let everything build up - but even if you keep it short, by massaging your prostate your orgasm will be crazy strong. I often won't touch my cock for awhile as my prostate gets aroused - but that's totally up to you. You could stroke for awhile then put the toy in.
Usually when massaging it, you'll notice lots more than normal pre-cum and when you orgasm more cum with strong bigger blasts.
For tips, always use lots of lube and if you use your finger, keep your fingernail trimmed tight with no rough edges. You def do not want to cut yourself inside there - can be a big problem. I know some folks like to have an enema before butt play - I've done it and it is pretty cool but I don't do that always so that's really personal preference. Last tip... enjoy experimenting - it's a wonderful erogenous zone :)0 1 0 0Thanks for the MHO :)
I have had a prostate massage from several ladies while they were giving me oral sex. No toys involved. They put KY on their index finger and inserted it up to the second knuckle, then wiggled it in that come here motion. Big, explosive orgasms.
0 0 0 0Not really looking to get the lady involved until I know I like it
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Make sure the toy you use is specifically for anal stimulation cause they have a base, it’s not safe to use one made for g spots
0 0 0 0no toys you use your finger or fingers and your tongue to give a guy a prostate massage
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0 4I don't know a lot about it, but from what I've seen and read, it's bullshit.
0 0 0 0buy a toy made to reach it, then hang on, you will have a wild orgasm. get your girl friend to buy a strap op
0 1 0 0I've got 2 prostate massagers and a dildo. I've never managed to have a prostate orgasm
0 0 0 0There are plenty of prostate toys on the market. Start with something small. You'll want something that curves to hit the prostate. Aneros is probably the best brand of toy to use. Don't focus too much on getting a prostate only orgasm. But it'll kick up your normal masturbation to 11.
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