It's healthy to masturbate if you are partnered as long as the behavior does not interfere with the sexual intimacy that you have with your partner.
Feelings of sexual inadequacy as they worry that their partner's desire to masturbate is a signal that they are not giving their partner what they need sexually or that their partner is not attracted to them anymore. I understand but I think you are overreacting.
In fact, masturbation is part of many couples' sexual repertoire.
A person might simply need reassurance that their partner is not masturbating to fulfill needs that are going unmet in the relationship. However, when one partner is unsatisfied and it is motivating them to engage in masturbation, that also needs to be addressed and discussed. Communication is key. Discussion is best option. I hope I answered your question. In case of any queries please feel free to ask.
Well there a few things to consider. Are u guys still having sex? If he has a high sex drive were ur he masterbaites but u guys still have sex that day I don't see a problem. If u want sex but he master baiting so much he not in the mood when u are there is a problem. In my opinion I think partners should take care of that for each other when there with each other. However that can be a lot of work and not everyone wants to do that. So u also got to ask urself if u want him to stop are u going meet all his needs. If he comes to u horny are u going turn him away because ur not in the mood? U can't tell him not to masterbaith and the not relieve it for them. So if u want to him to stop u really got to be available to him. Its complicated and I hope u guys work it out. Let me know. if u want to discuss it further
You think that's bad? I caught my boyfriend masturbating next to me once because he thought I was asleep and he couldn't fall asleep
I was really mad, I loved it when he woke me in the middle of the night to have sex and now we were down to that 🤦🏼♀️
In my case talking to him solved it, I told him I was angry at him for masturbating when I was lying naked next to him, why would he ever prefer his hand over my naked self? He couldn't stop apologizing and kept repeating I was tired and didn't want to wake me
That could be a sign of porn addiction.
@Wise4myage I really don't mind porn nor masturbation but why masturbate when I'm lying next to him? That's like offensive to me
Exactly, its lame, and you wouldn't see me doing that, lol.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't have a problem with her taking care of herself, on occasion. I do it, too. Sometimes your partner just isn't available, and it's totally natural.
I would have a problem if she chose to masturbate, rather than have sex with me, but otherwise I think it's perfectly healthy to take care if yourself from time to time.
Masturbation in a relationship is normal as long as you have a healthy sex life. My fiancee and I live together. We have great and frequent sex but we also both masturbate. It really is no big deal. How is your sex life with him? What is the frequency?
i tell my wife when i am going to... if she is home or be back soon, she'll join me for the finale after i've edged for awhile. if she can't or doesn't want to, no worries... but i will let her know
So next time when you on perio, suck him off daily
If he feels the need to service himself so what maybe you could learn to do it for him and that way he won't do it alone again
If masturbating occurs more often than sex with you, then its a problem. Is that happening?
awesome
we are both ok with it. sometime we do it together
It's normal to masturbate regardless if you are in arelationship or not.
Why? Masturbation is between him and him-not you. Masturbation is a gift you give yourself. Was it because he didn't have sex with you? Did you signal willingness to accommodate him? Did you offer to give him head or anal if you were on the rag?
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