How often do men think about pussy?

[Anonymous]

Do you think about it every time you look at a woman? At a picture? I’m curious if the male sex drive is as big as it is.

[Circuitous]

To be fair, a high sex drive goes far beyond just thinking about pussy, given that sexuality itself is a psychological construct. There are many ramifications to it that drive it, from which the majority reside in the subconscious. I wrote in another opinion recently that sexuality altogether is a subset of biological functioning, and an extremely strong and crucial subset heavily influenced by biological evolution, because, without it, there wouldn't be any procreation. When people think about sex they envision a far more comprehensive idea analogous to the concept of sex itself cross-referenced with their own desires and sexual preferences. Although, some of these preferences can, for example, isolate certain aspects such as merely thinking about pussy, even to the extent that it becomes compulsory. That is where the line between preference and fetish is blurred and you find yourself obsessed about something in particular, like pussy. Fetishes and how they form, are actually quite interesting, and I have been studying the psychology behind it for years. Also to make sense of my own kinks and fetishes, so this is most definitely familiar territory for me.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

It's not that simple. Both men and women have libidos, or sex drives. Some have a very strong libido, and others have a weak libido. Sometimes I envy those with the weaker libidos because at least they are spared the unrelenting sexual cravings that those of us with high libidos suffer from. Me, with a overactive libido - all I think about is sex, pussy, cock, sex acts, etc.. All day every day. I can't look at any female (that's at least a 3 or so) without considering what her nipples and pussy look like, what it tastes like, what it feels like, what she's like in bed, how she would look bent over, or on her knees, or on top. Is she a screamer, or a mouse? Does she like to swallow?

Everyone one of those questions filters through my brain, and my imagination in the.04 seconds I glanced at her. Then the next girl... same, and so the cycle continues. I'm still considering after looking away- what would she be like in bed? Which ones are dominants, which are submissives, which ones are also high libido and have sexual secrets, and what are those secrets?

I've always been interested in the thoughts of a high libido female, as I've never met one who equaled my drive, so if any of you are out there, dm me and tell me what's on your mind :)

[ThomasTKay]

I call it a vagina or vulva to be respectful. And because I respect that part as well as women so much, yes, I spend a great deal of time thinking about it. To me, being attracted to females, I see the vagina and vulva area as the most beautiful area and organ on a woman's body followed by her breasts. The only thing more beautiful than a woman's sexual organs is her face and personality. But I see the vagina/vulva as so beautiful and think about it so much because to me, it's my counter part. It's the way in which a woman lets me inside her body to have that amazing connection. It's the way I pleasure a woman and receive pleasure. It's symbolic of creation, womanhood, love, pleasure, connection, etc. This is why I cannot nor will I ever disrespect it, marginalize it, or treat a woman as a doormat.

[centerline]

maybe not "pussy" specifically, but we think about sex in general mostly all the time...

when we see an attractive person, it will stimulate our brain and we will think about it if we have time... sometimes we have other problems that need sorting out, but when we go to the happy place in our minds, you can bet sex is involved somewhere in those thoughts...

there is no one who we feel is hot and attractive that is off limits to our thoughts... and our thoughts are going in a cycle all the time, so sometimes the thought are very strong, and at other times the thoughts are a bit weaker, but they are always there and we are mostly always ready to "jump" if the chance presents itself...

[Chriscunning]

Depends. If i had a long session with my girl in the most awesome outfit and a proper sl#t in the room, I probably won't think about it much after that session for a day or 2.

If it's been a while and she's walking around in normal pants I find hot, I will think about it pretty much all the time to a point were it starts leaking :-(

[Madhatter920]

Can't speak for everyone, but personally, yeah. At least for a moment. And at random points throughout the day for seemingly no reason at all.

[blank_expression]

I don’t too often except only when I am not thinking about beer or food.

[wanderinsquirrel]

If a guy likes a girl sexually then yeah but not always. Like if she's a friend or a family remember then obviously no.
PS: Talking about guys who are not perverts)

[TonyV]

Definitely not every time I look at a girl. It's not really my first thought either. I geuss if she got me horny I'd still think smaller at first like playing with her boobs or a handjob, dont start with thoughts of pussy

[triff]

Over the years of life experiences I have become a believer that those who talk or boast about sex are normally the ones who are timid and lacking in their own sexual exploits I would say it never leaves your thoughts Fantasies about some girls feel your head but from my point of view the attraction is first followed by sexual desire if the girl ha shown an interest back

[Barry88]

Not every time, but when I've met an attractive girl, I will sometimes fantasize how her pussy would look like.

When I watch porn, I prefer porn with closeups of the female pubic area. I enjoy watching pussy, more than watching boobs for example.

[jkm1864]

Depends on how old they are. When I was like 14 My greatest fear was being called up to the chalkboard to do a math problem because I constantly got erections. In My twenties I thought about it less but the sex drive was still insane. In My 40's it doesn't control My life like it used to but I still think about it daily but if I had a partner I'd be happy with sex 3 times a week.