Why do some men get offended if you spit during a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

Cum doesn’t taste good even if the guy has a healthy diet so why do men expect women to swallow/ get upset if they spit. Also why does it bother some guys if you wanna finish it off with a handjob do they don’t cum in your mouth, not like stop early or anything but finish it off outside of the mouth.

[magiusX26]

i dont care yo get blow jobs but can understand not swallowing can come across as a form of rejection. it can imply that you only put him in your mouth as an obligation which in and of its self, me personally would be turned off by.

as for the taste of cum. you maybe either only tasted the same guy or only a small number of guys and had bad luck on their flavor. plenty of women actually enjoy the taste of most men's cum, or so many many say.

either way if you do not want to swallow its fine but please let the guy know before getting started to at least alert him to maybe not take it personally. and if you are only doing it as an obligation, then by all means just not put him in your mouth at all.

[CoolGuyJoe]

*some men. I think that's worth mentioning.

Swallowing is a really intimate act. Sometimes when it doesn't happen it can be taken a certain way...

[chrissykerdock]

it's just expected that we swallow plus it's just easier if you did... trust me it's not bad at worst it tastes salty or bleachy but you just swallowing so it should pass quickly and it's worth it as guys just love it when you do and they're just that much nicer when we do.

[AmandaYVR]

Anyone who gets offended, dump him immediately.
Or better yet, find out if he is that kind of guy beforehand. Don't waste your time with guilt trippers like that.

[LuvMeSomeBoys]

Not swallowing semen is a form of rejection? Now I’ve heard it all!

[AndyOh]

Some guys have this macho complex. So if you are giving them head, you should swallow.
I would spit! Too bad if it hurts their ego.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

It feels like being rejected when you spit. Like you feel that we're gross. How would you feel if a guy stopped to spit out pussy juice every few moments while licking you, and then told you your pussy doesn't taste good, regardless of your diet?

[Asker]

Well from my experience ( on my own) there’s not enough “ pussy juices” for you too need to spit or swallow. It’s more like a layer not a liquid that can drip.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I don't think the amount here matters, it's the same concept and ingestion of bodily fluids. My point was sincere, you asked for a reason, I gave you one.

[Asker]

Well no really actually. Guys expect girls to swallow an actually mouthful of fluids, guys just get a little bit on their tongue. It’s completely different that’s why there’s not a guy equivalent of spitting or swallowing

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I don't know why you are ignoring my point though - when a man finishes, you get about a tablespoon of sperm, or maybe two or more if he's younger. Over the course of 20 minutes of licking a girl, it's realistic to say that a tablespoon of your juice is ingested, and for younger or hornier girls, this too can be 2 tablespoons or more. But at this point we're splitting hairs - the amount was not the focal part of my answer - it was simply that we do taste you, and ingest you, and that you would be equally as put-off if a guy said your vagina tasted gross and tasted bad. Again, you wanted an answer, I gave you one. I can't help that it isn't the answer you wanted.

[Asker]

It’s just not the same. Ours is more like us having precum in our mouths. Cum is actually enough that you have to SWALLOW which is a lot. I promise you if I guy had a mouth full of fluids from me I would care if he spotted it, I know it’s gross

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I fully acknowledge that distinction, If I haven't been clear about that, then my apologies. I believe I see the disconnect here. My original answer doesn't change no matter what amount of fluid comes from where, I gave reasons based on senses- smell, taste, texture. So my answer is just one that you don't agree with, and that's okay :) Thanks for the discussion.

[Asker]

Ok fair enough

[Haelaeix123]

No idea, personally im okay with not cumming in a girls mouth and her not swallowing.

[sheikalana]

No one ever got offended at me for doing that. Been having sex for a long time.

[madridk]

You shouldn't be asking this

[Thatsamazing]

Because.

[jb12358]

Guys don’t usually expect you to swallow it but in my experience most girls do. Just spit it out if that’s your thing. As for cumming in a girl’s mouth, it’s a way more intense orgasm when a blowjob is finished orally. Switching to handjob changes the sensation and ruins it.

[Troubledyoungman]

There lame should be happy they got a bj

[TheFlak38]

if you don't want to swallow then dont suck dick. And leave the hand job to our own hands. You're not better than us at it.

[Asker]

Yea, I mean same thing when guys finger girls. But girls just don’t wanna leave guys hanging when they don’t want you to finish in their mouths

[dudeinohio]

NEVER finish with a handjob. How would you like it if a guy went down on you and then when you were about to cum, he switches to his finger?

[swettannie]

because it's disrespectful to split

[Guffrus]

Good girl x

[Asker]

How is it disrespectful...

[TheBassman]

Because porn has made them think that this should be mandatory after every blowjob. However, you'll do only things you like and you feel comfortable doing. Being offended because their partner did not swallow is deeply problematic.

[asshole_]

His diet, determines how he tastes
If he eats lots of sugar itll taste sweet
If he eats lots of salt, it'll taste salty etc..

GET OVER IT

[Asker]

I don’t think that’s an answer to this question but ok

[asshole_]

I answered the question

[BeyondCuriosity]

It's a bit insulting. I swallow fluids during oral with women. I feel like I'm being told that I'm gross or something. Also just makes me feel good about myself if they swallow.

[Asker]

I mean it’s not saying YOUR gross per se. The taste and texture of cum is gross. If the woman thought you were gross she wouldn’t have you in her mouth in the first place

[BeyondCuriosity]

Right, but there was an intense sexual act that just happened between she and I. I'm panting and smiling and basking in the love and she's like grossed out and spitting out what we just did. I can't exactly say I enjoy the taste when I'm going down on a woman either, but I do so to pleasure her and I swallow those fluids.

[Asker]

Wow how much fluids lol. I’ve never had a “ swallowable “ amount. I’ve never heard anyone ask a guy if they spit or swallow ( straight guys)

[BeyondCuriosity]

Not a ton, but it builds up with spit and such. Noticeable taste difference when a girl orgasms. It also just doesn't taste good down there to start with really. Again though, doing that isn't about me. It's about giving her pleasure.

[Asker]

Yea, dick doesn’t taste good either. I’m complaining about girls being expected to actively swallow what’s essentially dick snot

[Jmmmfi4]

Because it's super disrespectful

[Brownisback]

Spit cum yes.. but if u spit every other minute to rid of precum.. thats weird

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't give bj to guys who dont deserve.
A man would be polite and okay if the girl didn't want to swallow

[Anonymous]

You just haven't found the right guy; my cum tastes good and my diet sucks. Also it is about accepting an essential part of him; and by spitting you are rejecting him, in a way.

[Asker]

But if you were rejected him you wouldn’t have him in your mouth at all

[Opinion Owner]

It isn't logical it is just the way guys feel about it.

[Asker]

Yea I see where your going