Am I still a virgin if my boyfriend couldn’t get inside me?

Anonymous

Tbh I’m not sure if I’m still a virgin or not. My boyfriend could only get the head of his penis inside me. When I went to the bathroom I only saw a little blood on my pad. I remember it was painful but I feel that he never was able to penetrate fully. I never had sex since so I’m not sure if that counts or not.

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Anonymous
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I guess it depends on the perspective of the person who cares about whether you are a virgin or not.

I would suggest that you are because penetration didn't happen but if you ask some religious nut job who only wants an untouched bride if he is ok with some dude having pushed the tip into you, he might not be so happy.

But who gives a fuck what that asshole thinks?
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jkm1864 Xper 6
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Yes Your still a virgin. You might want to look for a smaller man because when You have sex it's going to be very painful.
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MissDawn7961 Guru
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read your bible and ask God if you know how to read that is ! thanks
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purplepoppy Master
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Unless you're full penetrated it just classes as foreplay
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- Gagname
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  I agree
- purplepoppy
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  Virginity is classified as having full cardinal knowledge of a man. If he can't penetrate then he's not a man.
- jkm1864
  +1 y
  I think the problem wasn't because he was man enough His penis was too big to fit which happens sometimes when a girl is a virgin. I have only heard about it one time and that was in high school and He was complaining about the exact same thing.
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- daren0326
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  "Virginity is classified as having full cardinal knowledge of a man. If he can't penetrate then he's not a man." Wow that's just not true at all and you need to learn what virginity means.
- purplepoppy
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  Only 2 reasons it won't go in, she's not aroused or he's not hard
- daren0326
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  @purplepoppy Either that or he's got a micropenis. There is that. I mean we all know the hotdog being thrown down a hallway joke. 😂

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VIVANT Guru
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Nope you had sex. Just wasn’t pleasant.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah it wasn’t. But I feel weird because most other girls don’t have the same issue I had..
- jkm1864
  +1 y
  Just deal with the fact that You have a small vagina or Your boyfriend has an enormous cock. Either way Your tools don't match I know it sucks but it happens to everyone. The bright side though is average and smaller guys will be happy with one more woman whom isn't a size queen.
- VIVANT
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  @jkm1864 No way to know yet. It’s hard to get in first several times no matter the size. DIY is over a period of time stretch things out on your own without time pressure of a horny guy, helpful in my opinion
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- jkm1864
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  All You can do is use lots of lube and take it slow. The vagina is a muscle that will stretch but don't expect to enjoy it the first time. I'm pretty sure You will probably have more trouble with His length that His girth because guys tend to like to ram it home in their enthusiasm and when You have smaller vaginas sex is pretty painful if they guy is big. I'm pretty sure that's a pretty common issue to be honest so Your not alone. You just need to communicate with him openly and find out how much You can handle and possibly use your hand or something to limit His depth if that's and issue.
- VIVANT
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  @jkm1864 Only being able to get the top in is very normal At first unless you have a very high pain threshold or like pain bc Sex hurts at first even just finger hurts even a pinkie. Depends on how srvsityve the area is too. I didn’t even use tampons I couldn’t get them in. Until I actually went in and stretched things out. There’s no penis in the world I could’ve gotten in no matter how small. First time doesn’t mean anything as far as size comparability. She can’t know if he’s too big until she’s able to get something small in there in the first place. I don’t think there’s enough info to know anything But surely no one should be ramming anything in at this point They shouldn’t aim for full sessions just little by little Then he can Cum outside by a hj or whatever Sorry OP I don’t mean to talk aboit you in third person 🤗 But I agree take it SLOW. Some people find beung n top is helpful bc it helps you control his penis and he can’t “ go too fast or ram it in” I prefer just doing it myself for a few months then having sex after I’m stretched. For me a penis first thing is just sn impossibility. That’s not unusual. Sex is not the beat way to adapt a vagina to objects entering. It’s too aggressive. There’s LOTS of info on how to make sex painless for virgins— just google !!!☺️👌
- jkm1864
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  Thanks for the lesson I'm totally ignorant because well I'm a guy but I do understand sex can be painful toward some women. I know one thing I'll keep what You said to Myself when it comes to My daughter because I think that's moms place not mine.
- Asker
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  Lol yeah thanks for this response. It’s also because I didn’t have a get good partner unfortunately. He just wanted to get it done with and didn’t really try to make me comfortable. But yeah I envy girls who get it in the first time they try? Lol
MrHopper Guru
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At the end of the day it really isn't important, in 10 years time you probably won't even remember this
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slatyb Master
+1 y
Who cares? Why do you imagine this is important or interesting?
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Dargil Master
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Welcome to non-virginhood.
You intended to have sex and he got in.
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Iron_Man Master
+1 y
Nope you blew it you’re not a virgin no longer
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In_Trance Master
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yeah
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REDHOTLINE Yoda
+1 y
You are not virgin
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Anonymous
+1 y
that counts. Sex isn't always good
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