How to finish at the same time as my boyfriend?

[AustinMan]

First of all, you need your boyfriend to show more self control. I find that thinking about something a little sad distracts me enough to last until I'm ready to cum but doesn't interfere with erections. The other thing you can do is ride, Sally, ride!!

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[MrHopper]

He needs to learn to pace him self... stop start, adjust etc its pretty much all on him really... he could do a lot of foreplay with you to begin with as well to get you more ready for when he starts

[MrsJaximus-Lion]

My husband takes a lot of time to finish so we have some foreplay for him and then we get it on. If you want start masturbating before you two start or some foreplay and when you think you are close, start doing it.

[msss98]

Foreplay is probably whats gona help u the most. That being said maybe u take a bit longer than him, just talk to him im sure he will undestand and u guys can find a happy middle ground

[Dargil]

Try this. Not romantic but it might be an answer.
*Have him give you oral sex or skilled fingering and bring you to the point of or into orgasm.*When he has done that, have him mount up quickly and go as fast and strong as he wants to and go straight for the finish without slowing or pausing. We use this position because it's easy on her when I ride her like a bronc.
*The reason for this is that arousal stays high longer for a girl. If you have already cum, he may catch and extend your orgasm and if not, you are very close and can cum along with him in almost no time.

[Anonymous]

That is the complaint many women who fuck poorly skilled partners.

If you didn’t get you off at least once before putting his cock anywhere near you... then he needs to work on his game.

[Thatsamazing]

Why do people say "sleep with" to mean sex? Sleep is sleep. Sex is sex.

[Massageman]

Rub some Baby Teething Gel on his penis first. That 20% benzo will hold him down for while!

Get more foreplay from him up front.

[PandaSon]

More foreplay and get ur boyfriend to just calm down and get him to think about u aswell and make sure u climax aswell

[Twalli]

More foreplay might work, although it may make him cum earlier too

[Anonymous]

Well, basically you will have to practice getting there sooner, he has to practice prolonging it or both.

[Anonymous]

more foreplay and manually manipulate your clit as he f*cks you

[trans_woman]

There are sprays; available at most drug stores; he can use that will allow him to last longer.

[JamesBlackDragon]

You could always do foreplay until you get yours and then start sex

[bklynbadboy1]

You just need more for play he has to get you excited about it then do the actual sex

[B2281]

He needs to work on either his foreplay or after play or both.

[CubaPirate]

Introduce a toy to proceedings. We do occasionally and find it hot af

[Wise4myage]

Timing, patience and lots of sex can be helpful.