Do you think people who are virgins after 23, do you think they lack social skills? If not what else do you think they need?

[poneglyphs]

Juat, curious, I'm 25 year old virgin and I don't feel like I lack social skills. Personally I have just been getting ghosted or stood up a lot. I don't know.

[boredguy01]

I think the majority of adult virgins lack social skills and have no idea how to talk to women but weight could be the main factor in your case. Most people aren't attracted to someone who's significantly overweight

[poneglyphs]

Am I really that big? Do I look big to you?

[boredguy01]

You're definitely not morbidly obese but you look overweight in your picture so I think working out and eating healthy would help you a lot physically and mentally

[boredguy01]

Plus a lot of girls like fit guys so getting in shape could help you get a girlfriend or hookup with someone

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, you're right but that's if I even talk to anyone.

[boredguy01]

I think once you get down to a healthy weight and you're happier with how you look it'll be easier to put yourself out there and talk to people

[poneglyphs]

yeah, you're' right.

[summiter]

Not at all... an age is just and age and we all have different time frames and values. The right girl will enter your life when you least suspect it.

[poneglyphs]

I know, I'm just tired of not having a romantic or sex life, not even talking to girls who I may like. I want to change my circumstance but I can't right now.

[summiter]

You can change things if you want to. Start out small and build on it. Have you tried some dating sites or a hookup site like Tinder? I know jerking off is probably getting old but hang in there. Try to widen your social activities so you meet new people. Take a chance! Just smile and be yourself.

[poneglyphs]

I have and had no success on them, I can't be more social due to COVID, I could try and work but it's kind of risky.

[coderedcerberusnight]

I know some virgins past 23 that are saving their virginity for the right person or for marriage. It's not that you lack social skills, but maybe you could find dates and hookups elsewhere if you're that determined to lose your virginity.

Tindr is a good starting point for hookups! Also, try getting involved in groups and activities if you're looking to just talk to girls and maybe find someone to love. Search online for groups that involve things you love. Lastly, don't be shy to trying online groups and online dating if you're up for it.

Best of luck, my dude!

[poneglyphs]

I tried online dating and I haven't had any positive experiences with it. I'm trying to join groups but this covid-19 has stop me from doing anything new.:^(

[coderedcerberusnight]

Covid really does suck for socialising honestly. If you don't like online dating, then maybe just join groups on social media! I once met a girl through a roleplay group, but heck, you might find yours through a fishing group!

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, maybe but thanks for the advice

[MikeTheBartender]

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You need to build muscle, confidence, and money. Then the chicks will follow.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, I do lack some social skills; I will admit that. I don't know how to flirt.

[billluc69]

a partner would be a big help

[poneglyphs]

It would be but I'm not getting one anytime soon.

[billluc69]

then u masturbate, or get a toy

[poneglyphs]

that's what I'm doing but I'm getting tired of just masturbating.

[billluc69]

get a toy and try the prostate

[Anonymous]

It's a reminder of something I've always hated