Why do they show people losing their virginity so smoothly in movies and it just falls in?

[Anonymous]

When in reality we all know that doesn’t happen. For women it can be horrific pain and it does always go in all the way the first time. It might need to be attempted a few times before it actually happens and when it does go all the way it can bleed.

So when the reality for 99% of women is a very painful first, second, third and first few times experience, why do films show us an unrealistic image of it? They show that it just falls in and there is literally no obvious pain.

[genericname85]

Cause they don't really have sex in movies. Shocker, I know. Movies aren't "sex education".

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Because the guys dick was small and her vagina was big? 🤨

[Asker]

Hahahaha 😂

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

you seen that movie.. yeah?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy85G-EuKQ4

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

lol ty for voting me Most Helpful, i hope many visit this question to find answers and watch StarWars 🥰

[Mystic_Nova]

Because it's a fantasy. Usually they want the first time a dreamy experience where the girl feels immense pleasure with a man she lives and it's all about passion and lust. Not the stuff that really happens, like bleeding, pain and all that

[DrippingHoney]

Are you somehow under the impression that what happens in movies is realistic? You think sex with a virgin is the only thing falsely represented?

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

My mom told me thats how a vagina acts around men, when we watched this movie
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qy85G-EuKQ4

[CashMoneyElias]

Uhh the movies are fake

[ThiccNigro]

Cuz it's a movie?

[Sylvanas_Windrunner]

Cause movies aren't real

[In_Trance]

Horrific pain? Come on... I get it's not like the movies, but that's just as far fetched

[Asker]

You’re not a girl so how would you know? You probably have never slept with a virgin or if you have it was probably a very tall/big built woman with a big vagina or thin hymen. Every girl I know including myself experienced horrific pain despite having loving understanding and experienced husbands who took hours during foreplay. Even though we get very wet we still had horrific pain. Some of us bled for weeks. My mum had an infection and needed antibiotics. The blood oozes out it literally gushes out and we had thick hymens. Maybe girls with big vaginas or people who used dildos don’t have horrific pain but everyone has described it as horrendously painful. I have spoken to many many women and men about this and even doctors and everyone agrees that there is some degree of pain, with many saying the pain was agonising.

[In_Trance]

Yea... ok.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

lol her essay killed me inside and im a virgin

[Asker]

@ChocoBrownieMonster your women have big loose vaginas and are fat that’s why

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

@Asker what is this angry outburst infront of my friend

[REDHOTLINE]

They are fake but. Not all first time experiences horrific painfull.

[Asker]

Not all are horrific but most are. Almost every girl has some degree of pain unless she probably has a bigger vagina.

[REDHOTLINE]

Not only relation with size of vagina it mostly depends on man's behaviors. And foreplay and man's sex capacity

[Asker]

I had plenty of foreplay and was very wet and still it was the worst pain I ever experienced and I have broken bones in the past and walked a mile on a fractured ankle, but this was way worse! I bled for over a week heavily. The women in my family do have quite thick hymens though and I am small boned.

[REDHOTLINE]

Your giy was so so much hard.

[Asker]

Not that much but hard enough. He’s six inches long. It was just extremely painful.

[REDHOTLINE]

I have 6 inches but I never hurt any girl like yours. Also on anal.

[Unstoppable20]

I often wondered about that. I never asked any of my previous girlfriend about it. I'm sorry the first few times suck for you ladies.

[Anonymous]

Because movies aren't real

N. b. never sleep with virgins and thus the problem is solved

[Anonymous]

I mean for me it went as smoothly as the movies. But it probably wouldn't have without foreplay.

[Anonymous]

actually it does happen when the female is properly aroused and relaxed.
I have been with my share of virgins (all small framed females) and I have a larger than average penis... NONE have had any issues or pain the first time.
By the time I put it in, it practically fell in.
The sexually mature vagina will loosen and
lubricate to allow any human sized penis in without issue when the female is relaxed and aroused properly.

But most girls have an idiot their first time who cares more about getting off than making it good for her.
She is also in the belief it will hurt and it makes her nervous which makes her not relax which makes it a self for filling prophecy.

[Asker]

I had a horrifically painful first time although I was very wet but it literally felt like there was a block and nothing would pass so I kept telling him to force it in but he was scared it would bleed and he’s squeamish and then he pushed it in and it hurt worse than any pain I have ever felt. It already hurt even when the tip was in but when it went all the way it hurt so bad. ☹️ It was similar to all the other women’s stories I have heard. I had gushing for over a week and it still hurt a few times after that. He’s not even that that big - he’s 6 inches and it’s not that fat it’s just similar to a regular 5-6 inch dildo.

[Opinion Owner]

You weren't relaxed. You may have been wet but if you are clenched and he rams it in, it’s going to screw shit up. generally if its a girls first time a guy has to really spend the time making her forget about the penetration part and just build her mental fantasy with kisses and play and passion... her vagina will open from arousal and then while continuing the passion and mental arousal let the tip find her opening slowly and while just passionately keeping her mind busy slide it in. If she clenches or become squimish you stop and just go back to playing and building her comfort level. Sometimes it does’t happen the first try but as long as the guy cares enough to stop the girl will not have that fear and therefore will allow herself the comfort to let it happen.