Am I big enough?

[Anonymous]

When erect, my penis is 5.7 inches (14.5cm) long, while the erect girth is 5.5 inches (14cm). I’m uncut. Is this enough? I feel very insecure about my size.

[Xoxocutekitty]

I'm perfectly happy with 5in. I never get sore, I dont require 40 minutes of foreplay that I would need for a 7inch dick. All guys think that bigger is better but it's not because maybe the first few times he's good about foreplay but then when you get in a relationship, that's one of those things that always gets rushed.

I cannot ingrain enough into young men enough that the regular non aroused, we have just been kissing on the mouth girl, her vagina is 3-4 inches in length. It does NOT feel good to have some overly eager guy stick it in before she is adequately turned on with his 5, 5.7, 7in, or larger erect penis. In this context bigger hurts more objectively, since the vagina starts at 3 or 4 inches long.

Most Girls need at least 20 minutes of foreplay, and most like either oral and/or fingering before you stick your wrapped thing in. Length matters little to your ability to please her because pleasures is about angles, thrusting speed and cadence, position, your confidence and your ability to make sure she is actually comfortable. A girl needs to be comfortable and feel safe. Part of feeling safe is knowing that if a guy hits the wrong spot or maybe something is hurting or she randomly gets a cramp or whatever, that he will stop if she asks. There are tons of jerks out there that will tell her that her pain is not worst stopping sex because they prioritize their orgasm over her experience.

So in response to your original question, your penis size is fine, but please if you're going to have sex, be more mindful about other things like the comfort, trust, and connection you're having with a partner, rather than the very binary is she going to orgasm from my penis size alone.

[Asker]

Than

[Asker]

Thank you very much for this! I am a very caring person and I don’t worry about the parts that you mentioned. I always prioritize the other person’s comfort and feeling of safety. I’m just very insecure about this single thing about me, my size that is. I’m worried that even if I give 200% of myself into making a girl comfortable, aroused and safe, my size will ruin everything.