Do you think it's pretty gay for a woman to let another woman go down on her?

Question

I did it once, am i bi?

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Careful is what comes to mind... Careful.
I had an "friend" who tried to do the same to me. A few years back. She at first tried to convince me I was bi when my relationship to my childrens father was Shakey. Then when my relationship crumbled Her way of comforting me was by trying to convince me I was Les and tried to tell me the reason all my previous relationships failed waswwas because ItI waswwas actually Les. It was disastrous. She tried to control everything and tried to convince me I was full on Les when I wasn't convince she "set" me up on dates with guys that she knew (but I didn't) were toxic and any nice ones I showed interest in she go behind my back sabotage... Her goal... Her obsession... was to get me to marry her. And when I said no and I was literally in love with my now husband then boyfriend she threatened to call me out as a Les to everyone and say malicious untrue things about me... My family my job my children's father... She tried to ruin me. Ex best friend now I HATE HER no repairing no forgiving ever!

Questions to ask yourself
Can you come out
Are you willing to be in a relationship openly for all to see?
You already answered "I couldn't go down on her"
Do want to marry a woman?
For me every answer for above was no!

I believe you are still in a curious stage and
just because you acted out sexually towards a female friend doesn't make you bi. I DID do that in highschool twice. But She was a (real) friend and I simply felt at ease with her. But the firstofirst time out curiosity, a little peer pressure and maybe just to say I did something bold. The 2nd time was to clear up any loose curiosity strings but I figured it out I'm not bi or Les

Another just because it felt good doesn't necessarily make you bi either... It's physical stimulation... It's going to feel good.

People can have Orgasms even when not attracted to a person and even if they don't even like the person or even want to be with the person. Do not confused the physical (body's natural reaction) for something that it may not be.

Slow down... Be careful.

Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

Yes, if you're a female and you engage in oral sex with another female, then it's gay. Homosexuality is defined as experiencing sexual attraction towards a person with the same sex only and/or willing engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex. Because you allowed another female to engage in a homosexual act on you, the act could be considered gay. If you allow that, but you're still attracted to men, then you're bisexual as you said. Contrary to what some people might say, being willing to experiment doesn't make it any less gay. The fact that you did it or even willing to consider it makes it gay. Of course, if a man said that he had anal sex with another man "just to experiment," that doesn't make it any less gay because true straight men wouldn't want to experiment in the first place. The same logic should apply to women too. However, because less pressure exists for women to be straight, people are likely to believe otherwise and thus, it might be more common for women to experiment. Still, like I said, it doesn't make it any less gay. This answer apparently isn't to judge you. I am straight and would never engage in gay acts, but still I support the LGBT community. If you enjoy having sex with other women, then by all means enjoy yourself and keep doing it.

Lov2PlezUgurl · Accepted Answer

O think it was more like what you said by curious since you couldn't go down on her It shows that right now anyway your still straight but the fact that you were horny enough to let her go down on you and it had probably been a while since someone else has got you off and being a woman she new all the things that you loved then you probably cum harder than you ever have but if you are not attracted to pussy to the point of wanting to please it almost more than you like breathing then you're not gay... only do what makes you feel comfortable and not what you think someone else wants you to do be true to your self always

MrNameless · Accepted Answer

Yes it is. You're at least bisexual at this point if you have sexual attraction towards women

Hannahm67 · Answer

Experimenting is pretty normal more so among girls since we tend to be more comfortable with each other. I have done some experimenting myself just some kissed and touching but you did more it seems. But the truth is that you are only BI if you are attracted to women and just wanting to have her go down on you again is not the same since a guy could also do that.

chrissykerdock · Answer

it can happen i thought i could never go down on another girl but i got so horny and into it i did... it started with a kiss then she did more than kiss me... she took care of my breasts and undressed me... and after a long time of her giving me the best oral of my and more pleasures you'd never believe i returned the favor and was very happy to it wasn't like i was forced... we made love about 20 times before she called it off... as she was straight and didn't want to continue our relationship... which made me very sad at the time... i wasn't relieved that i didn't have to have sex with her anymore i was actually enjoying and was hoping to be her girlfriend as in lover... ordinarily i don't have feelings like that for another woman... she was a little older than me and a former athlete which may have been the reason i was so attracted to her.