Why should you value your virginity, ?

[sent4920]

If you could turn back the clock for those that are sexually active today, would you chose to be celebate?

[Mystic_Nova]

I'm still a virgin, by choice.

Its not so much that I value my virginity. As much as I value myself. I was/am not interested in losing it anytime soon. I have a list of things I'm more concerned about, and having sex is on the bottom of the barrel.

When I actually decide to have boyfriend again (had one in the past, but I broke it off early cause he was. dick) I also don't plan to have it soon.

For me, if he likes me and is serious, he will wait. Also, its required that he has a std checkup before we do so (I plan on having one to for fairness reasons), also, I need to have a significant level of trust and love for him, before I can have intercourse.


People love to tell me he'll leave if I make him with, but I'm fine with him leaving🤷‍♀️ If he can't wait or understand that I need time to do so, then he's not worth my time and I just scored in not giving it to an asshole. I'll gladly die a virgin, happily so, with no unwanted pregnancies or STDs. My massager takes care of me just fine, so to me, it's just not a concern

[Hannahm67]

I think it should be more valuable to girls. So many girls now think they need to lose it and end up sleeping with some random guy just because. I lost mine to a random guy and It kinda messed me up because the first time and really anytime its hard to feel nothing afterward and I don't think it is healthy if you don't feel anything after sex. IT messed me up because I tried to date the guy after and he wanted nothing to do with me. I didn't end up having sex until college when I met the love of my life and we are going to get married soon. I wish that I had waited for him so we could have had our first times together and it would have been so much more special.

I just think girls don't value sex like they used to and that they should try to find the right guy before because Lust will fade but love doesn't so if you are with someone for lust it will not last so you should be with them for love first.

[Celtero]

Mhmm... I don't think virginity is ever valuable to the virgin, it's more so a gift to your future partner. The gift of never having to be jealous that you weren't their best, the gift of not wondering what debauched actions they performed with previous partners, the gift of not thinking they wished they were with someone else.

I don't really think women appreciate that sort of gift. As a virgin it wouldn't make any difference to me if I had lost it to a drunken one night stand that I'll never remember. To most women, that's considered "experience" and experience is better than chastity in their eyes.

[Fenextra]

Your past sexual experience is really part of what makes sex better even with your current partner, with the one you love. Love is a good part of sex but experience is what makes the difference a lot of times, unless you're so lucky to find the perfect partner and grows sexually competent with him, but it's quite unlikely. If we were able to take jealousy out of the sexual experience we would live a better sexual life with our long term partner without caring about the fact he's not the first and you're not his First

[MissDawn7961]

because God wants us to

[G3tAClue]

I valued my virginity too much, I think. I appreciate having sexual experience because it made me a smarter person about sex and dating.

[sent4920]

Have you been told that , there is a crown for sexual smartness? Even when you have the chance of protecting yourself, that same sexual smartness will tell you you do not need the condom, and AIDS will be knocking on your door. Do you realize their is a transferance of spirits that takes place? Do you realize your body is a temple?

[G3tAClue]

Lol well we obviously don’t think the same way. My sexual experiences gave my sexual smartness. And of course I know my body is a temple, so why would I deny it what it needs which is sexual release?

[G3tAClue]

And why would you say that sexual smartness tells you to forget the condom? Isn’t that something an inexperienced person would do?

[0112358]

If I could turn back the clock I’d attempt to become sexually active sooner then I did.

[evilmeaning]

Same here lol

[sent4920]

There is a saying every day for the thief, one day for the owner of the house. There is always a one day, that will change that word in your mouth. Rebellion is a strong Spirit of this age.

[daren0326]

Why lol

[answerALLquestions]

No I didn't make any mistakes

[Kenneth14621]

Nope.

[Iron_Man]

Great moral values. Innocents, being pure, having pride

[sent4920]

Amen! Please never get out that boat.

[Iron_Man]

Thank you so much

[Dchrls78104]

@Iron_Man exactly what I love about being a virgin.

[Iron_Man]

Great

[Dchrls78104]

Self-control, discipline, freedom from STDs, unplanned pregnancies and other complications that spoil life for many, much less to regret: these are why I value my own virginity.

[Twalli]

No regrets so far

[sent4920]

A broken heart will be the first , and fragmented emotions later, the spiritual list goes on. STDs etc

[Twalli]

Well I am still with the girl I did it with so maybe so. As for STDs, if I was to get one I probably wouldn't have to live with it very long. I would probably die. I already don't have an immune system

[In_Trance]

lol, no

[mrgspoter]

No way lol

[EdgeMasterSC]

If a girl is a virgin, it shows she has self restraint which is a very desirable trait to have. It also shows that they might be religious which can also be desirable in the fact that religion normally involves practices of self restraint required to help a person improve the quality of their life.

[Anonymous]

b/c it will make your future husband feel special. Wouldn't you want a virgin hubby?

[Opinion Owner]

I guess some women are okay with player boyfriends that will be thinking of the mountain of pussy they've been through when they're in bed with them

[sent4920]

You said it!!