When a new guy often sexts me and asks for my nude pictures, what should I do?

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I mean, if I reject, those guys will leave. But if I want them to stay and I don’t want to do what they want me to... how to deal with them?
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I actually don’t mind sexting and sending my sexy selfies to guys I like. But the trouble is, a lot of guys will keep asking. And some seem disappointed if I stop. I think it’s very troublesome and some guys are hard to deal with.
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  • If you send pics to a guy he shares them around with his buddies for a laugh.
    When it all implodes, which it surely will, one or more of them will post them up on the internet.
    You would have to be a fool.

    • That’s wise

  • But why do you wanna send nudes? Do you like doing it? If yes, then it’s your choice.. you can send them nudes.

    • I don’t want to send. They asked me to

    • Well most guys will ask for nudes if you sext with them. They’ll leave you if you don’t send them nudes. So if you are into sexting but don’t wanna send them nudes, tell them NO. Let him leave if they wanna. You’ll find another one. There are many out there who love sexting.

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  • ignore him, he is only after one thing

  • Ok so your. Sexting so you open the door of sex being naughty your Sexting because ,,
    You want to
    Your horny
    You want to feel some thing
    Your lonely
    You want to please
    You like getting a guy off and pleasing him
    Or your reason?
    So I guy ask you for a nude either you want to or you don't,, you say if you don't then there gone,, that's when you say see ya and thank God because they were only going to get you pictures a be gone the you say if you give them well there 10 more min that the other guy ,, for a lot of people sexting is an everyday thing, I remember when no one wanted anyone to know they masturbated. Now the whole world know we both do lol so now you and I should do some sexting and picture sharing lol I say either stop because you want to,, or keep going till you fine the one for you I guess it's a choice only you can make

  • is this a guy you have already established a relationship with or a random who only ever contacts you when he wants a wank?
    if its a ''boyfriend'' then you can do whatever you are happy doing but i wouldn't advise ever sending nudes to a random even if you do like sexting with them

    • @update if all they want is for you to do something you dont want to do then why are you so desperate for them to not leave... it sounds desperate to me and the reality is tose guys will dissapear when they have gotten what they want anyway

    • @further update... if they cease to respect you when you say no... block them. its not that difficult

  • Stop sexting with guys you don't want to send nudes to?

    • Well yeah wouldn't you be disappointed if a guy you were talking to did something you liked, knew you liked it, seemed to like doing it, but then all of a sudden stopped doing it?

    • Yeah so hard to handle

  • Dodge that bullet like Neo in the Matrix.

  • Tell him you want to trade and make him go first then send him a pic of a little bit showing and gradually increase to nudity and intensity... it's fun...

  • Just say no. If that is what it takes for them to stay... you really should consider the calibre of these men you are indulging... I mean, you are merely building their “spank bank” with your nudes for them. Is it just me or is that a bit odd?

    • Then filter out the troublesome and carry on. That is all you can really do.

  • You confuse me what do you want to do

  • Depends if you want him or not

  • Depends upon the guy, you can politely Ask him to continue the way it was going, and if he's not very desperate, he'll stay 😋

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