Why does he get hard while we are cuddling? Does he always think of sex and can't enjoy anything else?

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Superb Opinion

  • he's a guy... we get hard. thats what we do when we are young... take advantage of it now because when you get older you will be wishing you had a young hard stud to take care of your desires...

    cuddling is romantic, and it gives good feelings... any man with the ability to get hard WILL if the cuddling is enjoyable to him... its the nature of the male body.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Cuddling and sex are cousins. All guys get hard when they cuddle with a sexy woman. What's your complaint?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just because he is getting a boner doesn't mean he wants sex. Some guys get them when they're comfortable

  • Well guys get aroused by touching girls, that's just a man thing.

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  • Being in the "spooning" position is just an erection trigger. I don't know why. But I do know (at least for me) most the time it has zero to do with sex.

  • Cuddling make guys hard because the woman body touch the guy body and the guy brain can seems that the oposide sex in around him and it get prepared for a posibility of having sex. Is a normal reaction from a guy especialy if he don't masturbate and is healty and olso feel atracted for that girl.

  • A guy's brain kind of goes on "auto pilot" at times. This can be one of those times.

  • I would say that he is enjoying cuddling quite a bit.

  • A boner doesn't always mean he wants to dick you down. It's an indication of excitement and happiness. I am not saying he doesn't wanna have sex, but a man can have a boner and still just want to cuddle.

    This might sound weird but even babies have boners.

  • i get the same way but in the end i won't want sex every time it happens for me its just a reaction

  • Getting a boner doesn't mean you want sex.

  • Have sex than cuddle. Let him relieve the sexual tension.

  • Elections happen for more than just secure arousel. We get them sometimes because we are excited or happy. We also just get them sometimes at random. Guys actually have very little controll over their boners

  • We cannot control our Dick getting hard just because it's hard doesn't mean we want sex

  • Getting hard may not mean he is thinking about sex. Guys can get hard during a romantic moment also. They can get hard when they feel their love for you. He is getting hard because he enjoys cuddling with you, being around you.

  • It's sexy to cuddle. Getting hard isn't just about wanting sex. It's hot af to cuddle with someone you love/like, and getting hard is a natural reaction to that.

  • Affection erection.

  • That’s a pretty harsh judgement. You’re attractive to him and it’s intimate. I mean, if he only ever treats you like fuck meat, that’s one thing, but what do you expect?