Does a man get his preference for a body type from seeing the first woman he is in love with (read details)?

I am the first naked woman my boyfriend saw. And he is a virgin. He saw me with pubic hair the first time. And if I want to remove them he begs me not to because he says he likes pubic hair: and really always asks to see and admire them. He also says he likes small breasts which is what I have.
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  • No offense to you, but what does his mother look like, and how often did he see her naked?
    Not saying that you aren't THE ONE, but psychologically, and with other things, more likely his mother is the same, and he chose you, because, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, you are like her.

    • Mothers dont all let their sons see them naked. Depends to culture. Yeah I'm not offended. I heard a child's first love is the parent, but depends to how the parents were. And love doesn't necessarily remain erotic love.

    • @lovinglover I NEVER said "ALL" and you assumed that!! I am saying that there is a Psychological basis, that is researched, and documented, that men often are attracted physically, emotionally and spiritually to women, similar to their mothers! No judgment, just stating FACTS! Google it, if you doubt!! You can deny it, all you want, but it is REAL, and maybe a factor!

    • I did agree about hearing that.

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  • Yes, I think that can definitely influence someone's preferences. He has a positive association with these things, with how your body looks.

    His preference for a body type could have been influenced by other things though. If he watched porn or nudity at a younger age, it might be that he already developed some preferences. But I think the appearance of a real person, and especially the first sexual partner, can have a huge influence on someone's preferences.

    • No he did not watch porn or view nudity It is even restricted (not America) but beside that one can tell a mental virgin.

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  • This is likely not going to be a popular answer
    but each man's preference for body type will
    vary. What stage of life is he at? What he might now find attractive as he matures.

    Some men might start off with mental
    depictions of his favorite celebrity actress,
    athlete, such as Serena Williams or favorite
    music artist such as Beyonce or Nicki Minaj.

    However, growth is inevitable and with maturity comes variety and sometimes
    imminent change.

  • Every man have different nature about nudity of a girl, honestly I love a girl with hairy under arm and pubes but at bed not only sexual penetration is essential for satisfying a girl I mean if a girl want a mind blowing orgasm thorough clit lick or I want to kiss every inch of her body whom I love deeply from heart ♥ than sure you need to shave or remove the hairs.. Please don't mind bed life is not only get pregnant after marriage otherwise every man have his own preference about a girl nudity..

  • The first naked woman I saw was a black woman when I was little lol and the only woman I ever fell in love with I never saw naked.
    My preference is basically a range. As long as she isn't too skinny or too fat, I'm content with almost anything in between.

    • Well then we can't know the answer to the question.

    • I honestly don't think it matters, because what someone finds attractive can change over time.

    • Hahah here we are again. You always tell me this. No it doesnot matter. I am just curious if a man can trace his preference. Some are die hard staunch... others preference is in fact a variety.

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  • All my girlfriends have been very diverse.
    I do have a preference though for short italian girls, because my first girlfriend was short and Italian 😂😍🇮🇹🙈

    • 😄 hehehe.. and for me I like foreign , middle eastern Asian type men. Though I probably liked that even before meeting my first boyfriend who didn't have facial hair, but I always loved and created q pinterest board entitles, "beards, obsessions, more beards "lol.. I

  • I prefer the same 🥰🥰

  • Nah, first girl I was with is generally not at all like the girls I like now.

  • I think that's very possible, or he could have formed that opinion from watching porn for instance.

  • No. Men are attracted to girls based on their preferences without even realizing it. Pubic hair doesn't enter into it, but most guys are okay with whatever the girl wants to do. So even if he didn't consciously know it, he picked you partly because of your small boobs. I never pick a girl based on boob size, but those I find attractive are on the smaller side.

  • I don't think so

    • Okay thanks. So how do they get it.

    • Well everybody have different choices. He likes hair on you but it doesn't mean he likes hairy only

    • Yes I know. I want to know if anyone can trace their preference to how it started... And he doesn't want me to remove the hair.

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  • I dont like pubic hair, I love like a porn star shaving ;) also yeah ıts that I like my girls boobs to be big or not ıt doesn't care.

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