What does it mean when a guy loses an erection during sex?

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  • Stress, anxiety etc

    He probably doesn't even know what he is stressed about.

    ED is huge blow to a guy even if its not something that happens all the time, its really embarrassing.

    Dont take it personally, it doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you the last thing that is needed in this situation is for you to start losing your shit and start manufacturing problems that dont exist and piling pressure on to him.

    How you react to this can make a big difference, try to keep things in perspective and help him to keep things in perspective. I have had this problem a few times and with different women so i can tell you for sure that some women are better at dealing with this than others, you really can make all the difference.

    If he is capable of having erections and finishing etc on his own time then there is nothing physically wrong with his penis so the only thing required is for him to be in the right headspace.

    He needs to feel like he is still worthwhile, sexy, capable of satisfying you etc but obviously without feeling patronised. You have to be geniune, show him that you are into him without pressure or expectation of penetration happening but also without counting it out completely, right? Does that make sense? Its a delicate balance and a difficult thing to do well, but if you approach it from a place of love, respect and understanding and all that good stuff you probably won't go far wrong.

    All of this is assuming you care about the guy and want to be with him etc, there is obviously an endless stream of dick for you to choose from so do what you like, you can always fuck someone else.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He might be losing feeling, getting frustrated, self conscience, trying to delay an orgasm for too long or worried he is hurting you. There could be do many different reasons. If it ever happens during sex with your partner, don't bring it up, just give him oral, do something Sexy or tell him you need a couple of minutes to break, but do not blame him or yourself and do not give up! Because just because his erection goes down doesn't mean his desire for you or his desire to finish has diminished or went away

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's often a sign of circulatory problems, best he has a chat with the doctor.

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  • ED is usually caused by low blood flow to the penis or a problem with the nerves that control erections. This is a result of other conditions, such as hardening of the arteries, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol or diabetes.

  • It means you don’t know how to arch your back right and he has to be in a super uncomfortable position or your screaming like someone stabbed you and you need to shut the fuck up. Or he can smell the last three guys you banged and wishes you’d wash that disgusting cum well once I a whole.

  • He isn't into it like you hope he is

  • Depression can cause this, as well as performance anxiety or ED. If it continues, then encourage him to see a doctor.

  • Anxiety

  • It could be a lot of different reasons. If he knows, he'd have to tell you

  • He needs to see a Urologist

  • He's tired.

  • I think it means he has health issues.

  • How often does he cum? Sounds like he needs to take a longer period between cumming.

  • he's being drinking or taking drugs probably

    • Nope he doesn’t do that

  • İf he is using condom should be he lost feeling..

    • Yeah he was

    • Take out condom, nothing better than feel that warm vagina..

    • No! I don’t want to be a prego!!

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  • Too gacked out lol

  • Could be many things:

    Working out too hard
    Not sleeping enough
    Jerking off too much
    Not attracted to you / Not turned on
    Performance Anxiety

  • Probably just distracted or stressed. Is he using a condom or not?

    • Yes he was using a condom