What should I do if he gets hard again?

Hi, so i have been dating this guy and one night while facetiming i showed him my boobs and he got really hard. I lost a bet to him and now i have to show him my boobs live and i am scared, will he get hard what should i do , i am a virgin and i dont want to loose my virginity.
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  • I would be VERRRRRRRRRRYYYYYYYYY afraid of showing urself naked on anything that can be recorded or sent over internet.
    1. He could record it and then be an idiot that loses his phone and leak it to the public.
    2. He could be a jerk that will actually blackmail u into something because he recorded it.
    3. Even worse, some virus or whatever could be the cause of spreading those images on the internet.

    So no more "facetiming and showing stuff", unless you dont mind it being spread on the internet.

    As for "virginity". Well, if you say "NO" then he should respect it.
    If he tries to push to still break ur virginity, well a man that "forces" a woman into doing things is not the right man for you.

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  • Showing him your boobs isn't a commitment to fuck him. Him being hard is just him being hard.

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  • Men are biologically wired to get hard and wanting sex from seeing boobs. Only show him your boobs if you want him to get hard and you want to have sex with him. Otherwise don't show them.
    You're not obligated to show your breasts to him even if you lost a bet. Tell him that. If he doesn't understand that then he's not worth being with.

  • Well first of all, he's not there so he can't do anything. And second of all, if you show guys your boobs it's a 95% they will get a boner, if you don't like that then... Don't show your boobs maybe?

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  • You don’t have to do anything. Just tell him sorry you are not going to show him live. If he doesn’t respect your decision then time to stop dating him.

  • I mean just don't do it if you don't want to start having sex yet. Bet or no bet if you are uncomfortable doing these sorts of things, just tell him.

    Just a side note, don't give him unnecessary blue balls 😉

  • if you don't want to than don't show him your boobs

    bet or no bet do what you want to do

  • Him getting hard doesn't mean you have to have sex. If you want to flas him and he gets hard it doesn't mean anything except he likes your boobs

  • Dont feel pressured to do something you dont want to do

  • Don't show your face but if you already did then that would be a hard thing to do?

  • What was the bet? And wow you honor your bets that is great 😂

  • Nothing if you don't want to. But it's nice he likes your boobs by his reaction...

  • How can you lose your virginity over facetime?

  • Just because he gets hard doesn't mean you have to have sex.

  • Then why are you dating him

    If you don't want to lose your virginity

    Idiot

  • I don't get it; something is missing here. When you say live, do you mean in person or by video?

    • It means in person

  • okay first you can't loose your virginity over facetime. 2nd if you are in person and he gets hard it doesn't mean something has to happen. he won't just attack you cause he is hard. and 3rd if you were that concerned about it why even make the bet?

    • I know i cannot loose it over facetime, but the bet was that he will see them in person also. I made the bet because i was 100% sure that i was going to win, but unfortunately i lost😐

  • Don't show him and simple

  • Ofcourse he will be hard

  • I think you do cam show for him..

  • You don't even have to keep the bet lol

  • if he gets hard again, grab that joystick and play

  • If he got hard seeing your boobs on FaceTime, of COURSE he's going to get even harder seeing the live show. You could always relieve him other ways if you don't want to have sex yet. Or ask him to stroke it for you if you don't even want to do that.

  • Flash him your boobs; and if he gets too close knee him in the groin.

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