Do you ever want to be another gender?

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I don't mean that you want to get surgery or feel "out of place" in your own gender now, but if there was ever such thing as reincarnation or another life after death, would you want to be another gender? Like, I wouldn't want to change genders in this life bc I know it wouldn't be right, like not everything is just how I'd want it to be, too many risks, not guaranteed to look how I want etc, but even though I'm a straight female, I can see myself marrying a woman if I were an actual man. I don't know, I''ve been thinking about this a lot lately and really hoping there's another life after death ( even though I'd probably not remember this one lol) so I could experience being another gender. Please no hate here, ok? Be respectful and if this thought "offends" you, move the fuck along.

TJFreshman22 · Accepted Answer

That'd be a really cool experience. I'd want to know what sex was like from the other side (assuming my gender preferences also changed cause I'm straight as a whistle - goes without saying), what it feels like to have a clit rubbed or how intense that would actually feel, I have no idea what being penetrated would feel like ( I can guess but that likely wouldn't be very accurate). But just to see how it feels from the girl's perspective, what feels good what doesn't, kinks and turn ons, I'd feel like then I'd know tremendously better how to be a way better lover in bed they way communication can never quite equip skill-wise on a person until they know for themselves personally.

I think it would also be incredibly eye-opening going through a single lifetime as a girl to see how very differently they are treated, from tons of guys (and unfortunately a lot of them creeps likely) hitting on you at clubs but also getting tons of free drinks, to being catcalled by men, or called sluts, whores for having sex in high school, or bitches by other girls (from my perspective girl's are way nastier with verbally abusing and degrading their fellow girls, then men ever are in high school, just my opinion from what I've seen with my own eyes. Most times men have a beef (rarely) they'll fight with their fists. Girls I find more gossip and socially assassinate each other behind each other's backs to get at each other if they're being assholes or don't like another girl because she slept with the guy the first girl wanted). In the work place, and the way many countries still talk and treat girls and second class citizens would also be extremely eye opening and saddening I suspect. I only have football and sports loving, goofball, tough brothers so I never really gained that perspective or TRUE incite growing up into the eyes of how a girl is treated by society myself. It would be quite different to hear about it vs actually live it.

Piano_11 · Accepted Answer

I‘d like the idea of it :D But what would GAG do if everyone knew about both what girls and boys think? You just runined GAG‘s business haha :D

MCheetah · Answer

Yes. I don't have a single desire to do transition surgery, but even as a straight male, I often wonder what it would be like to be a (sexy, attractive looking, lesbian) woman. This is not uncommon though; psychology calls this the Anima and Animus, or, the parts of our brains that think more masculine as a woman or more feminine as a man. They are usually only a small part of your personality though, like 5% or less (unless you're a confused Millennial who uses terms like "non-binary" or "gender non-conforming" in which case, please go away), so there is nothing wrong with that. And yeah, I wonder how different my life would be if I were a hot white woman instead of a short overweight black dude. It'd probably be like switching from Hard Mode to Easy, ha ha ha!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anima_and_animus

Regmorus · Answer

No. My biological form is not of much importance and inside the hull is a genderless being anyway.

LovingLover · Answer

Ha. Everyone has their own problem. It just depends to country sometimes and chance. Men are expected to protect and serve and die. Women are treated like property.
I have never wished to be another gender.
But it is possible to experience the both energies. A mother with her child, alone to fend off a strange wrongdoing male, will have to go into daddy mode. And a widowed father alone with his girl child will have to learn to be more sensitive and Express feminine energy.
But we were created in a way needing balance. Like in a dance it is impossible for both dancers to have a leading energy, as the dance will become impossible.

CamilaP · Answer

I think it'd be fun for like a week, then I'd want to go back to being a girl. I love being a woman.

IAMNathanael · Answer

I think I'll pass but thanks for the offer  :^)

SjE78 · Answer

nope never have, i've always accepted who i am, and what i am within myself... and that if someone chooses to with their life then that's their choice however just so long as they understand that the change is only skin deep, no matter the extent of teh surgery they will still have organs that developed and came to be as a male, they will never be able to actually (depending on what gender they were prior to change) produce sperm or allow for the gestation of a fetus within themselves so will never truly be able to experience what a person born as their desired gender is... contrary to what you hear, about people having children as the opposite sex...
those are f to m who can still carry, and still have their reproductive organs present...

genetics are not currently at the level to be able to rewrite genetic code to do a complete conversion and grow the organs needed to allow for natural and total gender conversions

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

I'd love to be a girl so i can get rich stripping and pole dancing. Then get fucked by a bi-sexual girl and also steal a guys house by convincing him to marry me and also have his kids so he can pay child support. Then just go on tinder and keep fucking every guy i match, 5 or 6 guys a day because i can get multiple orgasms and can keep going.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yup been female would be just so much better tbh

DaneSudekis · Answer

I really don't want to be a girl. I like seeing them from my perspective and being very attracted to them. Also peeing as a guy is very convenient. I I can pee anywhere, anytime, into anything.

Bandit74 · Answer

Ideally I'd want to be a more attractive and intelligent man but I'd probably prefer to be an average woman over an average man.

EyesOfGod · Answer

Yes, i want to be a Xenomorph so i can purge the silly human race and all its idiocy.

WowwGirl · Answer

I'm good where I am

COMMODOREII · Answer

I wouldn't mind trying it out for a day. Wanna exchange bodies with me? 😂

LogicBomber · Answer

with all the social privilege and protection that women... I always said if i could have picked my sex, i would have been female

jasco · Answer

i am happy with my peepee and no periods

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Hell no, I'm comfortable being the gender I was born into. Plus I believe we're not ever meant to know what it's like otherwise.

venomhbk1313 · Answer

The only reason I would is because they get further in the workplace

Benjamin_HM · Answer

I wish to be a 17 y/o girl and get doggy fucked by a 19 years old girl (who turns into male by nature)

msc545 · Answer

Yes, I would like to be reincarnated as a 6 ft tall blond woman with an IQ of 185. I would rule the world!

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I'm good with being male.

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