Shaving Downstairs. Am I a hypocrite?

Question

So, this has been playing on my mind a little. When I'm with a guy I tend to expect him to always make sure he is totally clean shaven downstairs. I don't know why but I've always found the look much sexier (being shaved makes a penis look bigger), and enjoyed the feel of it. It also makes BJs way more fun! I like to think I'm a pretty relaxed girlfriend but this has always been one rule I've been kind of firm on: shave your junk or no sex with me.

However, here's were the hypocrisy comes in. I'm not nearly as strict about shaving my own downstairs area. In fact with my last boyfriend there was a 6 month period where I didn't shave my pussy at all while he kept himself totally shaved down there.

Is this weird? I think part of it is that I like the gendered role reversal. In society it is normally girls that are expected to stay immaculately hairless and in my relationships this is often switched around. Am I a hypocrite? Guys, would you shave for a girl even if she didn't herself?

Thanks a lot for reading!

Bad_Man55 · Accepted Answer

It's a new era guys are taking manscaping more seriously. I've always been of the mindset that if I want a woman to go down there and enjoy their stay im always gonna make sure it is kept shaved and clean. I think the same is true for women. I love giving oral to a woman I enjoy it a lot but only if it is trimmed and we'll kempt preferred shaved. If it is not I'm not doing it. Won't stop me from having sex but I'm not going through a briar patch and I would expect her to either.

Barry88 · Accepted Answer

Did he asked you to shave? Does he have a strong preference? If not, you're not a hypocrite.

Personally, I shave for my girlfriend because that's what she prefers. But my preference on her is hairy, and she keeps it unshaved. So just like you and your boyfriend, we're a couple where the guy is clean shaven and the girl keeps it hairy.

AustinMan · Answer

Yes, that hypocritical. I want her in a full Brazilian, front and back.

JackSmy · Answer

I can't say for other guys, but I am fine with what the Lady I am with prefers. I don't want her to do oral, for my own reasons, but I love going down on her, and my only rule is that any place she wants to be teased and caressed, must be hairless!! I don't want to pick hairs out of my teeth!! She can have a nicely trimmed, full bush, above, but those most intimate parts, wanting personal attention, need to be 'baby-bare' clean!

spartan55 · Answer

I dont expect her fully shaven. But I expect it neatly trimmed, just like myself. Shaved pussy lips gets shaved nutsack etc.

uglyboihhh · Answer

It’s not a bad thing that you don’t want to shave and I feel like whoever is with you if they actually love you will be able to handle it

TadCurious · Answer

Well yeah you're a hypocrite.

Don-_-Don · Answer

Yes you're a hypocrite by definition, but it's not weird.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Fuck no... trimmed, sure. Shaved, no.  Six months? Wild animal kingdom by that point. Hey, whatever makes you happy and if they are on board, do it, but for me... no.

jb12358 · Answer

It really wouldn’t bother me if my girlfriend asked me to do it one way or another, I would just do whatever she wants

COMMODOREII · Answer

You are not a hypocrite you have the same preference as i do. Lol i love being shaved downstairs and feeling my bare balls and be able to grab a dick when i pee without all the hair. I feel cleaner and cooler too. How would you feel if the guy shaved you? Plus how bad of a bush is it? 😗

Twalli · Answer

I wouldn't mind shaving, except I do like blades near my penis. I do trim though.

asshole_ · Answer

yep you can't expect us to do it, then not do it yourself

machismo69 · Answer

Of course I would shave for her if she wants it that way. Her likes are priority for me.

Joker_ · Answer

You're welcome a lot for reading

LaMiSch · Answer

That is normal and fine. I always shave, sometimes not for two or three days. But if the woman doesn't shave that often, I think that's ok. The main thing is that she takes good care of herself so that my tongue can have fun.😅😋