A guy wants me to take his virginity?

I've been best friends with this guy since we were 10 years old. years have gone by, and we recently started talking more and more. we've flirting, on and off dated as well. he is still a virgin and wants me to take his virginty this month... do i do it? if so, how do i make this enjoyable?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • If you are into him then do it because it will be more special than some hookup with a random guy. Just know that whether you do or don't your relationship will change with him since if you don't she might feel spited and if you do it will be hard to go back to being just friends afterward. If you do there are many things you should do to make it more enjoyable. You should direct him to do what you like for a starter and try to help make him more comfortable and knowledgeable. You could also both get tested for STD's and if you are on BC you could go without a condom to make it more enjoyable and since you proablly trust him there would be little risk.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You will be a highlight in his life if you do this for him lol.
    He also might fall in love with you.
    If it were me I'd totally do it just for the fun of it. Its going to be enjoyable for him no matter what. Just act like he's amazing even if he sucks

    • haha noted

  • Is there a sexual, emotional connection that's strong?

    • yes very.

    • Is a relationship a possibility? If so, I'd suggest you grow that first. If he's like most of us, he's underestimating the emotional impact of starting to have sex.

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  • If you want to then do it otherwise no. Just because you are friends for so long doesn't make you obligated to do this.

    Just go slow, take the lead if you can.

  • That's up to you. He's your friend.

  • If you both are virgin then do it if you intend to marry him

    • lmao okay thankyou

  • Does the idea make you horny? What was your gut feeling when he asked you? You can make it enjoyable by making sure he pleasures you.

    • it does.

    • Then I think you should go for it. :)

  • Do missionary. That's usually the best field virgin guys. If you're also a virgin, probably cowgirl. Also, if you're a virgin, a lot if foreplay

  • Do it if you are into it. But open and honest communication is the only way to go! Especially during!

  • Well, Do it only if you want to do!!!
    Have a great sex

    • okay, i think im going to do it. thankyou !!

    • Have a great sex buddy... by the way, Are you a virgin?

    • no im nott, not much experience though...

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  • Do you have feelings for him? If you do then perhaps spend some time together and see if there's physical attraction and then go from there. As far as making it enjoyable for him? That shouldn't be too hard. You can ask him how he wants it. Ask if he wants oral. Ask if there's any specific position he is interested in. Communication is important and will make sex enjoyable.

    • I've had feelings for him forever. :) but okay ! thankyou !!

  • would you have sex with him otherwise

    • yes.

    • then if you want it do it

  • If you are not apposed to it then do it. It will be better for him that its someone that is special to him. It may chnce things between you two, It may not. You may become closer.

  • If you do it... just go missionary

  • If you care about him it would be special. Are you on birth control? Planning to use a condom?

    • not on birth control, but i dont want to use a condom. so i might get on it.

  • If u want to do it by all means do it! Communication is key! Ask him what he wants u to do and tell him what u want him to do! If you do decide to take it be kind and. Enjoy! P. s most guys love licking pussy so encourage him to do that and encourage him to suck your tits! I guarantee this will make him go wild and yeah just be open and enjoy. Good luck

    • thankyou !

    • No worries hope it goes well