Guys, do older men 35+ prefer experienced or inexperienced younger women?

I like them but is it a turn off that I’ve never had sex?
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  • I have been with two virgins, and I didn't judge, in any way! They wanted to have their first experience with me, because of how we related, and how I just cared about them.
    I'm not at all into quick, one night things, and I love, and RESPECT women!!
    But a woman, a virgin, and her first time, is a BIG DEAL, in my mind!! Shouldn't it be something special, and something good, to remember?
    Both of the ones were super-intellectual kinds, "Nerds" as some FOOLS call them!!
    They were both, and at different times, AMAZING, wonderful ladies!!
    They didn't really know what they wanted, and only had the basic idea of sex, but nothing about the feelings, the intimacy, and the uncertainty!!
    Both were different, but really the same, in not knowing what to expect, and how they felt, and both were similar, in that it took several 'tries' when she thought she was ready, but not, and then again, before we actually did.
    It was ALL ABOUT HER, and ALWAYS how SHE felt!!
    I don't know how to answer, as I really love mature women, that know what they want, and how, but there was something special about the two, that didn't know. . .
    Something personal, and intimate, just sharing that part of something, a stepping point, in one's life. . .

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  • personally if i click with someone i dont care whether they have experience or none whatsoever, whether or not they've had sex or not doesn't matter to me, what matter's is the personality and that we'd get along
    as for the age group, i am drawn more to younger women than those my own age due to issues many i've met seem to have, not saying all are like that but my personal experiences have found that many my own age are very judgmental, controlling and a lot of the one's i've met are quite closed minded... whereas only a few of the younger women i've met are like that, most are more laid back and dont treat others like they aren't allowed to go down the street without their permission... and many of them are far more laid back and relaxed... plus i dont get along with controlling types and dominant women... not in a romantic relationship sense that is, as we tend to clash too much

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  • It never made any difference to me - as long as she's enthusiastic about being there, I'm happy to teach or lead, and just as happy if she's experienced. Spice of life...

  • Depends on the guy. I don't care but don't come around unless you're willing to have sex now.

  • No it's not for me I like to do things to women that they have never had done to them before I like to see the amazement and pleasure on there face when no one has ever licked in places or touched you like that before that is priceless

  • I like both but I like inexperienced because then I get to feel that again and teach what you know and also maybe learn something I think it's beautiful feeling when u can feel someone experiencing some thing for the first time and loving it most of the time with someone who us experience I find from the start they want it hard deep and fast and rough and for some reason I always feel they like it that way because it gets them off but its all they know if a girl does that to me i dont say a word i go slower and the slowervand deeper i go the more she bitches moves around acts all pissy but with in 5 to ten min she is holding on so tight moaning oh fuck. My Godvyes and she become it and moves so very slow and will say oh fuck I'm goingbto cum. Again ant then when it's time up i will do what she wants and you should do the same thing we ur alone or chatting with some one chat ask experience it

  • I wouldn't bother.

  • Why should that be a turn off its more of a turn on I could take you so many oathways of sex

  • I don`t mind either way. If i was with somebody and she had very little experience it wouldn`t put me off in the slightest. In fact if anything i would probably find it more of a turn on that she was inexperienced knowing that she would gain it through doing things to and with me

  • Im a virgin myself still so it's not a turn off at all. I wouldn't mind inexperienced either, it's how she is as a person that really matters

  • It's not how many times You have had sex it's the amount of partners You had in Your lifetime that matters. Look as a man I know for a fact that I'm not going to be the best or biggest the only thing that matters to Me is if I'm special to My partner.

  • Few guys would have a problem with that. I sure wouldn't, although I don't expect to meet any women who are virgins.

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