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Losing my 1st QUESTION virginity. Men have you ever rejected a BJ? Men annoying or cute if ur gal always wants to go down? Any gals in the same boat?

Can a girl like giving her man head just a little too much... I think The answer is yes but I really hope it's not.
I answered somebody else's question about giving head in hopes of not having to ask this question myself... But no one replied :-(
This was my answer to the man's question do you enjoy giving head?

OMG
I love giving it I love receiving it and I love giving it while receiving it!
Sometimes I just love it for the smell of it (my man is clean but he just like every man has a distinct scent)
Sometimes I love it for the taste
Sometimes I'm bored
sometimes I'm not in the mood be touched but boy do I want to give...
Sometimes I come from just giving
I love it in the car
I loved in bed
Kitchen bathroom shower sofa pool does it matter as long as it's private and I get your finish
I'd drive to his job for his lunch break... our van has tinted windows... if he wanted me to
I told my man that if he'd let me I do it all day long
Sometimes I even have to beg to do it
And sometimes he says no
And I get sad :-(
But sometimes he says yes
and I'm glad :-D
... I think after 6 years together I've spoiled him 🤣

Note the following is only when it's just he and I alone if he says no it's no I have never forced it lon him lol I just give him the cute pouty lips face and say "fine"
He never rejects me harshly when he does reject me it's usually with a laugh and an amused shake of his head and he promises "later"
I know he loves me and I do satisfy him but I worry I'm too sexual. Should I quit offering? Let him come to me?
This is my first question go easy on me!
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  • I've never rejected a BJ... its the safest form of sex except for masturbation...

    and ANY normal guy would absolutely LOVE to have a girlfriend or wife that is ready to drop to there knees at any given moment and do the deed...

    BUT, if he is feeling guilty that you are pleasing him and he is not up to returning the favor, then Yes, he could reject you...
    I myself have felt guilty for the same reason, thinking my girl was just trying to get something started so she could get a poke... sometimes a man needs to recover a couple days before expending so much energy on a good poke... but never ever too tired for a BJ when there is no reciprocation required.

    • Well let me just say I don't always drop to my knees... Goodness that would leave me with achy rough knees lol I think sometimes he does feel guilty when he knows he's tired and won't be very good at reciprocation... When he openly admits this I remind him I get off doing it.. it excited me and I can climax.

    • it sounds like you have it figured out... but you must remember some guys (Im one of them) CANNOT stand a girl getting handsy and physically romantic if they feel like they need a shower... I will push her away, EVEN THOUGH I have been with girls who like a sweaty man after some hard work, so I know they exist... i dont understand it and would never pursue a sweaty woman for romance, even if she was my girlfriend... im not saying this is what im getting from what you have said, but there are different degrees to everything... another thing to try is to come right out and tell him that if you can't have his dick, you will have to find a different one elsewhere, as you have a strong desire to suck a dick... then he will let you have access

    • Omg I've have only had sex one time "sweaty" we were both sweaty. We had a hard day of moving out a large house ( 4 bedroom with walk in closets 3 bath triple garage attic den living room dining room and kitchen) in the middle of 90 plus degrees no breeze and no ac available. We were exhausted but the feeling of accomplishment and being amazed to discover how compatible and capable we were at working together triggered a sexual response like no other. Ya we went for it. It was my first "sweaty" sex. (And I know we werent stinky 🤢) Anyhow that's not our norm. My man sponge washes in the am showers in later afternoon and sponge washes before bed... Me he calls his little mermaid I live in water. Shower/wipe down in the am in the summer I'm always in the pool (I'm writing this in the pool) shower after before bed I take a bubble bath or bath bomb bath. I cannot stink it's a paranoia of mine I'm always grabbing my deo or perfume. I keep perfume & deo right by the toilet and deo and perfume right at the bathroom door I have deo and perfume by the living on the fireplace in my bedroom in kitch drawer in my car in my daughters room in the hall way everytime I go near any of those locations I am reapplying. (Lol I never noticed just how severe this was for me until right now) I can't stink. I'm LMAO thinking ahhh I need to reapply deo (thanks) Anyhow I have said I'd go suck another... actually my exact words are "Fine! I'll go suck our friend!" He response is "good he'll enjoy that" make sure you tell I said hello and don't forget to put him away afterwards... I'm a good girl 😇 I don't stray

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  • I have not rejected
    It's neither cute nor annoying. If you want to do it, I will not stop you unless I'm just not in the mood, but I'd just simply say that lol

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  • WOW he is the luckiest man I've ever heard of as long as you don't leave him with BLUE BALLS now it sounds funny but let me tell you I had a girlfriend who just wanted to suck on my dick and she would never finish and that shit hurts so bad I couldn't even straighten up and walk the pain would be so bad and she thought I was faking it no and you can't even have sex for a couple of days afterwards because it just messes me up so bad

    • Awe :-( That's just not right. I could never do that Purposely nor would I feel comfortable ignoring the situation. I didn't know I was leaving him with "blue balls" or that he rush to his house to shower and jerk off thinking of me til much later. at that time we were in the just making out stage. No sex or BJ's just heavy petting.

  • I have many times i like getting head but the moment i feel teeth i want to put it someplace else i love making love and having sex

    • Yipes teeth? 🙅 Oh no no no.

    • Lol ITS More like this OH NO NO NO WAIT WAIT wait wait WAITTTTT DONT MOVE NO NO NO WAIT,, DONT MOVE OK OPEN O P E. N AWWW. THANK YOU😨 No it's ok I'm fine 😨🤤🤕LOL

    • LMAO

  • If this is true you are a rare woman... that dude is one lucky guy.

    • (giggles) Oh 100 (&99)% TRUE I jumped his bone while he slept after writing this... I needed my "fix" lol

    • Oh my...

  • I've never rejected a BJ though i have told a girl I had to pee, in an attempt to warn her that it would take longer if I didn't. I guess she didn't know how that works because when I indicated that she was invited to suck it despite how bad I had to pee, she did.

    • Empty bladders are so much better... No interruptions or hindering no distractions For a lady a full bladder is definitely a major no no it will lead to a UTI

  • Wow you could never do that yo much tor me although I have never had a full bj

  • If She isn't really good at it then yes I'd rather just skip it and go right to the vagina.

    • But if she ain't good at it why not guide her? There's nothing more sexy than a man telling a girl what he likes or showing her... I know I am more than open to watch and learn.

    • Like I know how to suck a cock I'm a guy. I would say I've only had one blow job that made Me want to jump out of My skin but She was able to roll Her tongue completely around My cock and that is a very rare thing indeed. The majority of them were just bleh and My ex lets just say She acted like She didn't want to get Her mouth dirty so I stopped caring.

    • 🤦 "Like I know how to suck a cock I'm a guy." Mood killer line... Fantasy Busted! Of course I wouldn't expect a man to suck cock nor was I implying it. I may not be a p****y sucking girl but I most certainly would be able to explain to a man how to go on me and I'd know how to gently direct his head to the angles I prefer based on the fact I DO know what it is that I do or do not like. this is what I was actually trying to imply by "guide her" gently lead her head (or tug her hair if she prefers ;-) ) take her hands and place them where you want them now When I said "watch and learn" I was referring to a joint masturbation show. what better way to learn what the other wants or likes than to watch them please themselves as they watch you in turn... 😏 Amazing turn on and tease when you are near enough to see all and just slightly barely able to make contact with each other... rules of engagement... TRY to keep your hands to yourself 😁

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  • In my opinion it's impossible to give me too much blowjobs.
    I love them so much that I could enjoy them whole day long 🤤🤤🤤

    • Ditto

  • I prefer actual sex over oral, oral doesn't do much for me

    • Oh that comes after... But I'd be bummed (unsatisfied) if I was with a man who didn't care for it... It would be a challenge for me to over look it... Doesn't mean I would just quit the relationship cold turkey but some sort of conversation would be needed... To figure things out.

    • I mean there's a difference in a bj and going down for foreplay lol, foreplay is fine

    • Oh thank goodness I actually panic... What would I do if I learned a little too late (after strong feelings were made) that my man didn't like BJ's... What a nightmare I wouldn't want to face... I was starting to ask myself if I was shallow. I guess I'm always foreplaying then lol and if he wants more Then I'll jump on board if not then next time perhaps

  • I'm struggling to imagine a situation wherein that offer would ever get annoying or too much ^^ but then I'm not lucky enough to be getting those kinds of offers, so take it with a grain of salt.

    • Lol I don't think he's annoyed. I made a pounce attempt 10 mins ago... The desire for sleep won :-D but there was a lot of laughing and some petting.

    • Lmao. Sounds nice ^^

  • yes i have turned blow jobs down because they do nothing for me and if she can even make me cum that way, she will likely be over an hour on it and that bothers me to see her tiring all her sexual energy on it.

    • But it's not always about making him come... It's the enjoyment of just doing... Now being allowed to do so for over an hour... That's a turn on. One things first did go romantic for us we would have marathons I remember one of our longest going marathons was 16 hours straight we stayed in bed and only took bathroom breaks and an brief snack break.. I was so hungry and thirsty after that Marathon I remember we headed to a 24-hour diner to recuperate and replenish. But in one of those marathons I did spend easily once or twice over an hour on him... Hed come before so I know he wasn't going to but it really wasn't the goal... It was the fun of it. I can climax multiple times while giving so it's all good I also found Im most likely to get a man to cum by oral if in the shower... and if the sack is tenderly stimulated especially towards the perineum.

    • Excuse the typos...

    • you missed my "if". more often than not, i will go soft during a bj. its a weird sensitivity thing.

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  • You're absolutely amazing. There's nothing wrong with you at all. Please don't change.

    • Alright thanks I'll try not to

    • 👍👍♥️

  • Yes I have. From women I had no interest in.

    • Of course lol that is natural! I'd do the same.

  • I love giving oral to a woman no matter when it is period time included. I like getting head but rather give and never too much.

    • A high sex drive is very desirable. No worries you are greay.

    • he's that way too thank goodness... But he hasn't in a while (does 4/5 days count as a while lol)

    • 4 to 5 days is too long. Is it that time of the month? It would not stop me.

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  • I've turned it down several times, i never would again.

    • Lol pls explain this statement... As you have but now you wouldn't? And why is that?

    • I haven't had one in years, its would be nice to receive one. I often would say no but once i really started to enjoy going down on a woman i have liked getting it. The girlfriend im with doesn't do this or that or this etc

    • Oh yes I see Its a bit challenging when you're with a person you really like but they don't do this or that. I been in that boat before.

  • Still a virgin, but I doubt I'd ever reject a BJ from a girl I found attractive. I imagine I'd find it cute if I had a girl that always wanted to go down. When it comes to this, I believe too much is never enough. Personally, I think he's a very lucky guy.

  • No, I haven't and don't see any reason to tern her down.
    Wish more women were like you.

  • I’m not going to turn down a bj, but it’s not required from me. Lol.

    • Oh absolute requirement me ;-)

    • @meetkitty123 well I wouldn’t stop u from doing so.

  • I never understood why women want to give head. Don't women find the penis repulsive, whether they're straight or not?

    • Um not all women would find that part repulsive. Gee that would be like finding a vulva repulsive When I was younger in middle School and curious I remember questioning what was the appeal in a penis since lots of girls were talking about it. honestly the first time I did manage to wrap my fingers around a penis... Oh I found the appeal lol

    • Yeah, and les women would say otherwise

  • I have NEVER rejected a BJ, except once, because she was SO BAD that I turned into a wet noodle!

    ALWAYS cute if my gal always wants to go down, as long as I'm NOT tired, hangry or sleepy!

    • @guardian45 Hmm I dont mind if the guy sleeps... If he doesn't mind me exploring and playing on my own... Sometimes for me its not so much to get him off sometimes I see it as my own personal "toy" or "pacifier" and lots of times I get wet and I get off on giving and I come strong too... But if his mood changes and turns firery Im game too... I'll mount and ride

    • *phew*🥵. Is it warm in here? Or is it just me? 🤔

    • 😊😚🥵🤠

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  • @meetkitty123 I have never rejected a bj tbh. I love them and would want them anywhere anytime, and preferably all the time, however no girl has liked giving as much as I've wanted to receive. I think it would cute and hot if she were to do that a lot. I want them a lot so the more the better in my opinion. How often do you try and give head?

    • @meetkitty123 favorite place or position in which to give head?

    • Daily Just offered now Made contact and give him the com hither look His response you're naughty Mine Me? He nods I plucker my lower lip my lashes fluttering I reply No 😏me no do nothin 😇 me a good girl He shakes his head no Your bad Me Why He U r bad u like to suck dick Me No im not bad Im good at it He smiles sheepishly and nods enthusiastically I'm smiling wickedly and im looking like a kitty about to pounce... But I know I have to wait... he's watching baseball and the kids have not been in bed long enough.

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