Why haven’t I ever been horny?

So I am a 14 year old lesbian and girls my age is horny all the time. Can someone tell me why I’ve never been horny?
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  • maybe cos your hormones haven't fully became an issue yet, maybe you aren't as sexual as your friends are which isn't an issue either way it just means everyone is different... plus you are still young, enjoy your youth and dont be in a hurry to grow up

Most Helpful Guy

  • then what makes you so sure your a true lesbian? if you dont get turned on thinking about having sex with a hot chick, then whats the basis of your desire to be with women?

Most Helpful Girl

  • This might be a stupid question, but if you've never been horny, how do you know you're a lesbian?

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  • You have hormone problems dear. More than likely Your body isn't producing enough testosterone or the testosterone You produce converts into estrogen more than usual.

  • Your libido is very low.

  • Lmao intesting.

  • late puberty?

  • It's because you aren't a lesbian and you need a boy to get you fired up
    But! At your age stay away from boys 😂
    Wait until you are 16 and know a guy really well.

    • Basically what I was thinking about her too.

  • Maybe ur asexual

    Have u ever made out with a girl before?

  • Lower sex drive

  • If you're a les. why are you on a site called "girls ask guys"?

  • Your 14..

  • Because you haven't been around boys enough.

  • you’re a degenerate whore

    wait til marriage with a man

  • Because you are still young..

  • Have you tried looking at naked girls or watching some kind of porn? You're still young... I wouldn't worry.

    • Dude, don’t say that to a 14 year old girl.

    • Why not? You didn't look at a dirty magazine when you were young? She is asking for clarification and it's just a suggestion.

    • Irrelevant, but no. And I certainly didn’t have pervs on the internet advertising porn to me, with the full knowledge of my being 14.

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  • Im not in anyway judging you. Im just saying if you want a good life don't worry about that. Concentrate on school and being a kid. Otherwise, you will get distracted by all of the pitfalls young people deal with day to day and struggle to overcome. Now that I've given you advice, here is the answer to your question. Everyone develops at different times in their lives, your glands produce hormones when your body is ready. Those hormones cause body hair to grow and your reproductive organs to excite you (make you horny). So, if you're not feeling excited it means your body isn't ready yet.

  • Hormones never kicked in but how can you know you’re a lesbian already and not horny? When I become horny at 13 or younger is when I liked women not before

    • I know cause I’ve only liked girls

    • Have you had your period yet? That’s usually when it all starts, one of my daughters didn’t get hers until 16

    • To be honest, it seems to me that if you don’t know what it’s like to feel horny, then when you say you “like” girls you might not be talking about the same thing horny people mean when they say the “like” girls.

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