Should you or should you not send nudes in a relationship?

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Should you or should you not send nudes in a relationship?

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Depends on a few things. People are mentioning that others may see them. What would be your thoughts if people saw your body but did not know you and never will see you in real life? Are you comfortable with people seeing your body in real life if they have no idea who you are? It is possible people have seen you nude before (perhaps a peeping tom) but as long as you do not know it, it can't really bother you. Are you comfortable with people seeing your body in real life if they have no idea who you are?
It does not matter how deep the relationship is. Sometimes things go wrong and your pictures may get out to the internet, or just to other individuals. If there is nothing to identify you in the photo, then you can always claim it is not you. See the opinion by @wingattebaby16. Great answer. Or you may be sending to someone who is not the love of your life. Often happens for various reasons and is okay. See the opinion by @MandaFanta. Many women send nudes to any boyfriend they have. Many send to many people. Many send to only one. What you are happy with is what is what you need to go with.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Most relationships will eventually break up. You don't know how your partner will act after a break up, especially if you initiate the break up. How do you feel about your naked pictures being shared with other guys, such as your father, grandfather, brothers, neighbors, coworkers, etc? If you think it can't happen to you, then go ahead and learn a lesson the hard way.

IronLady6354 · Accepted Answer

Only do nudes if you really, really trust him. Even then only send nudes of your body. Make sure your face is never in the picture. If he wants to keep any of them make absolutely 100% certain they end up in a place where only he can access and no one else will. Otherwise make sure he deletes them within a day or two. Make sure he's absolutely careful to make sure no one else sees them. If you don't think he's careful enough to do this then don't do nudes. You do the same if he sends you nudes.
With that being said sending nudes can be super fun. I've done it many times with my fiance. It really spices things up. I think it also really helps if you're going to have sex latter that night. It gets you going and in the mood before it even happens.
Again, nudes can be super fun, but only do them if you have super strong trust in your man and you know he'll be super careful that no one else will see them.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

tbh, if you are truly into the other person, it is very romantic and sexy to send nudes to each other.

Just remember, if you break up, they can do what they want with your pics.

So... when I have done it, I dont ever include my full face.. either use a Flash, blank it out with Paint, or cut it off...

and anyway, you are not sending the other person sexy pics of your face... they want to see the In and Out bits... lol

EriFrancis1994 · Answer

If you trust each other go for it

ushagomez · Answer

It is a choice the two of you have to make. So long as you choose knowing that your relationship may not continue and you are still happy with it then send away.

summiter · Answer

They are way hot as long as both of you are into it. I would not show your face cause you never know where it might end up

ettubrutus · Answer

if you REALLY know the person, and know that they wouldn't post them if you broke up or show them to people.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

All depends on you and your partner.

AffectionKing · Answer

I wouldn't. It could be used against you if things go south. Now strip tease is ok to send

ColHathi · Answer

If you like it, you're comfortable with it, and you trust each other enough, I'd say do it :p

winterfox10 · Answer

Nope. If a girl sent me nudes, I would let her know that she was sexy and that the photos turn me on, but I would absolutely never ask her to send me nudes, nor would I ever save them. I know too many women who have had their nudes leaked online.

MandaFanta · Answer

Oh yeah 100%

AmeerX · Answer

You can send them but isn't he okay with seeing you physically

Archerer · Answer

You should not.

gladtometyou · Answer

I've never sent nudes until now and won't. It's stupid

oncpl · Answer

I sent nudes to my fiancee, she too reciprocated.

Wise4myage · Answer

I think sending nudes in a relationship is fine, as long as you trust the other person and use some common sense when sending nudes. Like being 18 or older and keeping your face out of the pics.