How come some guys are just so much better in bed than others?

[Anonymous]

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[MrOracle]

I think it mostly has to do with some guys being selfish and only caring about their own pleasure and what THEY like, and other guys who care about the girl's pleasure and know if the girl is enjoying it, it's going to be better for him too.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I think it's strictly based on who he's been with in the past.

Trust me - he didn't get that way by banging pillow princesses.

Just like no girl ever was naturally talented at reverse-cowboy or bj's, practice, with a partner willing to teach (who was also taught and practiced) makes all the difference.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

If a guy has a big dick I’ve noticed a trend that he expects the size to be enough to satisfy a girl. But I personally dont have a huge dick so I found other ways to compensate. If a guy isn’t good in bed its mainly because he’s selfish and only cares about his own experience and no yours.

[AustinMan]

It's a matter of skill, consideration and stamina.

[purplepoppy]

Some learn from experience others don't

[Curmudgeon]

And some have many opportunities to practice and others do not.

[blank_expression]

Some are just aware of her needs and buttons and sometimes the woman is just more into the guy and he might seem better.

[summiter]

It is called having patience and enjoying giving someone else a great orgasm first!

[integrale77]

It all depends if a) the guy is focused on her pleasure and b) if both people's personalities mesh and there after the same things.

I've had mind blowing sex with some girls while others we just haven't clicked and things have felt almost robotic.

[Anti-Matter]

😳💭 Did she really ask this? As if another guy can tell you what mistakes another
guy is making in his bedroom?

[jkm1864]

A man has to care about pleasing His partner before He can be good in bed. I know there are some things that are subconscious that make sex hotter for example when I'm on test I grunt a lot more and I'm very vocal but other than that He has to have the desire to perform.

[DaneSudekis]

Could be the same reason some women are better than others.
They love sex, they're really horny and uninhibited, coordinated, they have good stamina and a good body.

[Ripper_E]

They are either trying or maybe he just suits you, specifically.

[JustinTheGreat]

Some guys are just more experienced and others were never properly taught

[answerALLquestions]

Its a skill like anything else in life

[magiusX26]

some of us actually care about satisfying our partners

[Pallavi37]

Experience and stamina counts with big dick

[Kbin47]

Some prioritize their girl satisfaction then theirs.. Some just do it for their own satisfaction. There's a difference.

[COMMODOREII]

Because we take extra care and actually consider what a girl wants and needs to help her get off. After all we want her to come back. 😉

[Steve37]

Practice and experience.

[navyP]

Mise well ask why is the grass green or the sky blue

[GreenGold1992]

sex drive and experience

[Joker_]

I am better than other guys in bed because I have profusely practised the art of sleeping in the comfort of my bed

[jonBurchess]

All depends on the guy weather he is selfish or not. Some take care of the woman's n needs and some only theirs, I prefer both to be satisfied it makes the sex better