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How Often Do You Have Sex When You're In A Relationship?

How Often Do You Have Sex When Youre In A Relationship?
How Often Do You Have Sex When Youre In A Relationship?
How Often Do You Have Sex When Youre In A Relationship?
How Often Do You Have Sex When Youre In A Relationship?
How Often Do You Have Sex When Youre In A Relationship?
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  • Hi there Toots. Interesting question and comments. Been about 25 years now - 3 years dating 22 married... been interesting if actually kept a chart over the years lol...

    1st year it was long distance - see each other roughly every other weekend - pretty much had sexathons lol

    From then until 1st baby (which was about a 4 year period) - pretty much rabbits like :)

    Then... was about a 10 year period where the frequency fluctuated wildly... sometimes lots... sometimes not as much... little kids, busy lives, me travelling all over, etc.

    Then... about a 5 year period where it got even more up and down... her dad got ill and lots fell on her so there'd be here and there weeks or months when it was often but lots of lulls too...

    The last 5 years has been much more regular and frequent. Pretty consistently 3-5+ times a week. Pre shutdown when I was traveling every week, weekends would be lots and since shutdown, definitely been more frequent.

    To your memes, I do find it is an important part of a relationship - and right or wrong, if the more recent chapter I mentioned didn't unfold as it did, I can easily see how it could become a problem that could have put us on a path to being done... that might sound bad but it's an honest reflection which thankfully has not played out :)

    And yes... my sex drive is still higher than hers... thus the moon voyages lol :)

    • Well yeah there's times when life circumstances or events prevent, but when people just deny each other or let the sex become unimportant is where it could become a problem in the relationship

    • 100% - and I probably gave way too much info lol but it was interesting to think back on that. If it gets imbalanced or worse like you said (deny...) then it's absolutely a problem - except I guess if both feel it's unimportant.

    • Yeah if they both okay with no sex then guess that's different

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  • Whenever the mood strikes. I’m a Scorpio so it’s often. In the shower, watching movies, while she’s baking, in the morning, pre afternoon, after lunch, after dinner, on the boat, out camping, while doing laundry, in the car, on the car, on the freezer, on the washing machines. It goes on and on. I’m not a mathematician but at least 67 times a week I think.

    • I need my glasses, I thought it said in the freezer 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but yeah damn that's a lot.. Keep it up lolol pun intended 🤣

    • No but you gave me a new idea. 😂 might have to pull the meat and veggies out of there. But I’m pretty sure I can pull it off. Na a good sex life is important. It’s healthy, keeps you fit, calm, and damn is it just too much fun. Sex is good. Who needs a gym when you have an amazing partner?

    • That's true.. But stay out of the freezer... Freezer burn meat doesn't taste the same 🤣🤣🤣

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think everyone has their own levels of need and is why establishing that prior to a committed relationship is important.

    Most relationships sour due to either money or sex.

    Too much or too little of either one can cause problems... well, maybe not too much sex... lol, but you get the point :)

    How Often Do You Have Sex When You're In A Relationship?

    • Oh I agree 💯 people don't have"that talk" enough... Great answer 💜💜

  • I want it every day.

    I like it 2-5 times a day.. most guys can go 2 times max.. that is why I have a vibrator...

    • Only one vibrator? Lots of batteries?

    • @Red_Arrow naughty old man... you know i have more... just was being polite and a nice girl...

    • Only 2🤔 I've had more than two rounds in one day.. Feed em some Wheaties... Breakfast of champions 🤣🤣

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  • It is normal for sex drive to fade over time that is why I tell people that if they want a lasting relationship then to not have sex for a while at the start to see if you get along without it. Because if you do then your relationship will still last when you are both 80. Once you are with someone you love instead of lust for the sex will be so much more special.

    • Oh I agree 💯

  • It depends on the relationship and situation. When I've lived with a girl, it was probably 7-12 times per week. When not living with a girl, it was more like 5-10 times per week on average. Sometimes it's going to be less because of various reasons, and sometimes more, but that's a fairly accurate range.

    • That's good 👍 according to little Miss expert on the other thread, you should just be lucky you get sex at all, cuz you're older and older people don't date or have sex 🤣🤣🤣 yes, I'm sure you realize that's sarcasm lolol all these self proclaimed experts on here geesh lolol

    • I'm sure she's convinced that her life will be LazyBoys and pudding cups once she hits 35...

    • Damn can you see me, how'd you know that's what I'm doing 🤣🤣 yeah some these ideas people have smh but that they think it's a child hard fact, not really funny kinda sad really

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  • At least 2-3 times a week, although there are a lot of daily streaks thrown in.

    • Lol okay 🙂

  • Most days, if not everyday. Sometimes multiple times a day. Depends on each person's schedule and libido. Every relationship and person is different.

    • That's true there. As long as both think of their partners needs and keep sex an important part of the relationship

  • Live in relationship here. Once a day. Maybe once a week it is 2x. Its a marathon not a sprint.

    • Oh yeah marathon sex the best 👍🙂

  • A few times a week

    • That's good I'm still the would want it everyday if had someone here lol

    • We usually have it 3 times a week. If were just me I'd probably have it 1 or 2 times, but I've noticed that when I have sex a bit more with my fiance he's usually in a way better mood and is a lot more willing to give in pretty much every other area of the relationship. It's incredible what sex can do to men. Haha

  • If i had it my way, everyday, 3 or more times in a day. But reality tells every 3 days 2 times doing it during those days.

    • 👏👏👏.

    • Again, great answer 🙃🙂 three times a day would be great 👍💯

    • @brainsbeforebeauty :).

  • I would love it every other day tbh sometimes every day, doesn't have to be sex sex though lol but by the time I foresee myself in a long term relationship I'm not sure if he'll be able to keep up

    • Lololol as long as you find someone that at least tries to lol

  • 5-6x a week

    • That's good. Sex is important for a healthy relationship

    • Agreed!

    • He must be very strong man. I used to get discharged even when kissing her.

  • Everyday when I’m not on my period.

  • If my partner is receptive, I want sex at least 4-5 times per week.

    • Not per day 🤔🤣 If I was living with someone yeah guess that would work but last person I had sex with I was get as much as can cuz don't know when it'll be again 🤣

    • Right. If we are not living together, I want it at every opportunity! :) :) :)

    • Right the "gotta use it for I lose my mojo' mindset lolol

  • Anywhere from once a week to every other day.

    I have a pretty high sex drive.

  • Morning and at night. I'm single right now. I would love to had or have a girlfriend, with the lock down crap ,, and i hear we are headed for it again i wonder if i should put an. Add on here for a lock down buddy

    • You put that on here and it will probably get removed... Probably better to do that on a site geared for that then on here

  • The last long term relationship I was in, we only were able to see each other on weekends. We usually had sex a few times on the weekends.

    • Well yeah that's different than if you live together

    • Actually I have never lived with a girlfriend. Just something that I've never done. I would imagine probably 3 times a week if I did.

    • Ah okay

  • My "modest" answer is everyday. ;)

    • Lol love this answer 💜🙂

  • I am young and engaged... and we live together. We probably have sex 4-6 times a week. Sometimes on a weekend we will have sex 2-3 times a day. Occasionally we will go without for 3-4 days if we are tired from work etc. It is not the quantity (even though it is fun) but the quality is just as important. How bout you?

    • I'm single so that currently is 0, but if someone was here, would shoot for every day while I still can and have the urge as am getting older lololol

  • I'm actually more interested in close, personal affection, and kissing, casually touching and cuddling. So much more intimate, and close, than sex. Maybe I just don't have a high sex drive, because I prefer just being close, and cuddling, while watching movies, or when we are out, just holding hands, and just being close and connecting, but not a lot of overt PDAs!!

    • If you don't have a high sex drive, that's something to discuss with potential partner, match with someone who also don't have a high sex drive. I'm not even saying sex it's the most important thing, but sexual compatibility is. If one wants sex more than the other, someone is going to not feel fulfilled in the relationship, and that will spill over into other aspects in the relationship

    • @brainsbeforebeauty I've been with some that have had a much higher 'drive' and 'desire' and I can love that, and love satisfying that, though they are confused, often, that I don't need reciprocation. I'm strange, I know. But I am who I am, and maybe someone out there is wanting someone, just like me, and I, just like her.

  • Well that depends on the gatekeeper... 😂

    • 🤣 gatekeeper lololol 🤣

  • Maybe 3-5 times a week. All depends on the week tho

  • --------------I try to have sex as often as possible. I know things slow down after a while but a healthy sex life is a huge key to a great relationship.

    ~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

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