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Why is it so bad for a women to dislike their partners jacking off to porn?

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  • Why are so many women so stupid, just hating that, when they should be asking to see what he likes, and then playing those roles, and maybe dressing up, or just teasing him like the porn girls!! DUH!!! Get him excited to WANT YOU, when you dress up like the girls he watches in porn!!
    You are RIGHT THERE, and 'Porn' is fantasy!! WHAT guy wouldn't prefer a beautiful woman, RIGHT THERE, with him, maybe doing some things that he was watching in porn? I would burn all mine, if she did similar things, REASONABLE THINGS!!! Oh, and Did that!!!
    Stop bitching, and talk to him, watch what he likes, and convince him YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT PORN!!! I guarantee, you will have his undivided attention!!

    • I've tried to buy a book (not flexible enough) I've suggested toys, roleplay.. he doesn't want to. I've tried everything I can possibly think of thats within my comfort zone.

    • I wish you had posted as someone I could chat with, privately. Not sure I can help, but some things, and maybe some more discussion, about how you relate, and him, and I can help you understand him, and it sounds like he's in a 'man-cave' mode. Your choice, for private chat.

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  • it is not a bad thing for a girl to ask her guy to not watch or view porn. but sometimes she is not always willing or able. to help him release stress and sexual tensions/desires. so he kind of just has to deal with it on his own sometimes.

    if you rather he not use porn for stimulus. consider being the stimulus yourself. either with direct contact or indirect contact means.

    works for most types of relationships
    works for most types of relationships
    Why is it so bad for a women to dislike their partners jacking off to porn?

    • So if i lets say- have the flu and he knows that I desperately want to be the only outlet for him sexually- it is fair for him to break his promise because i am sick and unable to perform for him?

    • if your sick then he should understand your not able to help directly. so he should support you in those times and help to make you feel better for when your able to help again. but once your up to it you could possible help indirectly. there is more to being a sexual relationship with someone then just physical contact. like wearing a outfit you know he likes seeing you in that turns him on for instance. can often be a good starting point if many cases. if your comfortable doing so could have him take a few photos. or share him some selfies of you even. to use as material to help relief himself when your not around. *does not have to be nudes or anything that reveling if you don't wish to do so.* sometimes it is difficult for a guy to draw on just his own memories alone. for material to use when releasing stress and sexual tense himself. so that is often why they turn to things like porn and other adult content.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because masterbating is a natural and healthy thing to do. Lord knows I'd break it off with a man who didn't want me to. It's my body and I can pleasure MYSELF if I want to.

    • I think sexual release is more important than reapect now and days. Its not hard to either not date someone who doesn't agree with porn or to date someone knowing that and respects it. But unfortunately, if a man needs a sexual release because i was unable to open my legs for him the moment he wants it- he breaks the agreement we had in the beginning because his sexual needs are more important than my feelings. I dont really care if people call me names and tell me im one way or another. I make clear my boundries to any guy before we are offical and if theyre respecting of it- then that means you stick to the respect

    • Respect? He isn't cheating on you. I mean, think how you want, but that is basically controlling in a nut shell. They are not bothering you and are RESPECTING your option to not have sex, by simply taking care of it themselves. He'll probs be thinking about you as he's doing it. he's not making love to anyone else, nor is he abusing you for sexual activity. It's more so a disrespect to think you can control a person for masterbating. But, I'm sure there are men with a fetish for being cuckholded, so, you'll def find a man out there! I mean, do you love, but masterbating has NOTHING to do with disrespecting ones partner. It's something we do when we are young and discovering ourselves. But hey, its your life

    • So MUTUALLY AGREEING agreeing on porn use is controlling? Can a guy not masturbate without porn or is that impossible? And also the "he's probably thinking of you" thing is false. Actually scientifically false lol. They are focusing on the images at the moment. Men are not mulitaskers by nature- they are one tack minded usually. When they like what they see and how the images are making them feel- they focus soley on those things. If I dated a man who said I dont want you posting sexy photos of yourself on social media because it makes me feel uncomfortable- id respect him.. instead of sayin "you're SO CONTROLLING FOR MAKING ME FEEL LIKE I can't WEAR WHAT I WANT!!!". nah thats bullshit too. If its too hard to respect an individuals boundaries then dont fucking date them. Simple. Its not that hard to not watch porn just as its not hard to not post sexy photos on social media.

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  • I dont think it's bad, I get it. But also I think guys are much for horny so unless ur sex drive matches. Then u may not always be in the mood or willing to help

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • For the same reason it's bad to dislike that a fish swims.

    • Not all men watch porn.

    • And not all fish swim. I know of one that hops and climbs trees. There are always exceptions. We don't judge all by the existence of one.

  • Look... guys jerk off to porn... it is going to happen.

    • Not all of them. Its funny- when girls gets upset about somthing a guy does its "every guy does it. Get over it." Then when a girl asks why 'every guy does xyz...' then they are a piece of shit who stereotypes. Men get defensive when generalized. But will generalize in defense.

    • To some extent I agree with you. I'm ok with a girl watching porn.

  • I can't see that it is that bad for you to object Does he do this on his own or do you watch the porn together Has he learned how better to please you from it This is something that needs discussing Have you tried to do the same with porn

    • He doesn't care if i come and will reject me when he's not in the mood. Its on HIS time and HIS pleasure.

    • Then he either has lowered how he feels about you and seen his role as the dominator He has become a selfish His feelings may have dwindled and it's now just sexual or at worse he is getting it elsewhere

  • I personally think porn is something that needs to be banned because it's not good in a relationship or for society in general. Now that's ideal and We all know women are super picky and men need a sexual outlet so that's why porn exists. As far as Me I think We need more outlets like prostitution and robots because those are healthier alternatives compared to porn and that's saying a lot.

  • My last partner encouraged me too look at porn as a source of research material too try new things with her, but strongly disapproved of me ejaculating outside of her mouth or vagina.

  • It's not a reasonable request.

    • So men are totally unable to not watch porn?

    • An unseasonable request would be asking someone not to breathe. Because that is not a choice. Watching porn is a choice.

    • Men need to relieve themselves and it's not reasonable for women to provide sex to men at all times of the day. It's similar to a man telling his woman to stop using Facebook or Instagram due to unwanted attention. It's unreasonable because you're trying to change a person when this act doesn't harm anyone, and it's a private affair.

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  • Because sometimes we cannot fuck.


    It’s not like we are having sex with other women.


    We have needs just like women do,


    If I had a girlfriend and she fingered herself to porn or used a dildo or whatever I would only be bothered if we are in a position where we could have sex.


    Does that make sense?

    • I have sex as much as he wants to the point where it hurts and he still needs to watch it. If I dont want him to im belittled and shamed because Im "insecure" and "controlling"

    • Ok I see where you’re coming from, you’re doing the most you can to please him. However. You could say that the reason why he is like this is because he has a high sex drive

    • Well i guess if a guy has a high sex drive it doesn't matter if he hurts his girlfriends self esteem. Because a mans sexual release is NUMBER ONE. above all else.

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  • because its a little on the controlling side of things. only teal exception would be if it causes him to not perform with her (you)

  • Guys are addicted to porn, so they want to cling to their vices.
    I am glad women still scold and think negatively of guys who jerk it to porn

    • Please tell us you're joking.

    • @Thatsamazing stop jerking off bro, you are wasting your masculine energy. Men should only cum with a woman.

    • My God man. Seek help.

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  • Because.

    Next.

  • I don't know it seems valid to me

  • Maybe it's because the younger the girl, the more she believes her boyfriend "only wants to get off" thinking about her - for the rest of their time together. Just shows how little girls know about guys, huh?

  • It gives the partner male or female the feeling that she or he is not good enough for the partner watching porn

  • Why does it bother women so much that guys will watch porn if your not gonna give it up or it doesn't turn you on to see me doing this I don't know if we should be fucking or anything

  • When woman is there to have sex, why should a guy ignore her and jackoff to porn?

  • I know they do, but I don't understand it, either. I wouldn't want my girl pleasuring herself to the visuals of others, too.

  • It's not necessarily bad, it's just kind of dumb.

    • This.

  • You should dislike your partner jagging off to porn

  • Stop being such a prude. You don't own his sexuality anymore than he owns yours.

  • I guess for the same reason men to dislike their partners using sex toys when their not around or can't make them orgasm?

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