Does man want a girlfriend mainly because they want to fuck her a lot?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Most of the time no. If all a guy is interested in a girl for is sex he'll probably want to sleep with her once (maybe two or three times if she's down). Eventually he'll get bored and move on. For a guy to want a committed relationship with a girl he's going to have to want to be with her for more than just sex and attracted to her for more than just her looks. I'm assuming that if you're someone's "girlfriend" there's some level of commitment in the relationship beyond just sex. If that's the case then no, there are many other reasons why he'd want a girlfriend (although understand that he's going to want that too). However, if there's little to no commitment involved than that's a completely plausible reason why a guy would want a girlfriend.

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's always going to be a factor, but many of us want far more than just that. For me, I want someone I can share my life with, and share experiences with and make memories with. I've had some of the best times in my life with girlfriends, whether it was just a road trip somewhere, or hiking in Yosemite, or going to Disneyland, or to concerts, or even staying at home playing Rock Band, or cooking together.

    It's usually not very difficult to tell what a guy's motivation is. I mean, sex is virtually always on that list, sure, but is there anything ELSE on the list? With some guys, the answer is obviously yes, and with some, the answer is obviously no. Choose accordingly.

  • I want a girlfriend because I want a wife. I want a wife for companionship, cuddling, kids, and lots of sexy fun. So partly.

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  • Yeah, pretty much.

  • Love is an instinct to mate, so technically yes. BUT! Love can develop into more than just sexual desire

  • No otherwise he would just look for a hookup

  • We want you- to want to have sex with us, a lot. It's that simple.

  • You know there are actually men out there that need women for companionship. There are actually rich older men whom will pay women just to hang out.

  • yes and no.

    typically if I want to be in a relationship with a female. it is because I enjoy her personality and attitude.

    however having the ability to have more chances at sex with her is a plus for sure.

  • Many do. Some, like me, want meaning.

  • If that's the main reason then most men might as well find someone to fuck rather than date.

  • Some of them yes.

  • No That's not why.

  • Yes.. That is all of it

  • not just sex. friendship, companionship, a true life partner

  • not "mainly" but that's certainly one big reason.

  • Usually, yeah.

  • It may surprise you but guy want closeness aswell as sex, we too want the bond of cuddles, kisses and being connected with someone

  • Not really

  • No i want more than that. I want a companion as well.

  • Not for me. It's because I really liked her and wanted a reason to show that.

  • There’s more to wanting a woman to have sex there’s a need for a relationship

  • relationships aren't relationships, if there's no sex

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