Have you ever had sex with someone & they say "If I was having sex with someone I didn't care about i'd let you do just that"? What does that mean?

I recently broke my rule about sleeping with someone who is a familiar person in my bar. Now, I'd been flirting with him hard for a while now, but i had figured it wouldn't go anywhere, so it was a safe bet to keep me entertained on the job. We had spent the day together & it ended with sex, we both had hit a dry spell & both of us needed a pick me up.
There are certain things i enjoy performing when i have sex, in this instance it's sucking my partner off until he cums, & while he was enjoying himself & i enjoying his breathy moans, he had said "If i was having sex with someone i didn't care about, i would so let you keep going."
I'm a firm believer in sex just being sex, & i normally dont read into what my partners say during sex, but i felt like my performance was subpar when he said this. The sex was still amazing, it was the first time i had rode a "power-bottom", but I was expecting it to be just sex, us enjoying what the other is doing to our body. Never once had i been told to stop because it felt too good before.
While i dont read into the whole "I got you", "I love you", the kissing, or the like during sex, or the cuddling afterwards if we are sharing a bed for the night, i just want to know what the hell "If i didn't care about you, i'd let you keep going" fucking means!
It's just sex, right?
Have you ever had sex with someone & they say "If I was having sex with someone I didn't care about i'd let you do just that"? What does that mean?
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