Have you ever had sex with someone & they say "If I was having sex with someone I didn't care about i'd let you do just that"? What does that mean?

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I recently broke my rule about sleeping with someone who is a familiar person in my bar. Now, I'd been flirting with him hard for a while now, but i had figured it wouldn't go anywhere, so it was a safe bet to keep me entertained on the job. We had spent the day together & it ended with sex, we both had hit a dry spell & both of us needed a pick me up.
There are certain things i enjoy performing when i have sex, in this instance it's sucking my partner off until he cums, & while he was enjoying himself & i enjoying his breathy moans, he had said "If i was having sex with someone i didn't care about, i would so let you keep going."
I'm a firm believer in sex just being sex, & i normally dont read into what my partners say during sex, but i felt like my performance was subpar when he said this. The sex was still amazing, it was the first time i had rode a "power-bottom", but I was expecting it to be just sex, us enjoying what the other is doing to our body. Never once had i been told to stop because it felt too good before.
While i dont read into the whole "I got you", "I love you", the kissing, or the like during sex, or the cuddling afterwards if we are sharing a bed for the night, i just want to know what the hell "If i didn't care about you, i'd let you keep going" fucking means!
It's just sex, right?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I look at it 2 ways when we are having good sex the best sex we have and out of body experience if he had been drinking and you giving him the best blow job every maybe you had him peeking he didn't know if he was coming or going. Either way he was going to make sure you new thank you and paybacks are blessed lol

See there were 2 was I seen it and either I for got the second one or there both in the first one lmao

CoolGuyJoe · Accepted Answer

You were blowing him and he said he'd just let you keep blowing him if he didn't care about you. I think he was saying that he wanted to make sure you got your fair end of the deal (a good dick-down 👀) instead of him just getting head and calling it a night.

ManWithThePlan123 · Answer

It means he thinks of you as more than that, he wants to be slower/more romantic. He wants to stop because he cares too much about you, going by what he is saying. Now, I don't know exactly how true that is.

Jjpayne · Answer

It sounds like, if I ever broke a rule I'd allow you to break a rule too. If I ever had a sex standard id allow you to have the same sex standard too.. Something like that