Can sex turn into a way to apologize to someone?

Let’s suppose you and this person are Separated for some reason after a serious fight and you guys haven't seen each other in months. You 2 meet and decide to have sex and the other person thinks that its a way to say sorry and wants to start over. is it acceptable?🤔
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  • Yeah why not.. it would be quite fun. Let's suppose my partner is upset for any reason, let it be, so I would first talk to him sweetly, I will go on my knees and apologize for the mistake. I would keep on give him gently small kisses like on hands, cheeks, lips till he accepts apologies.
    If he is still angry, I would go down on my knees, unzip his pants, start caressing his dick, offer my tongue and lips for his dick to enjoy them. And atlast, I would have sex with him, so that he feels better and accepts my apologies. I think it would be too hot to handle

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  • Well why wouldn't it be if you were willing to sleep with them. It sounds to me like a clear statement "I've forgiving so I'm having sex with you"
    The question sounds ridiculous to me. If you didn't find their actions acceptable and if you weren't willing to forgive them why sleep with them. That's like when a child is naughty and you bribe them with icecream instead of giving them a timeout.
    Make up your mind. If you didn't forgive him stop sleeping with him and find another. If you're that upset by their actions and you keep sleeping with them you are going to regret it. Your conscience or pride will nag at you.
    You would only be letting yourself down.

    Now that said I have had makeup sex but that was what it was I'm sorry he's sorry let's not do that again let's move on.

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  • That depends on feelings u/him and mistake if one of u ended in another's bed, if sex was mistake with a man/girl and was just a s*ag how did you both find out,? but my story I was hurt when I found out my wife was doing all men her darts team , it took years to trust a girl agai, and when I found a girl, we both told each other got hurt by people, we both agreed no going behind back, so I said (I'm 37 she was 17yold at time) if she ever wante sex with other man tell him she is married, and take him back, we both can enjoy it 3sums, we both been 10yrs 2gethr and a son now,3sums with her still existing x

  • Lets say i call you a bitch for ignoring me. You storm off. 3months later you feel suicidal because how could someone call you such a horrible thing.
    Then i message you, lets sort this out, wanna fuck? would you
    It's saving your life and an apology.

    • Actually what i meant in my question is that you had sex after an actual apology and this sex was part of it

    • So I have to apologize for calling you a bitch first? 🤔 No lol id only offer sex to settle our differences and well as I'm a virgin you'd be getting more than you deserved anyway

    • Virgin!😳

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  • It's a good way to let our your frustration or other feelings, but you still need to talk about that fight especially if it was that big.

  • If the fight was about a lack of wanting to have sex then absolutely.
    Or about lack of affection, maybe.
    If a way to shut up the person so they didn't have to listen to them talk anymore, then no.

    But maybe it's best not to overanalyze it. Life happens, people are people. Not everything has to be dissected.

  • Maybe some BDSM sex would be - as a way for him, or her, to prove that they are really sorry and to be punished for their misdeeds :)

    Can sex turn into a way to apologize to someone?Can sex turn into a way to apologize to someone?
  • Of course. I'm pretty kinky so it very likely start with a hot, hard bare bottom spanking fur being so bad. Would you be up for that to open the festivities?

  • Accepting a rough ass pounding has long been a way of apologizing.

    • Well purple poppy I'm. Sorry before I say it, if it was you I would like you to apologize to me everyday I would give you a rough ass pounding while spanking xxx

    • Lolll

  • Well something happens it's bad enough for you both to break up. Then you meet in 2 MONTHS and have sex .. what your both doing is telling each there ok I'm over I forgive ,, it's ok what you did to me.. or thank you for forgiving me on what I did to you ,, now I see it didn't matter because your fucking me again ,,,,

  • Sure, It's called make up sex and is often the best sex there is.

  • Depends. I say no most likely cause it is basically just entertaining and benefiting yourself. Doesn't correct actions.
    You apologize with action to counter your mistake, not with words or sex.

    • People who say yes , say yes until they find out what she did (giving benefit if doubt)... they will have sex but not forgive according to the mistake.

    • True

  • It can be but only if you both know it is. You’ve got to communicate that apology or it’s just sex with an ex. Don’t assume the other person knows or thinks the same as you. Never assume.

  • Nope. I don't think any action is an acceptable replacement for the words "I am sorry". In your situation I think a discussion needs to be had and if all gets sorted out and apologies were made then you can do what you want to reconcile after.

  • Yes, you can engage in selfless sex where its all about your partner and their gratification.

  • Make-up sex can be more satisfying than usual one, however this is just displacement of the problem.

  • some of the best sex I had with my ex was when I was angry

  • Yep makeup sex

  • If you’ve been apart for months, why would you sleep with them at all?


    Sex does not eradicate any memories, so how can it be used to say sorry?

    • This isn't about me answer based on how you see yourself in this situation

  • It shouldn't, because you should not consider sex to be something you give, unless you are a professional.

  • It's called a "pity fvck" and is absolutely the worst decision you can make.
    Not only does it make you the weaker one out the two. But also makes you the "bit on the side" for them to screw over.

    • No it’s called make up sex. Pity sex is something totally different.

  • No it's a dumb thing that mostly people with Bpd try to do to correct things. Sex cannot solve the core issue all you will do is have sex get into a fight and repeat until one of you get's sick of it and the problems become worse. It may work very rarely that been said tho, but that would have to be a pretty small fight.

  • Depends how bad it was. If it was something really bad then don't let them manipulate you with sex.

  • As long as the other person accepts that as an apology , 2 months is a long time to be mad at someone and not see or talk to them so if they were giving me sex to apologize , I wouldn’t really trust them I had an ex girlfriend do this to me ran into her 4 months after we broke up and then ended up having sex with her again , basically used her to get off because the love and trust I use to have for her was broken so after I got off on her I never called her again

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