Should boyfriend get a say in me getting a boob job?

[LesterJester]

Well, his opinion should be taken into consideration, but at the end of the day, it's your body and you make the final call.

But also don't forget that he also has the right to end the relationship if it bothers him that much. I mean, anybody has the right to end a relationship for whatever reason they see fit, petty or serious.

I personally don't like implants. I don't find the scars attractive, they may look nice in certain outfits, but when the clothes are off, they look odd... And during sex, the jiggling really shows the implants are there as you have this secondary lump out of sync with everything else.

I'd rather my partner be flat chested than have implants.

But, if it helps with your confidence or fixes issues that really concern you that have been bugging you for a long time and the decision is based on what you want for yourself, I can respect that.

I still wouldn't prefer implants being done, but if it's for the right reasons for yourself, I can at least respect the decision.

He can express his opinion and request that you reconsider, but him forbidding it?

He doesn't fk'n own you and he's out of line. That alone would make me dump him instead.

[simonqq]

Well it's obviously your choice but if he was going to spend money on something unnecessary you would probably have opinions too. Also silicone breasts are just objectively less attractive than natural so he might be less attracted to you as well.

Personally it's kind of a deal breaker.

In the end no one can stop you but I would really think about it. Why do you want them bigger, and have you seen how silicone breasts look like?

[RemoErdosain]

I think this should be a big red flag for him. Nobody gets a boob job "for themselves". Who are you trying to fool? You like attention. You want men to perceive you as hotter. Now, your partner just told you he WON'T perceive you as hotter if you do that, and it'll be the opposite, so whose attention are you so desperately craving?

To answer your original question, he doesn't get to decide, but if I were him, I'd be running away right now, as you're basically making a statement that you're a whore

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well its your body and your choice, but that doesn't mean he doesn't deserve an opinion. He is the one your showing them off to after all. So if you dismiss what he says then clearly you don't really value his opinion. Thats not to say you can't disagree with him but hear him out at least, he is your partner after all. You also have to consider what your actions are going to do to his perception of you. I mean if he decided to get surgery for what ever reason, wouldn't you want him to consider your feelings in the matter? So he can't stop you, but he does get to have an opinion and let you know that he wants you the way you are not some modified person. Personally I think thats rather sweet of him since he is saying he loves you for you and you don't seem to.

[JessPHX]

C cups are a great size... at least I love my C's.

He should defiantly get to give his opinion, but the choice is yours.

My opinion is don't do it... I know too many women that really regret getting it done.

If he was considering penis augmentation... would you want to have a say in it?

[Guffrus]

Well you can do what you like, he is telling you how he feels about it, he must know that he can't actually stop you from doing it so i would interpret 'forbidding you' as he really doesn't want you to do that, I wouldn't either.

I can't imagine why you would want to ruin your boobs for no reason at all, but you obviously dont see it that way, thats how he sees it and its how i see it too.

[Reaperbot666]

I much prefer natural breasts over fake ones myself.

to some extend you can add or reduce size to your breasts naturally. with changes to your exercise/diet routine. since natural breasts are mostly made up of fat and muscle tissue.

there is also hormone injections. which can add more size to select body zones.

but your welcome to do as you wish really.

[MsTaniaUncensored]

It is your body so your choice to make. If you love him you should factor in his feelings when making your choice but it is ultimately yours in the end.

C cup is perfect though. I'd be so happy if I was gifted withna rack like yours sister. ;)

[Anonymous]

if married he might should get a say-if just a boyfriend no-Owners get to make modifications to their properties while renters do not (Not saying that he owns you but that renters come and go-as do BFs-and a spouse's opinion should be considered as the assumption is permanency).

[crmoore]

Overall, no, at least not in the sense that his preference should have any direct power over yours. It's your body, so ultimately it is your decision. But I personally think any decent relationship would at the very least take their opinion into consideration. I know my significant other's opinion would be a decently influential factor in my ultimate decision, but that's because I actively want it to be.

[OlderAndWiser]

"Should he get a say?"

No, he does not have any right to make the decision for you.
Yes, he should have a right to express his opinion.
Yes, he should have a right to have you consider his opinion before you make your decision.
Yes, he has a right to break up with you if your decision is contrary to his expressed wishes.

C cup boobs are quite ample. Why do you want bigger than that? Very few guys date women who have only D cup or larger.

[jns004m]

I'd say no. I would inform him that this is something you are seriously considering, because you are a couple. Outside of that, there is no reason to ask for his permission. If he threatens to leave or starts being childish about it, then I guess you have learned something new about your boyfriend 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

I think it largely depends on your reason (s) for doing it. You could certainly get his opinion (the choice is ultimately yours). If it was reversed, would you want him to get your opinion if he was changing his body in some way? I can say this, for some guys it could definitely be a turn off so it very well could affect the relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes he should because he’s an important part of your life. Your boobs are cine! Don’t take the risks of getting implants because it’s not like you’re flat.

[kmike2020]

ask his opinion, and you decide on that and how you feel about him ,,, but ultimately no ,,,,, husband is a diff story,,, but boyfriend really has no ground

[Quackthulu]

That depends, what is more important to you, cramming lumps of unnecessary crap inside your body, or the relationship with the guy who obviously cares about you?

[Wise4myage]

Your body, your choice. Its as simple as that. He has no right to forbid from doing this. Does he think he's your father or something? What a tool.

[Marilynjuana]

Yes it is your body and blah blah but personally I would also consider his opinion. Why, because I care about what my partner thinks.

[WindAtMyBack]

He can have an opinion, but it's entirely your choice.

I have an opinion also. I think it's stupid. But again, it's entirely your choice.

[Anonymous]

No he shouldn't get a say as it's your body, your choice and if you'd like larger breasts then I say go for it! 😋😈🔥💦💦😉🤩

[Jman001]

No it’s your body. It would be different if he were your husband

[Dargil]

If a girl I was dating got one, I would see myself out.