Have u given up in love?

Anonymous

I have. I am virgin on my 30's I haven't met the love nor the sex. I gave up on frienship as well. This world is rotten and crowded with bad bad people.

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Cynicaldreamer Influencer
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Yeap, gave up on it when I was around your age actually.

I say this a lot, but it's true in most cases: it's easier and less drama to be single and happy with yourself, than deal with chasing after something that may or may not happen to you. Or if it does, it usually leads to heartbreak.

Whereas when you're single, no one can hurt you! You learn to love yourself instead.
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- Asker
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  But you probably know sex and romance. Not my case.

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Luna1998 Explorer
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Turning 22 in 5 days, still vigin, never dated, never have a boyfriend, and I understand how you feel when you said you are tired of trying, cause im too lol
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- Asker
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  Yeah the same situation being more than 10 years older... YEAH SURE

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Soteris Guru
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I am not interested in love for different reasons but what it feels like to me is that you have not been exposed to the right kind of people. There are good people out there, you just need to go out and find them.
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- Asker
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  They are not... I have been working for years in costumer service... trust I met a lot of people and NO there are no good. people anymore
- Soteris
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  Strange. I have meet plenty throughout my life. People who only want to do right by you and always make sure to be there for you even if you are just one of their friends. Those that are supportive and always tries to make sure they spread happiness rather than negative feelings.
- Asker
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  And this helps me in?
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- Soteris
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  It does not. It only points out that you are wrong.
- Asker
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  No that only shows you are a selfish person who instead trying to understand others problems you talk about yourself. If u have been lucky it doesn't me other can be too. Selfish guy.
- Soteris
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  Except my experiences are not unique, its the norm. Its what you should expect if you go out and meet people.
Berethor Master
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You right about that, but as a man I am learned to accept that life is tough.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/thestoic
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- Asker
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  I know life is hard since I am a kid
- Berethor
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  Then why are you surprised? you was never totally naive , even though you are virgin.
  
  tvtropes.org/.../WideEyedIdealist
  
  tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheIngenue
- Asker
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  You were*
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- Asker
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  You are using my question to auto promotion?
- Berethor
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  Promotion of what? TV Tropes is a free site like Wikipedia, and it's not like your question has much depth in the first place, the only detail that we know about you is that you are a 30 years old virgin, though the fact that you are a girl, makes you stand out more, if you was a guy your question was much less notable. It's quite easy to find sex as a female, though it's not necessarily easier to find love as a girl, there is much higher chance of being sexually used as a girl, so the fact that it's much easier to find sex as a girl has downsides. You talk about bad bad people, but looks like no one had used you, at least not sexually, so maybe the people around you not so bad after all, or you are very good at keeping yourself safe, anyway you aware that being a virgin makes you look more valuable to some guys? so it's not all bad.
  
  tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenActWomenAre
  
  tvtropes.org/.../TheWomenAreSafeWithUs
- Asker
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  So un your standars bad people have to use you to you to consider them bad people? Wow Can you think How fucked are you?
- Berethor
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  Never said that, but you being overdramatic, like many females, your "bad bad people" are not so bad. Now you also see me as bad bad because I point that out, life could be worse girl.

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dudeinohio Master
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Never give up.
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- Asker
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  I did sorry I am very tired of trying
Nahid1707 Guru
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No you’ll find someone I’m sure
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- Asker
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  Why are you so sure?
- Nahid1707
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  You want love and you have to be patient
- Asker
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  I gave up
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- Nahid1707
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  Oh I’m sorry
asshole_ Yoda
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some people are just fucking retards
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- Asker
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  Some? I am 34 years old and I haven't met a truly good person yet... not fucking one.
- asshole_
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  Cause you're being too picky Nobody's perfect
- Asker
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  Picky? How can you assume that if you don't know me at all?
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- Asker
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  For being picky people need to like you and show interest in you... NOT MY CASE
- asshole_
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  nope, you're just picky
- Asker
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  And you don't know nothing about life
- asshole_
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  Actually I do. I'm pretty smart. I'm not an idiot like you
In_Trance Master
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Everyone in your position thinks this way. Imagine if you had or still do put as much time and energy into working on your dating game as you have into negative thinking how different life would be
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- Asker
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  Dating game? Do you assume I had dates?
- In_Trance
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  I make no assumptions. It is however, irrational to give up without ever trying
mrgspoter Yoda
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Not all are you will find some but I feel lime this it's horrid.
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Anonymous
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why do you think you are still single?
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Anonymous
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How long have you been single now?
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- Asker
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  I AM VIRGIN... You haven't read the question?
- Opinion Owner
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  I apologize, have you tried online dating or dating apps?
Anonymous
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Never give up; never surrender.
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- Asker
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  Nah sorry I am old enough to realise I am gonna be alone... And it hasn't been for lack of trying... believe me